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Whose baby is it?

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Question - (16 September 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ubbliebubbles writes:

I am 24 weeks pregnant and before this, for about 3 weeks, I had cheated on my boyfriend with another guy. I confronted him about it and he knew why I did it and forgave me. He knows about what I am going to ask on here and doesn't really mind because he is still willing to take responsibility for this baby, but I need to know even though he doesn't mind.

Well My last period was on march 24th 2009 and my ovualtion date was supposed to be on april 10th. Me and my boyfriend had sex on April 9th at around 4 in the morning. He ejaculated inside me completely. The next night though, around 12 midnight, me and the other guy I had been dating were out and doing our own thing. One thing led to another and we had sex. I stopped about 15 minutes after because I felt really bad about what I was doing. I didnt let him finish at all, so he didnt ejaculate at anytime. I am worried about the 'potential' precum getting me pregnant although I strongly believe that its my boyfriend who got me pregnant because he fully ejaculated inside me and we had sex before I had with the other guy. What are the chances of this baby being my boyfriend's rather than the other guys?

Also, just to know who the babys father is, we decided to take a paternity test, but I am just trying to get an estimated answer of the chances of this baby being my boyfriends?

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A female reader, bubbliebubbles United States +, writes (18 September 2009):

bubbliebubbles is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you! and yes because no matter what I am still going to love her nonetheless and I believe that my boyfriend will as well :) thank you so much!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009):

your baby is blessed to have a mommy and a daddy that love it already. Try to put your doubts behind you and be happy and healthy. Good luck! Being pregnant is one of the most amazing things...:)

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A female reader, bubbliebubbles United States +, writes (18 September 2009):

bubbliebubbles is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks. I know I am going to have to take a test and it wont even matter who the father really is.... to my boyfriend I mean. Either way, I just hope this little girl is my boyfriends so we can just forget about this and not put her through anything.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009):

Don't see the logic in an estimated answer. Just wait for the paternity test.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009):

unnecessary worries. go with your boy friend. lucky that you have such an understanding bf. thank god.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009):

could be either. If you're just wanting guesses, hmm, I guess guy #1. However it could be either, I think I got pregnant one time just watching my guy take his clothes off...;)

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