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writes:I havnt been talking to my best friend. This week we haqve no school. I'm busy and he's been going to red sox games and bruins. It bothers me that he is not bothered by me not talking to him. I dont know what to do? I think about him without trying to. I'm going to forget him and he doesnt care about me. He says he cares but he doesnt. I got badly burned on my arm and went to the hospital. He doesn't care. Should I talk to him about it?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 April 2010):
 Quiet-Echo and Laura:
Hurrah for your comments! Right on target. I can understand her feeling hurt (physically as well as emotionally), but I had the sense the poster was making rather more of not hearing from him for a week(!) than was warranted. That's why I hope she'll see what happens when school begins again, and encounters him then.
It may well be one of those things that simply works itself out with no problem........
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Sorry about your arm. I hope you arm is better now. It could be a misunderstanding .You should talk to him and find out the truth before you want to forget him.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (20 April 2010):
When your arm was hurt and you went to hospital, did your friend ask you how it happened? Did he even know? Perhaps not, since you say he doesn't care.
I'm sorry you are hurt by his behavior. However, as you said, there's no school at present, and he's busy, as are you. Why don't you wait until school starts again and when you see him, play it by ear and see what happens?
I hope it all works out the way you want.
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