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writes:My boyfriend of 3 months, dumped me yesterday. In the middle of a class, in front of quite a few people. Not sure if they heard what happened, but they were there.I left early to try and collect myself. I ended up going home and crying harder than I've ever cried over a boy.I'm going through a lot at the moment, living far far away from my best friend, my grandmother just died, and I'm currently having a lot of health issues.He meant a lot to me, he was sort of my shoulder to lean on and make me happy.Now I can't seem to go 10 minutes without thinking about him and getting all down and depressed. My friends are worried. Everyone is giving me advice, but I'm not sure what to do.Some people say that I should just let him have some space then go and talk to him.others say I should act like its not affecting me and acknowledge him when hes around but not really talk to him.and others just say I should forget about him and move on.I'm so confused as to what to do, I've never felt like this before.He wants to still be friends, but I'm not sure I can without talking to him about what happened. I really don't want to mess this up.Any advice??
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reader, raiders +, writes (20 April 2010):
 The break up is recent so being friends is not a good idea, you will hurt more taking this approach. I think you should move on, if he didn't give you a reason for the break up than he is an immature person who was not really that into you. What should be important to you and matter more is that he did not want to be with you he left you with out giving you an explanation. Respect yourself cry in your room in your privacy but not in front of him be strong. Give it time and you will get him out of your system, please move on. Good Luck.
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reader, maelene +, writes (20 April 2010):
 If you do not know the reason why he dumped you, then it is easy to feel the way you do. I would suggest talking to him about it because you need closure in order to move on or at least the reason why he did what he did. It's only fair that he tells you. maelene
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