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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why won't he commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently "involved" with a soldier. He has been a really good friend for years which somehow evolved into an intimate relationship. We never intended for things to get this far, mainly because he is my ex-boyfriends best friend. (Well, not anymore because the friend knows ... (398 words)

I can't stop flirting and sleeping with men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 yrs old and have 2 beutifull children with my boyfriend of 5 yrs who i love dearly and who dearly loves me, but I cant stop flirting and sleeping with other men. I flirt all the time online as i cant sleep with the men online, but if i go out i cant help but to flirt ... (160 words)

I've had fictitious allegations made about me at work! Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am totally devastated as a work colleague, who I thought I got on well with, has suddenly reported me to management insinuating some serious allegations about me that have supposedly occurred when this individual and I have been alone together. These are all fictitious. I ... (238 words)

Why won't he be honest about watching porn, and share it with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I'll try to make a long story short. I'm in my early 20's bf is in his mid 40's He "has" ed BUT when we first meet he COULDN'T keep his hands off of me. Now 3 years later he watches porn. Unlike many women I don't mind it, I watch it too BUT here's my issue. I saw him... (420 words)

I want to know where our relationship is going

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been seeing this guy for two years and our relationship is okay for the most part when I asked where was I in his life he replied and said that i'm what he wants and needs but he is afraid of losing control instead of being happy if left me more confused. I still feel that ... (72 words)

Black discharge? Could it be a side effect of the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm due my period on the 9th. But i'm currently getting a very dark brown/black discharge coming out of me like a thin period. I've never had this sort of thing before, only AFTER a period, never before. What could this be? I had unprotected sex a couple of days before my l... (136 words)

I am attracted to a work mate, but he is dating someone else. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been in my current job for about 12-18months, I work with a girl who is 3 years younger than me and her boyfriend always comes in when we work 2gether... we've recently been flirting alot and im starting to get feelings for him and im getting the impression hes attracted to ... (81 words)

He never says he misses me or that he loves me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Cupid, I really need your help! I feel so silly writing on here, but I figure it's the easiest way. If I ask my friends what they think, I know how they'll respond and it's safer to get an unbiast opinion... Anyways..I've been going out with this guy for around a year an... (550 words)

Fiance wants to go away with another man to meet his parents

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a unique relationship as I am living with my fiance and our baby girl (6 weeks) and my fiance's bestfriend. A gay male. Now when I met my fiance she was living with this man, her gay friend. They met in the gay bar scene and are really close. When I met her she w... (702 words)

Should I presue this or does he just not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted once before about an attraction I have developed to my college T.A. To recap, I am 23 and he is 28. I am a senior and he is a Ph.D candidate. He is very shy, a little awkward, but has a very intelligent and interesting mind. Because of his position as some... (381 words)

Ejaculation accidentally touched my vagina

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before you all say I am too young(or something) for this, I would like to say. I have made a huge mistake by doing this. I know what I did wrong, and is very regretful. Any nurses/doctors/concerned adults please help! I touched male sperm on my pinky. It wasn't a lot or ver... (162 words)

Please I need advice on finding love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, thanks for reading at least. I'm 23 and have never had any kind of close relationship with anyone. It never works when I feel attracted to someone, maybe because I show myself really enthusiastic about what may be going on and become very participative and ... (188 words)

It bothers me that my g/f slept with someone she didn't even know

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend slept with a lead singer from a band. It bothers me everyday that I know this. She said she did it because at the time she was mad at her old boyfriend. It just makes me so sad that she would lower herself like this to someone she had just met, She said t... (151 words)

Intimidated in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i have been with my girlfried for about four months but we really never did anything. we had sex about two weeks ago or at least attempted to. some one came home and we were forced to stop before it really began. with that being said she never really got into it granted it ... (119 words)

A forced kiss has led us to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy for a year, and then he moved across the country to go to school. (He's 2 years older than me, but just one year older in school.) We continued to date long distance for the school year, with me going to visit him at Christmastime, and him coming here for my ... (615 words)

Confused about first time sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm just going to get this out there, in my high school everyone has either lost thier virginity in 9th or won't until marrige. and i absolutely LOVE my boyfriend, we've been togethe so much its probably not healthy but i love it : ). now, the other week he told me that ... (245 words)

Does she just look at me as a friend and not fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age - I'm a married professional man and have befriended a younger woman at work. She has just got over some mild depression, which I may have helped a little with supportive chats and some confidence building (positive comments and so on). We talk quite openly and easily. She ... (287 words)

Lost confused and hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy that claims to like me .. i think sometimes that i do like him but im not sure if its because he used to show me alot of attention now he doesnt show as much. everytime we are around each other he's always flirting with me and asking me to kiss him i recently told him i ... (244 words)

14 years down the drain because she's confused?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I've been with my partner for 14 years and it has been fantastic. We both met after having broken hearts and have become each others soul mate, best friend, etc. We always say that we were brought together by fate. We have rarely argued and almost know what the other i... (271 words)

Choosing between ex or boyfriend who is in jail and gets out soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and am currently dating a guy whom just turned 25. There are a few problems though. My boyfriend is in jail at the moment and gets out in three months. My ex boyfriend who I have been on and off with for the past 4 years is trying to get back with me and I really want ... (124 words)

Will their marriage last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age - My ex husband left me for another woman and she got pregnant while we were in the middle of our divorce. Does anyone think think the marriage will last?... (30 words)

Why is she acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 21. i had a relationship with the girl of my dreams but due to some silly reasons and some miscommunication we broke up 6 months ago in a hassle. it even got a bit ugly for some time for the both of us. she never used to return my calls and even picked up dem up only after ... (198 words)

Should I end it or is this normal communication?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I posted recently, and got one helpful response. However, I was really hoping for more than just one response. I have been hanging out with my ex for over a month now after a 5 year hiatus. Before this, she was in a 2 year relationship with another guy who is unrelated to ... (247 words)

How can I tell if I'm tight enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im always self conscious that im not, excuse me here, "tight" enough for my boyfriend. im gona be 16 soon and hes 3 years older. hes not that big, just average, but everytime we have sex or he fingers me, i feel like im not as tight as i should be. how can i tell if im tight ... (78 words)

My wife is stressed over thoughts about another woman....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently my wife has been hanging out with a new girl she met from work. They went out a few times, and then seem to fall out of touch. Then a few days ago we bumped into her and her boyfriend at a store and my wife was acting very strangely. I questioned her about it that ... (236 words)

Am I too fat to attract a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I Fat To Have a borfreind? 15 years...60 kg....152 cm ..... (13 words)

Do I not have a boyfriend because of my looks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iam 15 iam young i know...my problem is in my look..i just cant cope with it,maybe because i cant have a boyfreind ..most of my freinds have boyfreinds 2 or more..but me i have zero..i thought maybe because of my look am fat,ugly have nothin nice in me but at the same time i ... (103 words)

Am I overreacting to her relationship with her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like some opinion on what kind of interactions should be considered OK between Ex-es if they are both in other relationship already? Some back story: My gf and I has been together for almost 2 years now, we have a great relationship and cares for each other a lot. She... (240 words)

I made myself sick to lose weight..I know its not healthy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started a slimming club a four months ago in a desperate attempt to shed some of my baby weight.. It was working fine for the first few weeks and then the weight loss slowed down, i was excercising as much as i could and sticking to the diet. I was gutted and dissapointed, I ... (178 words)

New girl wants my relationship status on facebook to change but I don't want to hurt my ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm unsure what to do. I've started seeing a girl, and straight away she wants me to change my relationship status on Facebook to "In A Relationship". Now, before you believe that THAT is my problem then please let me continue! Over the course of the summer I dated a... (178 words)

My teacher thinks I like him and now he's avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a new teacher this year who is 24 and has a very friendly open personality. The type that is often more of your friends and discusses DS games. Up until a few weeks ago he has always being nice to me, since then he has been very distant, but only towards me, the ... (330 words)

Who was a virgin before our honeymoon, my wife or me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was a virgin up until my honeymoon last week. I thought my wife was also a virgin but came to find out otherwise after she and I split a bottle of champagne in the hot tub of our resort. She insisted that no guy could abstain from sex and was convinced that I had sex before ... (479 words)

Is she too aggressive? Or should I just take her out anyways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I went on one date with a girl and it went pretty well. Afterwards she texted me and asked if I wanted another date. I said sure, she said where? I couldn't think of any good ideas so I put off texting her. Then I got distracted and then I forgot. So two days later she texts me ... (115 words)

I want to know how my ex feels but I'm afraid to call him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im still heart broken over the break up of me and my bf. he left for college about 2 or 3 weeks ago and we havent talked in about 2 weeks because my mom blocked his number from my cell phone after me and him got in a fight. i looked on his facebook and saw a picture of him and ... (149 words)

Almost 17 and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, soon to be 17 in a months time and i've never had a boyfriend. For some weird reason, recently I just really want one.. I'm not the type of person to just date anyone for the sake of it, which is why i've never had one in the first place. I was seeing this guy about 5 ... (172 words)

My g/f on motorcycle rides without me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I just bought motorcycles. Now, she's planning all of these day rides when I am working with our local riders group. Most people that go on these rides with her are men. Being a man, I know what a turn on it can be to see a girl that rides a bike. It just ... (158 words)

Misunderstanding between me and a friend keeps getting worse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was really good friends with this boy in my class and we used to have fun hanging out tgether. We were reasonably close for about a month but then suddenly on monday, i went to school and i felt like he was cold shouldering me. I thought it could possibly be because ... (245 words)

My g/f thinks I"m having a gay affair with one of her friends! I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, been with my girlfriend since second year of university (Nov. 2005), and our relationship's been mostly good. Yes, we've had arguments, like every couple do, but usually silly ones. However, my girlfriend has recently started criticising me for actually want... (281 words)

How do I make him understand I'm not a machine?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am almost thirty yrs old, I am married to a man who is four years younger than me and has a sex drive of a sixteen yr old. We have 3 children together, all between the ages of 6 to 1 yr old. I work full time as well as have the children in various activities besides school ... (137 words)

Am I a straight? Bi? Or lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been staright all my life and had boyfriends etc, but just recently i feel like i have a crush on a female teacher. Everyones started calling me a lesbien, but im obvisly not a lesbein cos i like boys, but am i bisexual? or is it just a phase i am going through. HELP!... (56 words)

Worried about my ex, he looks and sounds awful..I want to get back with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my Bf broke up with me at the beginning of this month. I was devasted and shocked, because it was out of nowhere. We were a week away from moving in together in an apartment. Anyway, he would occasionally text me with empty stuff like how's work? and things like that. ... (318 words)

G/f says that I'm not your call girl..I get no affection from her at all

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 21. I and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now. I always try to make her happy by cracking jokes, make her laugh. In our 1st 6 months, she completely ignored me as if we were just friends and took more interest in other guys. But after time passed, she left ... (218 words)

Is this redness in my genitals normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i have recently noticed that the area under my vaginal "lips" is red, although not itchy or anything, and seems to be rather damp most of the time. it's very embarassing - is this normal? any help would be great. thanks... (42 words)

Living a secret life is hurting me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and im gay. No one knows about this, only myself. Some people suspects that im gay, my friends even my girlfriend. I dont know wat to do or what to say cause it will be a disgrace to my family and to my community. It hard to accept it and every time i kinda ... (108 words)

Why would my ex make a big scene with his new partner in front of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why would my ex bf get off and make big scene with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn't stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happend to be a friend. ... (132 words)

Boyfriend becoming more and more aggressive with me, is it because he's using steroids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - so i will be 16 in less than a month and my boyfriend is about to be 19 in about 2 months. we have been together for a total of 3 months now, but we had been hanging out as friends for the last year. now that we have been together, he is more and more dominant and aggressive ... (266 words)

She's always breaking my heart chosing other guys over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was best friend with this girl for 2 years. Eventually I fell in love and confessed. But she turned me down and started dating the guy I hate the most. Now, the guy dumped her 5 months ago (they latest 2 months together). Through it all she always said that she wanted ... (283 words)

Threesome but I don't want him to fall for the other girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Its bothering me.... My best male friend and i have been talking about a threesome, i would really love it i know he does too but the problem comes in that i'm afraid once we have actually had a threesome he will end up like or even loving this other girl. I am absolutely crazy ... (270 words)

Once I've passed my driving test should I tell my instructor I have a crush on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm 42 and since january I've been taking driving lessons. my instructor is a lovely man. a brilliant instructor and a wonderful person, kind, gentle, considerate etc etc. we get on very well together and my lessons feel more like time spent with a good friend rather than ... (142 words)

B/f asked me to get rid of phone numbers but then sends a text from the old number? Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder if you guys can help me handle a problem I have got. During the course of our 2 year relationship, my boyfriend has had 3 mobile phones which is not a problem as we keep our old phones (I have had 2) in case our new ones go wrong which they have from time to time. ... (405 words)

B/f keeps telling me to move out when he knows I don't have enough money, treats me badly so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - All my weekend are a mess ,i have been having piece jobs for six months and this time I have got a jb which recently started .I also do massage at home well it is not busy am still looking for clients by advertising. My problem is I moved in with my boyfriend in March after s... (541 words)

Visit to brothel did not make me feel better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I few months ago i visited a brothel... and it was a bad bad experience as i didnt get any pleasure out of it and it made me realise what i want in life ( a slow meaningful relationship) I taught me alot and show me that sex is crap and only good with someone you love... (288 words)

The day I was going to ask her to marry me she told me she had cheated on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf of 4 yrs went on a all girls trip south and when she came home she told me she hooked up with another guy. She claims they never had sex just made out and did alot of touching. The day she came home I actually had plan to ask her to marry me. Now I am confused... (180 words)

Can you bleed when you're PG and on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you are on the pill and you're pregnant, are you still forced to bleed a little when it comes to the pill that starts your period? Just as a matter of interest. ... (33 words)

No more xxx on his texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been txting a boy I know for the past few months. After the 1st few times he started adding xxx's at the end. Around that time my friend also hinted to me that he fancied me. But I never put xxx's at the end of texts. And now he doesn't do it anymore. But he still texts me ... (99 words)

Pregnant, cheated and now don't know who the father is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my last period was in august.i am not sure of the date although it was round about the end.i had sex with my long term partner on the 4th,5th,6th and 10th of september and although i hate myself for doing it i cheated on the 12th.my boyfriend is nigerian and the man i cheated ... (69 words)

Husband left me because he likes texting with other woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been we my husband now for 12 yrs married 2 years.. he walked out on me saying he wasnt sure if he wanted to be with me or not he needed space but kept texting me he loves me and wants me for the rest of his life their is noone esle?? after 3 weeks he was home but things ... (223 words)

Husband would rather please himself than have sex with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so here is my problem... My husband would rather please himself and time of the day (as I have caught him not by choice) than have sex with me. Oh and by the way we decided to try to get pregnant ha ha not working... (46 words)

Boyfriend's a jerk, cheated on me 4 X already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this might be hard to explain but i need people's opinions and advice. i had been seeing this guy for 5 month and in that time he cheated on me 4 times and had "pictures" of another girl on his phone. but recently we decided to put the past behind us start a fresh and start ... (283 words)

I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I love her. But i think she hates ... (274 words)

Should I go for the new or hold out for the old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am pregnant and 28. My new ex is 49. I have a met a new man who is 34. Anyway I don't know what to do about this. I have not been with the new man yet and am taking it extra slow. I want my ex back but he has ignored me for 5 wks now. So there has been v little to no ... (242 words)

She made a new facebook account, lied about it and now I feel very insecure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been dating this amazing girl for about 1 yr and 5months. shes amazing and i love her to death. she is my other half. we have been through absolute hell together, from the rumors and drama to the pointless arguements. were together forever. lately my insecurities have ... (309 words)

Is my penis curved because of the way I masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having curved penis problem.well its a different one,i have a preconception about it-i use to masturbate lying on my belly and pressing my penis up and down on the bed,so i get the feeling that it is because of this only.My dick very little curved downwards and a bit ... (95 words)

Is he bored now that the chase is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone sorry if this is long and confusing! Ive been seeing a guy for the last two months, in the beginning he was very keen and had been chasing me for quite a while, texting me all the time wanting to hang out and chatting on msn often. We have a lot in common,... (622 words)

Was it weird that my husband asked me which of my previous sexual partners had the biggest penis?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 2 yrs asked me who I'd slept with in the past had the biggest penis. Now, I know he's not insecure cause he's well endowed himself. My response was to laugh and asked him why the hell he wanted to know! he said he was just curious. He's not pervy in any way, ... (108 words)

Does it get better with time regarding anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about anal sex. My boyfriend really wanted to have anal sex. In the past it was something I was not open to, but since my boyfriend really loves it, we talked about it, and I decided we could try it. He knew I was nervous about it hurting me, so he took ... (155 words)

My girlfriend is going out clubbing without me, how do I feel comfortable about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Friday night My girlfriend is going out this Friday night and I am beginning to feel anxious. I just need someone to talk to about it to as I get a bit paranoid. Basically she will be going out after work at about half 9 with her friends in a different town. Most of... (283 words)

My sisters keep telling me I'm fat! What diet can I try that will help me lose weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i dont exactly have a problem although its getting a bit much.... My sisters keep telling me i'm fat, although they are properly joking about it, but it really does hurt my feelings. I wont say i'm over weight, i'm 1.56 and weight 66kg and i'm 19 years old. I do this weight ... (245 words)

Can anyone help me with the Centrelink system in Australia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Getting treated unfairly by centrelink in australia and wondering what i can do about it. Im 19 and am on independant youth allowance. I have been diagnosed with major depression and am taking avanza. The doctor has said i can not work for another 3 months he has given me a ... (110 words)

How do I deal with the mother of my stepdaughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a loving husband and we have been married for a year now everything have been going very well until we started taling about staying with his daughter the stepchild(6) next year.I love the child to death but i dont want to deal with the drama from her mother of which ... (124 words)

If you have irregular periods will a pregnancy test be accurate?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have a quick question if u have an irregular period will a pregnancy test show correct? ive done an ultrasound and there is nothing in my uturus..did a pregnacy test came out negative but i have this weird pains here and there in my stomach and my stomach feels hard..... (52 words)

Is this rock bottom?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so first off I dated a girl for a while bout a year. I thought I was in love. in fact I knew I loved her. she told me she loved me. we didn't get to see each other so I arranged to take a trip to cali. about two weeks before we left i was at work and a washing machine fell ... (311 words)

Is it ok to schedule for casual sex?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a uni student. I went out once with this stranger whom I had a crush on for a long time. The first date was good. Unfortunately, things took an ugly turn and we both know that there will not be another date. We have no mutual friends. Despite all this, I am still attracted ... (180 words)

I'm finding it so hard to let her go, but if she wants to live her life like this should I just accept it and move on?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age - I have been married for 19 years, I am 64 my wife is 48. We have a son aged 15. It has been a happy marriage, we were both in love and have a wonderful life, great house, great cars, health, great holidays. My wife also has a great stable business. Two years ago, I discover... (704 words)

What are these white spots "downstairs"?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I've noticed I have some large whiteish spots under both labias "downstairs". They are not sore to touch but they weren't there a few months ago! Any ideas?! Thanks very much.... (39 words)

Is my fetish a way of coping with my troubled childhood?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In my early teens I always thought submissive women were weak, forced into their situations and probably beaten by their boyfriends/husbands. I did extensive research on the subject; it truly interested me. I could not understand "these people" for the life of me. Neverthel... (311 words)

My girlfriend never tells me she loves me and calls me homie! Should I be worried?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I have a Problem with my LDR relationship and need some advice. Alright well My girlfriend of 2 months (we were friends before hand for about 5 months) Never tells me that she loves me while talking over skype as we do. She will type it to me but never has she said it. am ... (151 words)

I'm worried that he doesn't feel the same way about me!

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28 September 2009 (F)

age - I have been dating a very nice man for 2 months. I have worried that he doesn't seem to have feelings for me--at least not on the level that I'm feeling. I talked to him about this on Saturday. He said he has been told by others that he is emotionally unavailable or ... (422 words)

There's going to be heartbreak tonight!

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am a 15 year old boy, and I have to chose between two girls in a few hours, both of whom I have feelings for, and neither of whom have an indication of what internal turmoil I am currently going through... The first girl, I had met shyly at a Tai-Kwon-Do tourn... (1626 words)

How do I deal with my girlfriends strict parents?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have been talking for about seven months now. her parents are really strict so we like never get to be together. i met her mother not so long ago, she seemed to like me! but its her step dad that is really strict. i want to introduce myself to him but my gf ... (128 words)

It feels like I am peeing when I orgasm!

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, (Warning this is kinds gross) I have recently found out that I'm very capable of squirting. At first I thought I peed, like everyone else but I read up on it and realized it is female ejaculation. But now I'm starting to think it is pee or maybe somethin... (111 words)

Why does he want me back when he clearly couldnt accept me the way I am?

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28 September 2009 (F)

- My ex bf just told me he wants me back, but he is the one who broke up with me in the first place. During out relationship he was always pointing out all the things that he didnt like in me, such as my values and beleiefs and just generally my personlaity. In addition to this... (350 words)

Should I leave him and start my life over again?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help. I am so confused. I don't know what to do now. I date with this guy for 2 years now. He is 8 years older then me and he said I am his first girlfriend. He said he use to date before but nobody take him serious. He is kind of plain (ugly teeth). But he is funny, ... (589 words)

Was he flirting with me or did I just misunderstand?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Due to a medical emergency back in 98 my mom had to have a surgery. I was instantly attracted to the doctor. It's been 11 years, and I sought him out to perform a routine surgery I need. I met with him last week, I was overwelmed with how I still felt so attracted to this man. ... (171 words)

Was she just behaving like this because she had just woken up? I don't know why she is treating me this way!

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey my girlfriend treats me really bad when i try to help her still or at an time tonight i woke up and said i love you to her quietly so she wouldnt wake up but she did, and she was wearing some hair curlers or something. it one became uncomfortable for or something so she ... (196 words)

He masturbates to pictures of other women and it bothers me!

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. I don't know whether there is something wrong with me because I know he masturbates to pictures of other women and it bothers me. I've talked to him about it before but he just tells me that all men do it and that he ... (117 words)

If she really does love me surely she would be telling me more often?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i told my girlfriend i loved her a couple of nights ago in bed. She replyed " do you? I love you 2". she said she had been thinking it for a while. i was thinking maybe it was too early to tell her as wev only been together about a month and a half, but ive been friends ... (244 words)

Who do I choose: boyfriend of 1 month who makes sense, or risk a new exciting connection?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so here's my problem. I've been dating this guy for a month now who i'd had a crush on for 5 months before we started dating. It's been really great but now i've moved back to college which is about two hours away. I know its not that far of a distance. But now that we dont ... (470 words)

Should I tell my ex why I'm mad at him?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my cheating ex who has not talked to me in 8months and blocked me from everything...facebook, yahoo, games we played, his cell decided to contact me 2 weeks ago it started with a friend and on yahoo well then he started texting me and talking to me on yahoo He keeps... (224 words)

I like the boy at the snackbar but what do I do now?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he like me? ------------------ Ok, it all started in April when I walked past the snackbar while I was texting a friend. My mom suddenly said: "Look!" and I said "Huh?" and looked around, and then I saw that boy, looking at me and turning red. He smiled at me. I'd see... (346 words)

I want to reduce my sexual desire!

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband loves me alot but there is almost no sex in our marriage we are married for about 2 years now and we have sex only once in 2 or 3 months. I want to know a way how I can reduce my sexual desire/urge/energy, as no sex depresses me. My husband is always tired to have ... (76 words)

My boyfriend's family drama

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm getting pretty serious with my long-term boyfriend and I'm really happy about that. I just have one issue. His family has a lot of drama. I'm not wanting to be judgemental about it because it's not his fault, but I'm just concerned as to how much of a deal this is for ... (362 words)

Am I just confused about my sexuality?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a crush on a girl for a year and a half and when i think about her i get really turned on. I get turned on by othere girls too though. I have always been interested in the female body more than the males since primary school. I remember having crushes on girls in ... (112 words)

Goint right into a relationship after ending a 3 year relationship with first love

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if i am over the man of my past relationship that just ended so abruptly, he is very bitter about it but we had so much because it was first love. Do you agree you will always be attached to your first love? When ever i am with my new boyfriend whom i s... (137 words)

Everyone is saying "just get over it" but its not that easy to do!

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I dated for a few years, he told me he wanted to be alone and didnt want a relationship. Ive recently found out he is actually seeing another girl now, I dont know what to do. I am so angry but mostly confused and I want answers from him but i know he wont answer my ... (77 words)

I want to change my lifestyle and have friends but I'm not sure how to do it!

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've just started my last year before university. I'm pretty much a loner. I don't have friends and aside from school I'm always on the computer playing poker on facebook or watching sitcoms on t.v. I know it's not good to do this and I want to change but don't know how. I ... (163 words)

5 year age difference between us is bothering me

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am starting to have really strong feelings for this guy that works in the restaurant at the bottom of my building. My issue is that I just turned 25 and he just turned 20! I am a Children's Librarian and work with kids ranging infant to 18 years old. This crush was one year ... (338 words)

How can I make him see that I'd be an awesome girlfriend?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I used to date a while ago but we were never official. He was my first and basically, I wanted a commited relationship and he wanted to be free and party. But when he blew me off for a party one time, I finally had enough and stopped talking to him, despite his ... (222 words)

How can I light her fire again, now that she's post-menopause?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age - I have been married to my wife for 23 yrs, over the yrs we have had many fights and even break ups due to my anger,I guess maybe that is the answered to my own question and reason for her actions and maybe i deseve whats comming to me. Recently i filled for divorce, but we have ... (203 words)

I want to be more than friends, how to do that without awkwardness?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I just asked a girl out to homecoming shes my friend but i want to take it a bit farther than friends and be in a relatioship with her how can i do that while makeing it as least akward as possible ... (42 words)

I think my friend's going through alot, how can I get her to open up so I can help?

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28 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - So my best friend used to be outgoing, marched to the beat of her own drummer, cheerful, happy, and lit up the room wherever she went. Last year she was kind of in this group of friends that were not so great, and DEFINITELY not anything like my friend. She changed when she ... (321 words)

His more affluent family treats me like trash!

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So here is my situation: my bf and I have been dating for a year and a half. We both just finished law school, and have jobs lined up. My job is with a small firm, and it pays substantially less than my bf's. He got a big law firm job. I went to a no-name, state c... (341 words)

Does he want me eventually, just not right now?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i don't even know where to begin. i started seeing this guy over a year and a half ago. at the time when we met i was actually pregnant with another guys baby but the father didnt want to be involved at all. i decided that i wanted to keep the baby and was happy and content ... (1115 words)

Am I pregnant? Symptons went away and now back?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was wondering if this has ever happend to any one okay well i found out i was pregnant and had all the symptoms but then i started to bleed for about five days it was really light with some clots so i thought i was having a miscarriage because all my symptoms had seem to ... (93 words)

Visions of girlfriend's past come into my head and I can't deal with it

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im on the verge of not being able to be with my girlfriend anymore because of her past. I can honestly say im depressed. Its come to a point where every time I look at her visions of her past come into my head and they will not go away. I love her so much and I dont k... (124 words)

How do you break up when your boyfriend won't let you?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been back and forth on this for months now. I've had this boyfriend that is very clingy, immature and I just don't see it going anywhere anymore. He had a history of lying in the past so I don't trust him anymore either. We've been together more than 3 years bu... (377 words)

My daughter told me she was abused by my ex

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter who is now 18 years old, told me last night that my ex-husband sexually abused her when she was 12 years old. I need help! Can we still press charges against this sexual abuser? The incident occured in New York. Can we presecute him? What is the statute of ... (59 words)

Not much contact in 2 weeks does he not feel as strongly as I do?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been talking to this guy for two months. We met through work. We were both to shy to ask each other out, so my co worker hooked us up. We immediately hit it off. We spent so much time together...movies, museums, pool hall...we just had so much fun with each other. We ... (276 words)

Why was she mean and now she's friendly?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Theres this blond girl in my language arts class who is thin and reallly short(but not one of those dwarf people, just really short)like 4 ft, and shes pretty cute, at the time i didnt know a whole lot of people yet and so when class got out as we were walking out i caught up ... (188 words)

How do I become more selfless in a relationship?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year and a half. We are in our mid-twenties, and we have talked often about getting engaged soon and getting married. In other words, we're in a pretty serious and committed relationship. We have been having issues recently ... (774 words)

What could my ex possible want from me after all this time?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - A couple of years back my ex left me and our kids to move in with another guy. It was pretty messy and she hasn't really had anything to do with the kids since. Now she's emailed me asking me to meet with her to talk and I really don't know what to do. Her thing with the guy ... (166 words)

I like my brother's friend

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well I like my brothers friend, I always have liked him but never admittied it to anyone cause i dont know how my bro would react to it. recently the feelings I have for him have started to surface alot more and my friends all found out i liked him. Anyway this all star... (483 words)

Maybe interested afer all?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I told this boy named Taz that I really liked him over the Summer, about two months ago. I told him all through text of how I like him. It was my first time ever asking a boy out and telling my feelings. I am 17 years old and I am a girl. Taz texted back and told me that he ... (368 words)

What are the four "bases"?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hahahah I know that this is going to sound dumb but i dont really get what the "4 bases" of dating are. Can anyone explain ??????????... (26 words)

Do you get pregnant from a blowjob?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i'm not really going to do this, but can a blowjob get you prgnant? in other words, if you swallow the sperm, is it possible?... (26 words)

How can I be better with my tongue action?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i have a ? for all of the ladies. i have been told that im ok with my tounge if you konw what i mean. i dont want to be just ok. can you give me some pointers and tips and tricks to be great or better. this is kinda a self esteem thing. i pride my self on this in the bedroom ... (70 words)

How does a guy give a girl a blowjob?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this guy said he will give me a blow job ok i kinda know how a gurl gives a guy one but how does a guy give a girl one???? please help me im desperate... (36 words)

I'm pregnant, lost my job, and feel like my life's spinning out of control

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me I don't know what to do. My lifes spinning out of control in a downword spiral. I just lost my job on friday. I'm pregnant. My fiance don't want to move in with my family because he can't stand them. But it would be the best choice cause if we stay with his family they ... (97 words)

All of a sudden my b/f is easily upset -- why is he acting like this?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. We're a perfect match, or says his friends and mine. Lately he hasn't been being himself. He seems mad and upset. And, he seems to get mad at me really easily (Example; For bringing up a conversation from yesterday..). I don't ... (135 words)

I dwell on my insecurities, and wonder if I should be sharing all that with her

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a very sinsecure person, being mid twenties and only in my first realtionship. My relationship is very non-sexual even though we are nearly a year into it, not necessarily through my choice but hers as she is working on some physical and therefore mental sexual problems ... (430 words)

Sometimes I think I'm gay, other times I don't?

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28 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i have a problem at times i think im gay and then i don't, when i look at gay porn i believe im gay but after i masterbat to it, it makes a left and i feel stupid for doing it like what is wrong with me, and then there are girls i like and would like to talk and there are ... (287 words)

Sex hurts since I had children

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 37 years old. I have been married for 5 years come March. When we first got together we literally had sex 4-5 times every single day. I had two children with my husband in 2006. One was born in February and the other in December. When ever we have intercourse now it hurts ... (109 words)

Why do guys tell you that they love you on the first date?

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28 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do loads of guys ask you to marry them or tell you that they love you on the first date? is it because a.)their completely insane b.)they think your stupid enough to believe them 3.)they don't usually-I just date the weirdos... (46 words)