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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Sorry this might be a little long but i need to explain. So 4 years ago a family moved to my town. I became friends with the girl from the family. She had an older brother who is about 2-3 years older than me. Ever since I saw him for the first time I was attracted to him. there was something about the way he did things, which led me to having a major crush on him. So 4 years went by and I still continued to like him but it sorta faded. But not long ago I saw him again and it all came back to me. One time I called him up and we were on the phone with each other for the whole night and our conversation got a little weird when he asked me to have phone sex with him. I agreed because I was to nervous to say no. The next morning he invited me over to give him 'head'. I had plans so I couldn't of gone over, but even if I was free I still don't think I would. After that was over it made me like him so much more and I didn't know what to do. He's the older popular guy who can get whatever girl he wants, and I'm just some girl that's younger then him, and I'm nothing too special. The week after I told the wrong person about what had happened and they told other people, which led him to getting in trouble with his friends and being mad at me. Fortunately he forgave me, and I am very grateful for that. Now all I'm waiting for is to spend some actual time with him because I really like him and I want to get to know him more. But the only way I can see him is through my friends who live near him and know him. But the only way that will probably work out is by going to my friends house who's brother is good friends with him and can have him older while I'm there...That could take forever some I'm sorta at a standstill. Mean while in his life he was a girl friend who he's going through troubles with. If I ever see him I wouldn't exactly know what to do. I'm practically in love with him, and all I really want from him is to be his friend. I think he's one of the greatest guys in the world and I want him to know that I'll always be there for him and I'll always care about him. I can't just tell him that because he doesn't know me like I know him, and that would be weird of me to do that. What can I do to prove to him that I care about him and want to be his good friend? Whenever 're-meet' him it will be like meeting a semi-stranger to him, and for me it would be meeting the highlight of my life. And I know that I really like him, but that wont effect me from just wanting a friendship. I mainly just care about him because I watched him grow up and formed this special thing for me. So basically I just want to know what do next...Like when I see him again. (I try not to talk to him a lot because I don't want him to get annoyed) Thank you!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 April 2010):
 He does not want to get to know you better. He does not want to be your friend.
All he wants from you is that you give him sex phone and "head " on demand. Actually- he does not even want it that much, otherwise he would have found a way to contact you again after you did not go to his house.
Of course, if you scheme, hustle, and manipulate- you may get out of him 10 minutes of his time in which he can use you and then drop you like a dirty rag.
I can't believe that at 16 this is all you look forward to ,in matters of love of romance.
You might not be a beauty, so ? You deserve better. Anybody deserves better than that.
come back to your sense, and stay away from this guy.
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