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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been together with my boyfriend for 2months plus and things are getting a little physical now... I began to doubt whether is he really in love with me or is he only interested with my body... with the amount of sexual needs I can provide him with.....But don't worry I am still a virgin and he is a virgin too....He came to my house 2 days ago and stayed until 4am plus....We french kissed in my room, and he started touching me allover until and I have to stopped him when he reaches to my private parts...I am enjoying it but I am afraid too......I don't want everything to be that physical right at the beginning that explains why I stopped him from touching my private areas..... because I am still unsure if he is true to me.....He onced told me that he cannot promise me anything because he knows that guys can be bastard in a long run when they loose a tinge of "freshness" in the girl. And he is very afraid that a relationship will fade away as time passes... I seriously don't know what he means? I asked my guy friends and they told me that he is just trying to be very honest with you as in he knows about a problem with all guys and he is so going to prevent it from happening to us...I really don't know ... Please HELP ME.....I don't want to restrict my love for him
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reader, rambini  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 if this guy really cares about you he will wait until you are ready to do anything physical. not being physical with someone is not restricting your love at all. love comes from trust and friendship and affection. i have many friends who got married before they were physical with their husbands, and they clearly loved each other enough to get married. you should only do what you feel comfortable with, once you have given your virginity away you can never get it back. a guy who cares about you will respect your decision and will wait until you are ready. if this guy wont wait, he isnt worth it. when the right guy comes along he will love the fact that you had the self respect to wait for someone special.
good luck
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