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30-35,
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writes:My ex has written me back again. This time telling me that she's learned a lot during the no contact period but has been missing me very much, incredibly much and is confused on whether or not talking to me will make things more or less painful. This is the moment I've been waiting for but I'm just so unsure of what to do or what to think of this and whether she's pointing towards reconciliation or not. She makes no mention of getting back together, is she still not wanting to get back? What if she's just wanting to use me to ease the pain, like use me as a cushion to get over me? I know in our last breakup talking to eachother led to reconciliation but I just don't know. I feel like I need more time but at the same time I feel like what if she'll just start to get over me? I just need a bit more time to get my thoughts together but I need to know what to say. I'm glad this has happened and no contact did make her miss me and the ball is in my court now, I just hope I don't do the wrong thing.
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reader, maelene +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Hi you are on a good start, missing you is a sure sign of getting back together. Give her space and time to be sure about you. Be supportive and let her know you'll always be there. She's telling you she's confused about things so let her clear things up first with herself and she will come back to you. Try not worry if she'll get over you, these things don't happen overnight. She still loves you!
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