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writes:Hey everyone. I have a question on how to know if a guy likes you? So I am twenty years old and I just joined a gym with my mother. At the gym there is this trainer who happens to be twenty two. Everytime I see him we deffinitly flirt. Through talking with him I found out he actually goes to the same college as me as well! At the gym he will take extra time to tell me how to use a machiene. He will stand verry close to me. He randomly like play kicked me lol. He even asked my mom "so whats for dinner?" He always asks about me and my daughter. The other day he said "how come I never see you in school? I have an hour and a half break and Im all alone just playing with my phone." Im deffinitly feeling him so Im wondering how to tell if he likes me? I mean he seems interested, but how do I know thats not how he is with everyone? This is only the second time Ive seen him. Im looking for serious answers here because I have NEVERRRR asked a guy out, but since I only see him when Im with my mother I maaay have to take a little bit of a leap because Im not sure he will feel comfortable doing so. I wont be like hey wanna go out with me, but you know send hints and then see if we can go to the movies or something. Another thing is what would you suggest I do to go about talking to him more? My mom thinks hes a nice guy and we have a cool relationship and she knows Im feeling him.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (17 September 2009):
 1) You've only seen him twice and so you may be reading more into this than there is. Some people flirt with their clients (depending on their jobs) to help inspire repeat business.
There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you keep a cool head and just enjoy.
2) If it is something more, the best way to find out without asking him out is to be available for him to ask you out.
Since your mother is "cool", tell her that you think he may be avoiding making a move with her around. Ask her if she minds you going to the gym on your own once or twice to see if this is the case.
Good luck.
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