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writes: I went to china over 3 years ago. Met a married woman who hasnt slept with husband for over 6 years but still live in same house(big house)and yes I know that part is true. Ive been lied to since I first met her and yet wouldnt walk away. Now I know Im being cheated on and I still struggle with leaving. I became borderlined homeless because this has consumed me. I feel like a part of me gave up. I have this real empty feeling inside and yet I still struggle with leaving. I just dont get it. Ive been cheated on may times in the past but this is different. I looked at a recent picture of her and to be honest I dont see the attraction. Any advice ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): I can't tell which woman is cheating on you... the one who was sleazy enough to sleep with a married man, or the one who stayed marry to him. Please clarify.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (20 April 2010):
Oh lawd. It sounds more like you're addicted to this woman. How much contact have you had with her since meeting her three years ago in China? Becoming borderline homeless because of this; feeling empty inside and having been cheated on many times in the past indicates problems you need to learn to deal with.Have you considered getting counseling? If not, I hope you will. I expect other "aunts" and "uncles" will respond but there's really more going on than we can be of too much help to you with......
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