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writes: i just met this girl in class and we talked a bit on that day as well as the second day we saw each other in class, it only during this class that we see each other and i have found out a few things about her commercial model, rich and an actress so basically your high end type of girl. far from my status, and know i am wondering how can i get closer to this girl and probably get a chance to be with her. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, KEL.B HERE 4 U +, writes (16 September 2009):
if she wants to be with you then she will soon let you know, if she doesnt then maybe its just freindship shes after. but im afraid your have to go a bit further than a few words! like asking her if shed like to hang out 1 day after school ask her if she wants to go pictures
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 September 2009):
Be real with her. Don't treat her as a model, actress or rich. Keep her in your eye as being who you enjoy talking to and take it from there.
We look at those individuals as being out of reach. Over the years I've had acquaintances who are celebrities. In their careers they have to act a certain way, can't just let loose unless you want it in the Enquirer etc. What I noticed is how much they appreciate being treated as a person, and not difference cause of what they do.
I'd recommend being her friend first. Although they enjoy normalcy there are still many people who try to get with them because of what they do. So, you may have that trust barrier to cross before anything happens, but as long as you be her friend, someone she can talk to when the spot light gets stressful, the closer you'll get to maybe having that chance.
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