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Should I accept a big pay reduction in order to achieve my dream?

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Question - (20 April 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A female age , anonymous writes:

I have a good job in education but it was not my dream job. I have always dreamt of working for a large international airline as cabin crew. I turned down a job with BA to take up a management job. Now I am hating it. I love the money but no longer the job.

I have interst from Virgin and they want to interview me but it will mean taking a £24,000 drop in salary. I am sure I could work my way up with Virgin with my skills and experience - Any wise comments welcomed.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (26 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntThanks for your update .It is great to see that you still have the enthusiasm and zest in life. All the best to you !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

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Thank you all for replying. I am nearly 50 and there are so many things I wanted to do when i was younger but I was so restless and my track record was not good. I have now done 13 years in Local Government and 10 of those teaching. I feel its time to reward myself with some thing fun while I still have some energy.

Thanks for helping me make the right decision. I can always do things to supplement my income if need be.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (24 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntWhich is more important to you , money or happiness?

If you can get along with less money and it is not a problem,then you should go for happiness.

You only live once.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (24 April 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntLook, you don't get many opportunities to be happy, and remember, you can't replace lost time. You can always get more money. Ok, I know the economy sucks right now, but everyone gets a new job eventually and you can probably get another lucrative job in the future.

Is this Virgin, as in Virgin Airlines?

Ok, maybe the job isn't particularly lucrative, but there are perks you all get for free, right? Stuff like trips to other countries? People pay the big bucks for stuff like that.

It would be nice to own a Ferrari, but no one was ever old and dying and lamented, on their deathbed, "Oh man I wish I had owned more expensive cars."

I say go for it!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010):

Depends on what you want.

Do you want to be able to afford more, expensive things; but dread going to your job? Or do you want to love going to your job, and take a hit in pay?

Another question to ask, is what if your dream job isn't what you think it is. My uncle did that...always wanted to be a truck driver, got the training and became one, lasted only two weeks and quit. You need to compare your options, and see what exactly you want and are willing to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010):

If you love what you do for a living then you are a very lucky person, I say go for it as long as you can afford the drop in wages.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2010):

You hate the job, but love the money. That's understandable. But, let's face it, the dream matters more. You said yourself that you want to work in the cabin crew. If that's what you want, and you can do it, then go for it.

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