A
female
age
30-35,
*tubelz
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now .. And we've tried to have sex 3 times .. And every time the condom goes on .. He just loses his erection ..However .. When we're doing our lil foreplay (masturbating .. etc) Everything is fine .. He doesn't go down then .. Its just when we go to have sex ..He's a virgin and he smokes weed but recently stopped .. I'm not a virgin .. So I don't know if it's because of that .. Or the weed .. Maybe it's me ..He tells me it's not me and that it's the weed .. but it's happened more than once .. So I don't know if he's lying or not ..His friend smokes weed too .. and he doesn't lose his erection when he is having sex .. Soo is it me? Is it the weed?Cos this is making me feel really insecure with myself.
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reader, mr motivator +, writes (21 April 2010):
Well the likelihood is is that its neither the weed nor you, although from my recollection of biology at school weed and other drugs can effect blood circulation, and the hormones/stimulants in the brain.
But, the likelihood is, id feel inclined to believe that its the fact hes never done it before and hes so scared of getting it wrong, or not being able to perform that his erection goes as his mind focuses on worry not pleasure so to speak
It will come with time
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): You are way too young to be having sex. Worry about your grades and being a respectful member to your parents and of society. Maybe this is a sign-you know everything happens for a reason. Perhaps you would end up pregnant or with some disease or something, I'm telling you-IT'S A SIGN. Stop hanging out with people who do illegal drugs, too. You are worth more than that. The quality of your life depends on the choices you make. Stop feeling insecure. This guy is a loser, he's the one who is insecure.
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