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Why do I avoid having vaginal sex?

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Question - (16 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2009)
A male Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I am 23 I have two girlfriends who wants to have sex with me. but i fear guilty after having sex with them. although I am interested in sex with them.

We dont have a long time plan or marriage plan as such. but fear of guilt after sex is stopping me.

Kissing or oral sex is okay with me but I fear a state of guilt in vaginal sex. Because of that the urge for sex is not satisfied within me and I am getting into depression. Why is it so?

please help

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A female reader, celtic_tiger United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2009):

celtic_tiger agony auntWell the fact that you are having sex with two girls is probabaly making you feel guilty!

Oral sex, vaginal sex, or any other type of sex are all sex, and you are basically stringing these two women along, and two timing them.

Do they both know you are sleeping with the other?

I think you need to decide who (if either) you want to have a relationship with, even if it is only on a casual basis. Having only one partner will probably stop the guilt.

Please make sure you are using protection (condoms) also, because having multiple partners means a higher chance of getting and transferring STD's.

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