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writes:Hi, i'm having a really really hard time... two months ago I lost my virginity with my boyfriend, and to be honest I did it because he wanted because if he didn't i'd never ask for it, i'd take things slower than we did... So know I feel like i'm stuck with him,and this is terrible, i'm gonna try to explain why. He cheated on me 3 weeks ago, he told personal stuff about us to his friends and now if I break up with him i'm really afraid he's gonna tell everyone about what we do, and people would think i'm a whore wich i'm not. I definately have to break up with him because he even tells me that he doesn't love me, so basicaly I have no reasons wich I should be with him, but I can't because i'm afraid of what he can do to me after that and also because I really love him... Help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): Leave him , B R E A K - U P with him . dont be afraid of what hes qonna tell other people , just iqnore the rumors if he does say anythinq . it miqht hurt and affect you ! but its all worth it , riqht ?
your qonna be leavinq him because he dont love you ! and because he be puttinq your businesses out there . trust me Hunnie just leave him . You wont reqret it ' when it comes down to somethinq this serious .
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (16 September 2009):
 You know you have to break up with him. So do it.
You have to be firm with yourself.
This guy may even have already told everyone what you do. Empower yourself. He doesn't love you and trats you like garbage, but you still love him? You still do not want to leave him?
How much do you love yourself?
You need to live for yourself and not for what you think others will think of you.
Staying with him while he tells you he does not loive you and makes you feel small and crummy is not going to make him love you. It will make him think less and less of you as time goes on.
You will also think less and less of you, and really - it's what YOU think that matters.
Good luck.
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