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anonymous
writes:Theres two girls in my school, i have and i have two classes together with both of them, though neither of them have a class together that i am in to.Anyway, one openly admited that she liked me, and we flirt all day long and are pretty much on the verge of hooking up, someone just has to say "lets get together" but she, although has good skin, clear and smooth, and has dark hair with blond streaks, very cute but like(i imagin) 30 or 40 pounds overweight, i think i would have alot of trouble picking her up, or even getting my arms around here(and im 6ft) and the other isnt that far into being in a relashionship with me, but she is alot more physically attractive, and feminine. She is alot more confident, shorter than me by probbably half a foot, has a well kept body weight and although hasnt actually said she liked me, she calls my boyfriend in a kidding manner, and is fallowing me whenever she can, trying to start conversasion.I like them both alot, and i really dont want to blow off the one thats a bit overweight, but this is like a "whats right vs whats wanted" thing, who do i pick to start a relashionship with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): Don't base your decision on appearances. Get to know each better and take time in choosing. In the meantime, you may have a third to consider!
I know that today girls are expected to have one boyfriend.
In my day way back then, girls who hung with one guy might have their reputation questioned. Everyone would wonder whether they were "doing it." Times have changed.
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reader, jessjess  +, writes (17 September 2009):
 To be honest, I don't think you are mature enough to have a serious relationship with anyone. If it simply comes down to looks then that is proof that you aren't. If you want to start messing girls around already at such a young age just be warned: girls worth having pick guys who are genuine, trustworthy, fun to be around and who care about more than simply their appearance & weight. If you are going to ask the girl who has admitted she likes you out, then think twice because if you are just going to end up cheating on her with girls who you made find more physically attractive then you are going to wind up hurting her.
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