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writes:I have a problem i drive truck over the road and i like what i do. I am gone for a month and half at a time. I meet this girl and we hit it off right away and been dating for 5 months at first we would talk on the phone for hours on end about everything and latley we barley talk at all and she get mad over small things like me not answering right away but she is like that one minute then she is like i love you and miss you the next and then when i call her she does not call me back for hours so can she be cheating on me? or is there ways to spice things up again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): maybe she doesn't feel the same way we just need to have more communication
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): Your totally lacking something. I am trying not to be mean, but you need to see her more. Less communication means less love. Trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): Your totally lacking something. I am trying not to be mean, but you need to see her more. Less communication means less love. Trust me.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 April 2010):
I think it's more likely she just feels a little rejected. There isn't enough to say that she's cheating. I've always found with women that if you do talk to them gently, they will open up. So maybe it's worth talking to her and saying you've noticed she seems to be a little offhand, and that you'd like to know how you can make her feel more reassured that you care and that you are there for her. I like the idea of sending a postcard from the places you visit too.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Hun, your gf is probably feeling neglected. Send her some sweet or sexy texting, or some flowers, when you do see her give her some small gift, say that you bought it when you were travelling through such-and-such a place.
Make her feel that you really are into her and that you are thinking of her even when you are far away working.
Honeygirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): It seems like she's just getting comfortable in the relationship. I wouldn't have shouted at my bf in the beginning for not picking up the phone as we were still dating. But now after three years I will ask him what he was doing if he doesn't pick up when I call. Its just about comfort levels. From what you have said, there does not seem to be any indication she is cheating.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Send her romantic love messages on postcards from those places where you stopped by.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (20 April 2010):
Based on what you said, I wouldn't say she's cheating unless you have more details. She could be waiting to call you back so she doesn't seem like such a nag because it sounds like she wants to talk to you more. If you can't see her for more than a month at a time, do things to let her know you're thinking about her. Every once in a while send her flowers or do something thoughtful that you're capable of doing while you're away. Girls like that stuff, especially if it's basically a long distance relationship. I'm sure she also notices that things aren't how they used to be, so she may be pulling away a little. Do some thoughtful gestures (not too much), but just enough to make her still feel like she's someone special to you. If she keeps remaining distant or things don't improve, then it's probably time to reevaluate the relationship.
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