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writes: Hi I just started my first year in high school and i think that i have fallen in love with a sophomore. when i first saw him i was attending to a freshmen orientation. i guest he was taking summer school classes or something. so when i when to the school office to buy my uniform it was when i saw him. we stare at each other for 5 seconds or so, it was like love at first sight. for that moment i couldn`t stop thinking about him for the past 3 months. since now i`m starting high school i see him often, when i see him i get this amazing feeling, my heart starts to race, i get butterfly on my stomach, chills, and a feeling on my heart that i can`t describe. i think about him 24/7 all the time! but i think he has a girlfriend because when i was walking to the train station i saw him with some of his friends and a girl they were close like couples are. when i saw that i was heart broken, i couldn`t think well. i fell devastating. i just wanted to know is this just a crush or i`m really in love? ps. please don't say things about i should focus on school, on my studies, etc. because i`m really focus on school. 4 years from now i wanna be in nyu, or columbia or harvart.
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reader, patient66 +, writes (23 September 2009):
Hello,
I am not going to be a hypocrite and tell you to focus on school :)
To be honest it may be a crush. The excitment of him, the mystery. Do you know much about him? Do you think he likes you that way?
If you talk to him more then you would be able to decide how deep those feelings go.
I wouldn't try to get in between him and his "could be girlfriend". You dont want to start trouble. but if there is a way to become friends you could find out more and then maybe things might just come naturally.
Good Luck xo
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