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writes:My boyfriend told me that he read about the male G-Spot in some guys magazine. He read that a guy can cum just by rubbing his G-spot, which I thought was his penis, but everyone knows that already, so it didn't make sense.He said he is curious to see what it feels like to have his G-spot rubbed. He refused to tell me where I can find it and I have been rubbing him all over without any luck. All he does is laugh when I rub different areas. I am starting to feel like a masseuse.Is there really a male G-spot? Where is it and how hard do I rub... with one hand or two hands?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): It's, well, up his ass, as you probably suspected.
It's his sexual pleasure centre, I suppose the male equivalent of a clitoris (from a submissive perspective). You can locate it by gently probing up there and towards the general direction of his belly-button. If he lies on his side with his legs drawn up, or on his back with his knees raised, it'll be easier for you to find.
A gentle but firm squeeze with thumb and forefinger (the thumb outside, the finger in) should get his entire body trembling like nothing he's ever known before - and if that's what a finger can do, you can imagine - I'll stop now, before this gets pornographic. But yes, the capacity is there for him to have continuous multiple orgasms if he's stimulated there real good. (Hopefully your neighbours spend lots of time away from home).
Tragically, lots of men (mostly straight obviously) choose to miss out on availing of this pleasure, because basically they think it's a bit gay. Which it undoubtedly is, if it's a man who's hitting the spot, but in the context of a hetero relationship it should be completely fine if you're both OK with it, and doesn't make him gay (though it might get him thinking). Hygiene won't be an issue if you're both squeaky clean.
Don't forget the lube (KY or Easyglide preferably).
Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): OMG! You mean I have to go up his butt to rub his G-spot??
No wonder he was laughing!
Just for that I'm using 2 hands! LOL! :)
To the other writer. I did find it on Wickipedia and it mentioned the girl's G-Spot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): It's the prostate gland, which is located right next to the rectum and in front of it. It is what a doctor feels when he is doing a digital rectal exam to check prostate health. Of course, that is just for us older guys who have to be careful of prostate problems.
The sensitivity probably varies guy to guy, just as it does for different women and their G-spot.
"Where is it and how hard do I rub... with one hand or two hands?"
Sorry, but that gave my wife and I a good laugh. I'm trying to imagine you doing it. Hey, don't worry. I had no idea about either G-spot (male or female) at your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): yes there is a male g spot. its in his anus, im sure if you google it, youll find something which explains. but by god if you can rub it then your bloody brave lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Um... I heard its up his butt... im not sure how many hands you should rub with :PMaybe give this one a miss?hehexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): i believe the male g-spot is up the rear ... hell or high water wouldn't tempt me personally to rub anywhere near there lol :) But apparently some really enjoy it
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): I don't know where exactly it is, but I'm pretty sure it's in the holiest of holies. My partner and I have expirimented with that, and though it feels good (depending, be careful and kind) nothing was beyond belief, there was a sense of out-of-bodily control. But mostly I think it was cool cause it just felt naughty. Don't know if your boyfriend knows that's where it is or not, maybe he's just shy about telling you he wants you to play with his but. My advice, if you go for it, start out very lightly in the area, like the balls and the taint, and gradually get to the point of anal play. It's not anything that needs to be rushed. Oh, and if your boyfriend has no idea, he might be in for a rude awakening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Honey, you can rub all you want to, but just so you know, the male g-spot is halfway up your boyfriends anus (a**hole). You treat it just like the female g-spot: press firmly for extra stimulation & move your finger in a "come hither" motion. If your boyfriend really wanted you to do that, I'm pretty sure he would say so & not run you around the bush. He may curious but obviously not enough to have a finger shoved up his hinder parts. So you both need to make sure that you are both COMFORTABLE with this action.
Make sure he's squeaky clean (as you don't want to be touching fecal matter) & make sure that your finger is WELL LUBRICATED, or it will not be a very pleasant experience.
Furthermore, seeing that you are so young, you should make sure that you protect yourself in every sexual activity. ALWAYS practice safe sex.
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