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Mutual masterbation. I don't know what to do.

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Question - (20 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years since the 6th grade, now we are in 8th. we have taked about fingering and a handjob. But i don't know what to do, nor do i now what to use if i shave. I just feel like it would be akward the first time. I would really like it if some one told me how it went. Thank you:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010):

I know exactly how you feel.

3 years is a pretty long time, espcially for people in middle school.

If you've been together so long, You should feel pretty comfortable about a lot of things.

Its going to be awkward and uncomfortable, at least mine was. But after a while, you get use to it and forget about the uncomfortable stuff and just enjoy the pleasure.

Now if you haven't done anything to yourself before, you might want to try a couple times before doing it with him.

You should only shave if you want to, don't do it just because he says he wants it that way.

Also, with shaving, for the first time, you're most likely going to get razor burn and it'll give you little red bumps and stuff, not the prettiest sight. so you might want to do it a couple times before being with him.

also, if you wanna find what good shaving cream and stuff for you, google it.

there are some sites that tell you whats good for your skin/hair and whats bad.

and last but not least, don't be forced to do anything you don't want to do.

you should stand up and say you don't want to do anything, if that's the case.

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