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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Seriously guys, why can't I get girls to show any interest in me? Please help me Cupid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I'm writing to ask your advice on a problem that has remained unsolved for me since I was about 17. I'm 30 now! It's a pretty straightforward problem: I can't get a girlfrind, girls just don't seem to be interested in me. See? I told you it was straightforward. I'm... (1202 words)

His skype had strange messages from girls wanting to webcam!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, any help would be much appreciated. My boyfriend and I have been going out 2 years. Were currently in a long distance relationship. I logged into his skype account to send a text as I had no credit on mine and he had messages from 2 girls who I've never heard of ... (128 words)

I'm still stumped if my best friend really likes me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm still stumped if my best friend likes me as more of a friend? He talks to me on the bus and makes fun of me playfully. Looks at me if I walk by and he hates if I don't talk to him but a friend would feel the same way. I never can tell if his pupils are dialated. He always ... (79 words)

He will not stop going on about having sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well theres this dude and hes really nice and confident. He got my number and started to txt me. It was all grand until he was started trying to persuede me to have sex with him! like i dunno if he was serious but he like wouldnt let it go. I am not even going out with him. I ... (81 words)

I have fallen in love with a sophomore! Or is it a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I just started my first year in high school and i think that i have fallen in love with a sophomore. when i first saw him i was attending to a freshmen orientation. i guest he was taking summer school classes or something. so when i when to the school office to buy my ... (241 words)

Whose baby is it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 24 weeks pregnant and before this, for about 3 weeks, I had cheated on my boyfriend with another guy. I confronted him about it and he knew why I did it and forgave me. He knows about what I am going to ask on here and doesn't really mind because he is still willing to ... (276 words)

My boss is cheating with a co-worker and I wonder if I should tell his wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age - My boss just got married a couple of weeks ago. We are friends outside work. We talk often and he has shared something with me and I do not know what I should do. He told me that he has been sleeping with one of our co-workers and now that he is married he has no intention ... (109 words)

Should I stay with him? Or is this just crazy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on a Christian Dating site. I was sick of all the guys i had been dating, they were pressuring me into sex, i felt used and worthless. I'm a Christian, so i think - That's the problem, they don't share my faith! I had always wanted to stay a virgin forever, i got ... (1601 words)

Ever since we had sex my g/f has been acting distant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im Zee. And my question is regarding me and my girlfriends relationship. We are both 15 and we've going out for over 2 months. Things have been going great.Untill the pst week. 5 days ago we had our first sexual experience with each other and it was great.It was amazing. ... (181 words)

Who to pick? I like both of them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Theres two girls in my school, i have and i have two classes together with both of them, though neither of them have a class together that i am in to.Anyway, one openly admited that she liked me, and we flirt all day long and are pretty much on the verge of hooking up, someone ... (216 words)

What do my doctor's concerns mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dearcupids, i have a concern about my unborn baby, im between 28 weeks + 30 weeks, i havent been given a proper due date due 2 my baby being in breech position, they havent been able 2 get a correct measurement, however today at my scan my doctor had concerns as my babys ... (129 words)

My newborn has to stay in hospital. How have you coped with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im suppose be the happiest mom on earth. I just delievered a baby boy and he means the world to me. Only to learn that he has a little fluid in his lungs so he wont be coming home with mommy. I dont know what to do. He's in nicu and is under the care of the best pediatrians. ... (124 words)

Do the aunts feel the love here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a married man for the past 14 months we have great sex but we get on well together and have similar interests, i am separated from my husband. The man I am seeing has never told me he loves me nor have I told him that I love him. He appears keen he calls me ... (92 words)

Married but in love with another but I don't want to lose my children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years. For most of those years I have not felt that desire, longing for my husband. I do not feel passion or any sexual desire for him. Within the past 2-3 weeks, I have been talking to someone I graduated high school with. It has been many years. We ... (204 words)

Boyfriend doesn't like the fact that I'm not confident!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically my bf and I have been dating for 5 months now and he's now voiced his concerns over the fact that im not confident enough and that he hates it. So my question is how can I be more confident? Thank you. =].... (50 words)

What's going on inside his head when he's away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question about long distance relationships/friendships. I have a friend that I have known for 15 years. I have been told that he is in love with me and he has been since 3 years ago and I have to say that all the signs are there when we are together. I love him... (270 words)

We're both married, having an affair, living in different countries..how do I make this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am married and I have three young kids. Over the last six months I have been having affair with a woman abroad. I have known this woman for almost 20 years, going back to College. Since our affair began, we have seen each other three times. The first time for a week ... (271 words)

How do I rub his G-spot and where is it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me that he read about the male G-Spot in some guys magazine. He read that a guy can cum just by rubbing his G-spot, which I thought was his penis, but everyone knows that already, so it didn't make sense. He said he is curious to see what it feels like to... (138 words)

Husband possibly cheating, how can I find out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my husband cheat on me.How can I find out?He dont want to have sex with me anymore.Even I ask for it he just give me stupid reason like he is tired,he working heard.And he go to work like 2hours early. He said his cousin take him to work,his car is broken.I dont know ... (58 words)

She says she likes me but it doesn't seem like she does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody, I have a small problem thats been on my mind for a couple days. i am at college, and last year i met a friend up here who ended up being really cool and we git it off pretty well. eventually, we stopped talking and didnt talk the whole last semester. this y... (515 words)

Its been a year now but I still want to ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! Well i will tell you my story, but don't get angry about my grammar, because I am not very good at english. So I hope you guys will understand me. Well I will not tell you whole story, so it would be a short but understandable. So! I first I told her what I was feeling at... (571 words)

How do I talk to him with my mom there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I have a question on how to know if a guy likes you? So I am twenty years old and I just joined a gym with my mother. At the gym there is this trainer who happens to be twenty two. Everytime I see him we deffinitly flirt. Through talking with him I found out he ... (294 words)

How do I improve the outcome of the month break? I want to get back with my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i just broke up a few days ago... he said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. he also said that he needs space and when we were in the relationship that i smothered him, and i didn't give him enough space. he said that we rushed into the relatio... (269 words)

I'm told I'm not fat and I'm stunning, so why no boyfriend? I'm thinking a diet will sort it all out.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey right well this is a weird question ! i want to know what to do? i would say i am fat but everyone says im not and i would say im ugly but every says im stunning and i want to loose weight! becouse i am 15 and never once had a boyfrind so if peaple say i am stunning funn... (111 words)

My mother broke her promise to me and really let me down. Should she apologize?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been living on my own for some time now few years, and done actual very well, but my car broke down and so I have no way to get around I am in a very tiny rural town and without a car you cant get around. I told my mother this but never asked to live with her, she ... (467 words)

He didn't think "cyber sex" and "phone sex" were cheating. He promises he's changed. Trust, or no?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First off, thanks in advance to all of those who are reading this and willing to help out...I really do appreciate it....(I apologize for the length of this issue, but the details will help you understand the problem) I've been dating my bf for an year now and I've always ... (442 words)

She had her first sexual intercourse but didn't bleed. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I hav a question regarding my friend. She is a very shy girl she never talk to guys never had friendship with them so there is no means of having sex with anybody. She had an arranged marraige and she had her first sexual intercourse with her hubby. The problem is she ... (72 words)

Ever since I moved back to her town, our relationship has been different. Now she wants a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im have been dating this woman officially for 6 months. To ease the strain she asked if I would return back to our college town with her for a while, she has a yr left. When I got down here everything changed. we are staying together and she said she feels a great deal of ... (193 words)

Why is she so angry when I tell her she should save her money and only send her family what is necessary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl freind and i are planing on getting married and living together next year. We are saving money and working hard but recently we had a discussion about money and it all went bad after that. She is Vietnamese and her mother and father and brother live in vietnam. She ... (307 words)

Why do I avoid having vaginal sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 23 I have two girlfriends who wants to have sex with me. but i fear guilty after having sex with them. although I am interested in sex with them. We dont have a long time plan or marriage plan as such. but fear of guilt after sex is stopping me. K... (119 words)

I want to win him back, jerk or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's a very long story. He and I have been best friends for 4 years, then he asked me out, since then we've been together for 3 years. Many ups and downs, two beak-ups. I still love him. Recently, he broke up with me because he said he has feeling for another girl (one of his ... (263 words)

What the heck? Who IS this guy to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this woman and when I first started talking to her she told me she hung out with a guy friend a lot. She and her girlfriends all in their thirties would all sometimes hang out and talk and he would take off his clothes. I asked her what did you and she said I left. Well ... (194 words)

Is his friendship with my ex keeping us apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Okay so i have a question...well its more like i need advice.. Okay, so i dated this guy for about 4 years, things were really serious and i loved him a lot...but after the first 2 years we had some shaky periods. His best friend and me were pretty close, i have a ... (275 words)

Got my girlfriend pregnant, what can the police do to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - HELLO... ok here we go... i got sex with my girlfriend and she is pregnant. and i think her parents gonna send me the police... WAT CAN THE POLICE DO TO ME??? answere plz ... (34 words)

We've been happily MSNing, facebooking, texting. Suddenly his attitude seems to have changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need some advice please :)!! In July I met a guy at Uni, but as it was the end of term we spoke about twice and although it was flirty nothing happened. We didnt speak all summer, however two weeks ago he began facebooking and then texting me and asking if I want... (304 words)

My husband lost his sex drive, the doc says there's nothing physically wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age - My husband lost his sex drive and erection around 4 years ago. I tried everything to find out why. Made appointments, to doctors, and therapist. Nobody knows what is going with him, but very likely some psychological issue. he is healthy,gets erections at his sleep. But h... (193 words)

I think my wife is looking to replace me with this girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, this is a very long drawn out story, but I don't know who I can talk to about it. And I think I need some advice from someone with a really open mind. First off, I've been with my wife for 10 years and she is undoubtedly (along with my kids) the best thing that's eve... (1390 words)

Maybe he likes me? Or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Reet. So there's this guy I know, and before today we only ever saw each other every now and again. He never knew my name or anything like that. But then today I bumped into him by chance and the person I know him through was there but then left, and after she left he made a ... (168 words)

I can't keep being her doormat, I have feelings too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Where to start? Around 3 years ago, I went out with a girl I had known for several years she had been in a relationship where her boyfriend lied cheated and even beat her. I got together with her around a year after that relationship finished. The relationship was grea... (1275 words)

Why is he now ignoring me after what happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Guys I need some help please, I'm going off my head here wondering what happened or what I did for this guy to ignore me! A bit long, but here goes... In a nut shell, we work in the same building and have chatted a couple of times in the last year and a half. Each time he ... (826 words)

Is this his way of saying he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age - For over a year, I've been in a strange relationship. We only get together to have sex about once a week. I’m 51, he’s 27. Of course, I have fallen in love with him. I know he has issues with being open and telling me how he feels. Yesterday he told me he didn't want to ... (85 words)

Been told I'm not a good kisser so how do I do better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - heyya! i just wanna knw how do i give a good kiss. ive had girlfriends in the past who hav sed im nt a good kisser so i want to knw, how can i give a good kiss?... (38 words)

I popped the big question to my ex but her boyfriend was there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello world!!!!! Mmmmmmm I popped the big question to my ex and her new boyfriend was there. She didn't answer. She wants to talk about 2day.she asked how would it look if I went upstair with the ring on? Is she tellin me yes but that dude was there? R is she not feelin it ? ... (56 words)

Why are people trying to get between me and my g/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hullo... My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly two years....yaaaaay...im 17 turning 18 soon, and shes 18. We love eachother very much, blah blah, youve heard it all before. For some reason, some of her male friends are all insisting on buying her things all the t... (133 words)

I'm stuck with a person that doesn't love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm having a really really hard time... two months ago I lost my virginity with my boyfriend, and to be honest I did it because he wanted because if he didn't i'd never ask for it, i'd take things slower than we did... So know I feel like i'm stuck with him,and this is ... (163 words)

Where is this going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so, its 6 years we have known each other 5 and a half we have been a couple, since feb we have lived together. he is a part of my life in every way christmas with my family, birthdays new year. but i have never met his parents, and i cant do it anymore. i love this man with all... (182 words)

Am I in love with her, or do I just love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in this relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and everything his been going really well (except for a few hiccups). But lately ive been feeling different about this whole relationship. I spoke to a friend and they think i do love her, but im not ... (259 words)

Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex(long distance relationship) two years ago. I still loved him but couldn't bare the fact that he had a girl who lives in the same city with him. I can't forget about him and he's begging me to give him another chance and swears he's change. He says he want ... (122 words)

Should I just take it slow for a couple of months and if it doesn't move forward, move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand. We broke up but he keeps coming back to me. He told me he doesn't want a commitment but when I don't call him he keeps calling me and I go back. He is all lovey dovey like a true relaionship even talking about us vacationing together and the Christmas ... (203 words)

I'm seeking comfort from another man because my husband doesn't pay me any attention!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, Don't know I you can help me on this one. Please try. I am 25 years old. Been married for two years. The problem I have is my husband doesn't talk to me much. Unfortunately, I love attention. I have met someone who likes me and is a good listener(though he is marri... (104 words)

I want my boyfriend to move in with me but I don't think my family would approve!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys. i been with my boyfriend for 6months and he is a very sweet and kind person and we both are madly in love with each other. we have talked about our future together. he always mention how he cant wait to get married to me and he calls me his wife sometimes. n... (159 words)

Are these potential red flags in new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So I've been dating a new guy officially for about a month now, seeing each other for two in total. We were sort of friends for a little while before this and the relationship came totally out of the blue, but it was a good suprise So far things are going well- he's ... (359 words)

Is he just stressed out with everything that is going on in his life or does he not want to see me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Let's see, I have been dating a guy for about a month and a half. We generally go out 3 times a week, we try to mix it up a bit. Sometimes we eat out or sometimes we stay in and have a nice home cooked dinner and watch a movie. Recently he has been going through some ... (279 words)

Why is my gay best friend so possesive over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a male gay best friend. We have known each other for 6 years now but over the past 2 years or so he has become really jealous of my relationships with straight men and is very possessive over me! I have no doubt that he is gay and have never thought of him as anythi... (90 words)

How do I get a chance with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i just met this girl in class and we talked a bit on that day as well as the second day we saw each other in class, it only during this class that we see each other and i have found out a few things about her commercial model, rich and an actress so basically your high end type ... (87 words)

How do I heal myself after getting out of an abusive relationship so I will be ready to date again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, ya'll- My heart is too beaten up to date right now, even though I am desperately lonely. I'm 35, would love to meet and marry someone, and pop out a kid. What are some things for me to do to heal myself? And what should I do in the meantime to keep myself busy? (P.... (125 words)

Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - why don't talk to me anymore and i think he has dumped me. he never talk's or texts me the last time we talked was the 2nd of september and everything was fine then we spoke about the new house and getting married but now nothing. and i have found out that recently he has been ... (67 words)

He doesn't want to be with me after 6 years of a relationship, does he still think about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 years already, we spent most of our days together and happy. We would argue off lil things but I didn't think it was really serious that one day he told me he wanted to be single!! I know, knowing we've been together for so long ... (171 words)

I need a steady but she's not reliable, do I keep looking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age - I have been seeing a 40 year old mother of 1 6 year old (girl)... I am 58... we have a great time together, seldom as it is... we met last year... I left her for florida for 5 months, came back and called her. Her schedule is crazy, work, child, etc... as a consequence we dont ... (133 words)

I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very easily turn up there on Sunday ... (305 words)

He wasn't serious about saying he loved me before, I'm confused, shall I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ! Im 25 years of age and my boyfriend is 21. I met my boyfriend 9 months ago. We hardly meet but we always talk on PHone. I love him a lot and for the last 9 months i thought he has the same feelings as i have for him. But today he told me that he now thinks that he's fallen ... (161 words)

Everyone thinks my ex b/f was so great but he abused me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

- I am struggeling to deal with the break up with my ex abusive bf. I feel so confused as my feelings are very conflicitng. It hurts to love someone who abused you. It doesnt even make sense. I know i shoudlnt feel this way but I do. I love him. And I miss him. At the s... (494 words)

I was upset, went off alone, was raped and none of my friends even bothered to call me to see if I was ok!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

- On Saturday night I went out with 3 of my friends and was supposed to be staying over at one of their flats. I've never really felt like these girls like me that much, although they say things that make me feel like they do ("i'm soooo excited that finally all 4 of us are going ... (1010 words)

I need her back in my life and know she has feelings for me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I split up with my girlfriend just over 2 months ago and did not cope well with the break up. We had been together 2 years and I had taken a second job in order to save up enough money to take her to Paris and propose (she didn't and still does not know that). ... (217 words)

I don't know if my coworker feels the same...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really atttracted to this guy in work but I dont know if he feels the same. When he is on the phone with me he talks away but when he is in the office he teases me more than talking to me. He also doesnt really make eye contact with me... (55 words)

I never get into relationships because I don't have my driver's license yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old guy who is good with girls, but i never get into relationships because i don't have my drivers license yet. For the longest time ive been afraid to go on dates because that would mean i would need to be driven by my mom. I'm embarrassed by her when shes around ... (92 words)

I freeze when I try to tell him how I feel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I was wondering how do you tell your boyfriend that you want to kiss passionatly, cuddle and to be sexual when I have a hard time talking about about my feelings. Also how would I work on talking about my feelings, I seem ... (75 words)

What are the laws on underage sex in Maine, USA?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently posted a question about me having sex for the first time the weekend after this upcoming weekend. Im 14 and my girlfriend is 13 and she lost her virginity last year. I posted this question on a few other sites like this one but most of the answers i got where about ... (306 words)

All I want is for us to be together as a family, how can we work through this?

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 6 months wants a break to concentrate on her son,i find this hard,we got together after we split with our long term partners,i was with my ex for 13 years,her with hers for 6 years,her relationship was very abusive and violent,her ex used to beat her up ... (233 words)

Does she really love me or have I misunderstood?

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! my Gf,she is working with me in the same office. I love her,she always watch my face gives smile and other lovely expression. But I dont know that really she loves me or it is my any mistake to understand her. so suggest me that can i propose her,I am very confused abo... (62 words)

Staying at his place for the first time....

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend has asked me to stay over at his, because he works late and likes to have a drink, but doesnt want to have to drive me home. Im very excited, but also a little worried. I dont know if hes expecting sex (but he wont be getting it!) But I expect we will sleep ... (118 words)

My ex's post is still coming to my house and they are like little bundles of memories coming through my door!

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16 September 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my partner of 4 years about 5 months ago. We haven't had any contact since we broke up. We were living together and it was my house and he had to leave and he wasn't too happy about it. Any way his post is still coming to my home. I text him about 3 months a... (138 words)

Should I meet my phone (sex) buddy?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, so heres my dillemna..i have been talking to this guy i met in a chatroom, over the phone for the past 4 months.we get along great.. he sounded hot and we ended up having phonesex pretty often. Except iv seen his pic and im not really physically attracted to him. ... (145 words)

I worry I'll lose it and presto! I do!

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Im a healthy male in a steady relationship of 2 years, we get on great- have plans for the future and are trying for a baby. About three months ago though i started having erection problems...it was when she went to go on top and i 'bent' instead of sliding in...s... (222 words)

She says she likes me but it sure doesn't seem that way!

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16 September 2009 (M)

I recently lost close family member and feel numb but I know I'm pushing my husband away

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I wonder if anyone can give me some advice. I have wonderful and supportive husband who would do anything for me. I love him dearly. Recently I have lost a very close family relative and it has really shaken me up. I seem to have gone off sex at the moment. I feel ... (250 words)

Good suggestions for my best friends b-day, should I center it around his kids?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friends birthday is coming up this saturday. I was thinking about making a collage of pictures of him and his kids. There is one picture I have of all of them in front of a fountain I was thinking about making that the focal point. Anyway is that a good idea for a 35 ... (71 words)

How much of PDA's are ok?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this question is for everyone. how much public displays of affection (PDA) is too much? what do u think when u see people displaying affection? is hugging, holding hands, and a quick peck kiss okay? if u dont think its okay then why do u think that? all comments are appre... (62 words)

I feel like my uterus is a ticking time bomb!

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy i've recently been involved with and i have quite a connection.. he had a daughter when he was 21 and she only lived a week - she was extremely preemie bc his stupid fiance was too selfish to get off the cocaine - and when i was 16 i had 2 miscarriages.. it was very ... (522 words)

I'm afraid of losing love in the future

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i need some advice... My girfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now and we've talked of our future. Although we're in a LDR we truly love each other but im just so afraid of losing her in the far future... I dont know what to do and i REALLY hope it ... (125 words)

Dating a busy guy: still interested or extremely busy?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with this guy, but recently we haven't had much time together since he's been extremely busy. He works full-time and goes to school as well. I focus more on my studies, so hence work less. Since we work at the same place, we do get to see each other, but ... (131 words)

I prefer to be single! So why can't I just break up with him???

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the queen of non-commitment. Im like the one female on earth that doesnt believe in marriage and children, I dont believe humans are built that way. Ive been in a relationship for 3 months now, and everything is awful but I cant seem to end it! We have zero communication, ... (166 words)

Penetration is painful, is it because I'm a beginner?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've always been really tight down there. Like before it hurt to put one finger in. So I bought a very skinny cheap vibrator to help stretch Me out a bit. It worked. And soon enough I could put two fingers in with very little pain. So I decided I could probably try and ... (182 words)

Am I in the "best friend zone" or "I like you zone"?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! So I've come to this web site because I'm stumped... my friends are stumped (except for my roomies BF who THINKS he knows) and well I need to figure this out. Okay so A few weeks ago we started college band camp (yes I'm a band geek) anyways I met this guy who is in my ... (400 words)

Do you think such a relationship nowadays can work, considering the age gap?

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16 September 2009 (M)

age - I am a 47 yrs of age man, an artist, and I've dated young women for a while, mostly friendships, based on similar interests like wine, dinning, companionship, and of course sex. About a year ago, I met this girl, she's 17 yrs younger, and what i thought would be a temporary ... (284 words)

Risk of STDs from masturbation?

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im back with another question about trying to avoid stds/aids i was just wondering about me being sexualy active with myself like masturbation and was wondering if that gives you a bigger risk of geting a std and yes i know that condoms help which is why i plan to use one ... (82 words)

Cough fetish?

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am pretty sure I have a cough fetish. I get turned on my hearing girls cough. Usually the harder they cough, the more turned on I get. I just want to see if anyone else has heard of this. Thanks.... (41 words)

Is it wise to keep hoping something would occur between this married woman and I?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell deeply in love with a woman last year, but I've never confessed this, since she's already married. She's just one of the loveliest people I've ever had the honor of knowing. Inside and out, she's so beautiful - she has the most wonderful heart and such a brilliant mind. ... (602 words)

I didn't say anything to her yet, and I need some advice on what to do!

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a relationship with a girl right after summer ended. We had to go our own ways, but we still remained together, so it turned into a long-distance relationship. After a couple weeks, she said that long-distance relationships didn't work, so she broke up with me. I c... (163 words)

My best friend has a thing for my boyfriend!

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really think that my bestfriend has a thing for my boyfriend..she always finds a reason 2 ask about him and she turns into a different person when he's around...she has never done anything like this to me before at least i hope not but she like to stay in touch with all my ex ... (126 words)

Is it unreasonable of me to want support from my ex after my abortion?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am now 25 years old and its been almost a year since I had an abortain after getting pregnant one month into my relationship with my ex boyfriend. It is something I did once and I KNOW I never will do again. I did care about him ---but to go through something so emo... (495 words)

I've fallen in love over the internet. The problem is that it's making me sick!

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to a girl over the internet for years. I have always had a very big soft spot for her, and she has always had one for me. It has always been inevitable that we would meet at some stage. After talking over the mic a couple times recently, and after having ... (239 words)

Why can't women stop being friends with their exes?

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, I dated this girl back in high school in 06. we got along great. We spent a lot of time together but it didn't work out. On and off. Main reason was because i was the quiet kind of person. Id rather hang out and spend time type. she was more of the party girl.this was her ... (344 words)

At the end of our trip, he pushed me out of his room and closed the door in my face!

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - we were just friends through the internet and he came to my country. we met and traveled together for couple of days. while we were together he tried to have sex with me. i was shocked, why he wanted to have sex with me although he don't like me or love me and he's already in ... (168 words)

We had a good sex life, now she's not interested!

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 25, my gf is 23. we been together for nearly 2 years. we had really good sex life, but all of a sudden my gf start saying she dont feel like to have sex. its nearly a 2 month, why it can be/???... (45 words)

He ripped out my heart and now I feel ruined! Please help me.

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so sad, feel like such a fool, so angry, and so hopeless, and alone. I met jeremy 10 mths ago. We clicked right away. same taste in music, movies, books, and more. Same sense of humor, views on life. We became best friends and were in love. Well I was. Truly in ... (545 words)

How soon into a relationship should I reveal I'm a virgin?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupid people, I know another 40 year old virginity rant but ah well - tis unique cos its all about me this time :) Basically I am a 24 (and 3 quarters) year old virgin although I'm not terrible looking and I have had ex's who have offered to be my first. The problem is t... (274 words)

How do I convince my parents that my boyfriend is a decent guy?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents forbid me from my boyfriend and his friends. I had two parties at my house one weekend while they were gone but my aunt was watching me and was aware of what was going on, plus my mom gave me permission to have people over. But that that many and not to late. W... (370 words)

Addicted to lying: how do I stop?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I seem to have a problem lying. I'm a bad liar. You can totally tell when I'm lying. I want to stop and have tried multiple times but in the end I always cycle back. It's not even about big things, it could be something small like I didn't lock the door. What can I do to not ... (60 words)

I adore my girlfriend but she is pushing me away

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i have a slight delema.Me and my girl friend are 15 and we've been going out for a month now.i absolutely adore her. And she says she loves me and thinks about me all the time. But she doesnt show it.We just hug and/or a quick kiss. Nothing more. Im a very lovey dobby ... (215 words)

How do I make foreplay more intense?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i think foreplay is very important to make things more exciting i enjoy foreplay very much.im very experienced but things get old after awhile.does anyone have any ideas i can learn from?id love to hear them!... (38 words)

In your opinion whats the best birth control method?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am an 18 year old female i have never been on birth control before and was wondering if any one knew how to determine which form is the best for you any suggestions? I was thinking of trying the patch but don't know if its effective or not or which is the best in your ... (67 words)

First sex partner

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 and i lost my virginity a couple months back. I don't find that i'm very satisfied with intercourse. Oral is fine. But honestly a lot of times i don't even feel anything during sex. My boyfriend is average size and he's older and has expierence. I don't think it's him. ... (88 words)

Any tips on how to make a man go crazy in bed?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i no how to please a man.its very simple.i no it depends on the man, but what kind of things can i do to make a man go crazy for?what guys love the most?clothes on and off.touching and not touching.im very experienced so im up for anything.any tips?... (50 words)

Why do I get the feeling I need to pee when I have sex?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend of over a year and a half. Everytime when we have sex, he always plays with my clit. But I keep getting the feeling like I'm going to pee or something and have to make him stop. He says that he wants to see if I would orgasm but the feeling is so ... (75 words)

I'm jealous of his female friends

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16 September 2009 (F)

- There was a guy I was kind of seeing he is a good friend of my ex and as you can imagine things were awkward so I backed away from the situation so I wouldn't get hurt even though I am hurt. Anyway this guy still likes me at least I think he does because he's always getting in ... (173 words)

My ex hates me but I want a friendship

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16 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i talked to my ex last night. he was saying he just wanted to clear the air with us. i blew him off and told him i didnt want a friendship. he got really upset and started bringing up problems with our past relationship. we ended up in a full on argument. just over stupid stuff ... (200 words)

why hasn't he come to get his stuff yet?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up a year long relationship with me two weeks ago, saying "I don't see a future with you, it's not you, it's me, still wanna be friends, blah blah blah..." So, I was upset but I'm moving on. The thing is, he's doing friendly texts like "did you get that ... (185 words)

I'm always indecisive and it feels I can't change what do I do?

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16 September 2009 (F)

- I don't know what I want, out of life, in a relationship or anything.. I can never make a decision i'm really indecisive and it's all down to the fact that I never know what it actually is that I want. If I eventually do end up making a decision then it's ALWAYS too late and... (106 words)

Is wanting to have sex all the time normal?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so im 16 going to be 17 in the spring and i have developed an obsession with sex.ive had about 4 partners.i want to have sex all the time i feel like im addicted,im guessing its just my hormons but it still dosent seem normal.but the thing is, sex is much more desirable for ... (82 words)

Emotional conversation avoider combined with commitment phobe leaves me confused!

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there I have been dating a man who is 42 years old for 10 months. I am 37. The relationship started as mainly sex. Since then it has developed into more. Each time we see each other we have a great time. He is loving, attentive and fun for that date. As soon as the date end... (271 words)

Newly married and found graphic texts on my hubby's phone!

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a month ago, I married the love of my life. We have been together for 5 years and I thought things were great. Now I am realizing that he is not faithful. He left his phone laying around one day and I read some of the text messages this person sent him. Together they ... (91 words)

What do I do? I like one and don't want to hurt the other!

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have 2 guy friends. Lets call them Bob And John Bob and John have been best friends for a long time. I like John. And he likes me to. But Bob also likes me. Me and Bob have been really good friends for a really long time. And there has always been something between m... (114 words)

We miss eachother alot. How can we possibly cut contact?

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16 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've just come out of a relationship. It lasted for 3 months over the summer holiday, and it has ended now that I have gone back to university. We broke up only yesterday, and I know that's not a lot of time to allow for mourning, but at the moment I feel quite distraught. In ... (168 words)

Would it be wrong to have a relationship with an older guy?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 going to be 17 in the spring and ive always had "a thing" for this guy whos about 23 24.hes no stranger.My mom and his mom are bestfriends and known each other forever and ive known him since i was in like middle school.we've never really hung out because we liked ... (123 words)

Stay in my marriage that my heart isn't fully in or go with my ex I still have feelings for ?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Part 1 - I have been married for almost ten years. Last year we almost got divorced 3 times. He has cheated several times and that's not even the worst of it. In my mind, I have every right to leave. He has tried really hard to make things up to me and he is an amazing father ... (449 words)

Am I about to marry the wrong guy?

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16 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with this guy at the age of 16.We used to go to highscool together.Later we went to the same college.Somehow it couldnt work between us . We kept coming up with things to quarrel about.I always felt that he did not give me the attention or emotional ... (501 words)