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41-50,
*weetie31
writes:I have been married for 2 years now and we have a son. My problem is I develop feelings for other men. The first time was a new employee in my office. I had strong feelings for him to the extent that it affected my work. I had to tell him. He had to quit work and walk out of my life for good as I was keeping on calling him every now and then. The relationship ended like 4 months ago. Now it is my student. He is married with a son like me. I have strong feelings for him and he feels the same for me. We discussed it over the phone but it is hard for me to lose him. He keeps on calling me and I call him sometimes. I dont want anything to happen between us as i'll be teaching him next semester.Nowwhat should I do to stop loving other men?When it first started I had to keep myself locked up and drop all the friends that I had. I didnt want it to happen again. Now it has happened to this student though i never talk to him in public except over the phoneHow can I continue to teach in his class while he is there?Will that affect my lectures? what about his understanding?This has happened so quick that am afraid the next time it might be my bossHow can I keep my friends without developing feelings for them and them without developing feelings for me?Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): That has happened before I was married. I loved someone who did not love me by then. it healed over time.
About my relationship with my husband, the marriage is more of principles. He is very good in bed and that makes me love him but we have different hobbies. He is quite and I am talkative. I like going out and he like staying indoor. On top of that I like a man who challenges a woman. As for him he just appreciates me and say yes to whatever I say or think. I dont like that but he is good mannered and he respects me so much. I didnt want to marry him in the first place but he made me accept him and the fact that he is good manered made me decide to marry him
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): Maybe you should consider leaving the man you're married too?
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