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male
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36-40,
*tj
writes: I was over her a girl who for sure liked me bigtime. My best friends said so, family friends, heck they even thought we would be a good married couple even though we were only friends. I was in love with her and asked her out twice with a lot of time in between. Both times she seemed really excited and agreed, but nothing ever happened. I can write a novel on the things she did to make me think she liked me. I hadn't seen her in a while and saw her last week. I spent time with her and she made me feel like only she could. I met another girl who helped me forget about her. Even though everytime I talk to her she makes me get that butterfly feeling, I forget about the new girl once I spend a tiny bit of time with the old acquantaince. My question is, what do I do? I haven't asked out the new girl, and I planned to, but know I'm starting to think about my old crush again. What do you do when only one person can truly make you feel like the king of the world?Thanks.
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reader, btj +, writes (20 April 2010):
btj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEven if I asked her out twice already? Thanks for answering!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): You tell her exactly how you feel. One thing girls admire is when a guy owns up to his feelings. Most guys are to busy thinking about thier pride to ever admit to having feelings for the one who is most special to them. And thats how they loose this special person-through not being MAN enough to own up to there feelings. If we don't think your interested we won't persue you.
If she likes you she'll be thrilled about your honesty.
And the two of you will hopefully live happily ever after :). If however she doesnt feel the same way at least you know where you stand. Good luckk
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