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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to deal with this situation of possibly dating a co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I was angry at a guy who is my colleague and did not talk to him because I thought he wasn't nice to me. Today the guy asked me:" to be friends and see where this will lead, also he said that we can meet each other outside our working place". First I rejected him and... (436 words)

I lost my libido years ago!

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married since 1997, have two girls age 10 and 8 and I have lost my libido for what seems like years. My husband has given up trying to have sex after being brushed off so many times. Anyone with advice or has the same problem? Please help?... (51 words)

Dating 5 months, 4 months pregnant and we're not happy!

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I'm 4 months pregnant with his baby. Everything has moved so quickly!! Sadly we just don't seem to be happy. In fact we just seem to argue most of the time. I do love him but I am not sure that he loves me. He says he is happy ... (158 words)

I'm acting like a psycho ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi again aunts and uncles, im in real need of help. I am staring to hate the way im behaving right now. I recently ended a relationship, and instead of acting mature i act like a total jerk sometime: I call him and ask him stupid questions, i fight with him about old things, ... (250 words)

I can't stand that my husband is still the same after 11 years of marriage

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am 29 years old and have been married for 11 years today. I have two boys 7 and 2. Today is my anniversary and I am miserable! Instead of celebrating I feel sad, like if I'm serving a life sentence. I can't stand my husband. I married him at age 18. Since then I ... (237 words)

What does he mean by "see him"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...Here is the thing.. 2 Days ago I got with this lad...or did I? confusing or what? Here's the full story. This lad asked me if I wanted to " see him" And I said yes...seems straight forward I no...But I don't understand what context he meant when he said "seeing him" doe... (82 words)

I have the perfect boyfriend, and instead I want Mr. Toothless! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for just a little over a year. We have been doing the distance thing for about 7 months of it... he's a very attractive, kind person. The problem is, I've been hanging out with this much older guy lately. I mean - he's the same age as my father!! He's... (196 words)

Is complete hardness a very important factor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. Question for the ladies. I have a 7 3/4" penis with a 5 3/4" girth. My wife says it is by far the biggest she has been with. The question is: sometimes if we have sex too long or a lot of foreplay, it loses some of its erectness. It is still erect enough for sex but ... (109 words)

He is either red hot or ice cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - pls help, i'v got involved wit an old flame he is just out of a marriage i am just out of a long relationship. he has said from the start he doesnt want a relationship. he wine's n dine's me,takes me to club's pub's away for weekends treats me like a princess buy's me stuff ... (175 words)

Is it common for a woman to go through a period of promiscuity/sexual experimentation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it common for a woman to go through a period of promiscuity/sexual experimentation in her young adult life. My girlfriend of six months told me she had been with 5 guys in six months her senior year of college. The last one she dated for 6 years and before those 5 guys s... (129 words)

Do I give my ex bf another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked for advice at the beginning of this year when i had split with my ex boyfriend. I was in heartache and agony and was spiralling out of control, i had lost over a stone in weight when i discovered he'd been texting other women. this all happened at the worst time ever - ... (1440 words)

How are we supposed to date if he wants won't contact me...should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To make a VERY long story short, Me and ex were together for 2 years...so in love...moved in with each other...relationship went downhill, I had my own insecurities and I was clingy and jealous. He has his...needs video games, sports, friends, etc. He became distant and I gave ... (181 words)

Why do our b/f's insist that we swallow?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my b/f for 6 months now and we haven't had intercourse yet. I told him several times that I am saving myself for marriage and he calls me a priss all of the time. He claims I am sexually pent up. But I take care of his needs either by hand or orally almost ... (105 words)

Should I be worried about the text messages she's getting from this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I be concerned with flirtatious text messages that my wife gets from an old co-worker? My wife gets flirtatious text messages from someone she used to work with. This person left the company she is with about 12 months ago and they were friends. I never liked this... (409 words)

In love with her but she's not ready! How do I get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, if anyone can give me any advice on this situation I will be incredibly grateful - its screwing up my head and my life and I need to do something to sort it out. Sorry this is such a long post - Im trying to sum up the most eventful six months of my life in a few ... (717 words)

I'm really sad when I'm not with g/f..how do I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Been going out with gf for just under a year now and it's got to the stage where if I am really sad when I am not in her company, which is rediculously...well...rediculous. How do I make myself feel better when I am not in her company? ... (54 words)

Frequently late periods ...

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my wife always geting peroid late. 2-3 times she geting period late. but she not pregent. 2 years back we married. but i thought she pregant last month but some time timea brownish clour water cuming.some time time like dropd blood coming. but now alredy 36 days... ... (47 words)

Was my exgirlfriend cheating on me?

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25 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi this is Zahir Yousafzai from Pakistan. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. My gut feeling always had this thought that she was cheating on me. She had a facebook account for almost one year but she disclosed this on me in the first week of June and also shared her ... (552 words)

I know he doesn't want a relationship so whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Im sorry for the length of this but i really need some help for my own benefit. I met someone must be two years ago now and liked him for a year and a half.I've never ever wanted a bf, yea ive liked someone but never thought anymore of it because im happy the way i am. ... (783 words)

I don't want to be another guy who breaks her heart, but I don't know how to be candid with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this one is really complicated I have this girlfriend,she's 22(and has a child) and I'm 18.We've been together for a month. We really like each other alot. Her heart as been broken many times, so she's lost all trust in men,so she think we all are the same, only after ... (492 words)

Is it normal for a 13 year old's erection to not get all of the way up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 13 year old male and I'm worried about my erection, it get's hard as a rock, but won't get all of the way up for some reason and I'm worried about my future sex life.... (38 words)

10 seconds and erection is gone..why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) age - What could be the problem here? When we have intercourse,my husband usually gets an erection, but around 10 sec inside he is losing in totally. He has night erection, so the plumbing works.... What do you think could be the reason to this?... (44 words)

I treated him so badly that he went to another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what do i do when ive treated the one i love so badly he turned to another girl and doesnt know if he even wants me back now!!! ive been cold and distant and he has tried so hard to love me and now i know what ive lost please help me!!... (52 words)

Why do I feel jealous of his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Ok, today my boyfriend is going to hang out with some old friends, and I feel uneasy about this and jealous. I know I shouldn't, especially since it will probably be just the three of them. One of this guys lives in town, and they don't see each other too often due to ... (381 words)

Would a guy say they're single if they're not?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi this guy has a crush on me and has shown it for almost 3 months then he call me and I never answer him he left the following day, in early September I saw him again and we said hi, he still notice me he said "hey" and again i never answer him,even if I also give him signs ... (169 words)

Cheating with a co-worker/friend of my husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for 16 years and have two children. My husband has been unresponsive and ignoring me for probably 5 of those years. I have considered leaving him many times but haven't for the sake of the children. We have now unofficially seperated, living in different ... (224 words)

Overly critical spouse

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my husband is overly critical and he thinks that i m overly sensitive. I feel he lives in a dreamworld where he feels the need to have a perfect wife with a perfect figure who is also a great cook etc etc. I feel he is always criticising me and I find it hard to believe ... (196 words)

How can I find my real father just a first name?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok guys. i realllllly need some help here. first the basics.. im 17 years old, i have a step dad and 2 younger siblings (6 and 7). ok, so ive never met my real dad. i know that he was a bad person, he hit my mum (and worse) and has been in and out of prison for years, and i ... (248 words)

How can I help him without giving in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i just broke up with my boyfriend about about a week ago. i did it because i dont think im ready for the kind of relationship we were in, plus i just graduated hs and really want to figure everything out which i couldnt have done if i was with him. but after some talking ... (210 words)

He's 6 years older than me but I really have feelings for him, its an online romance

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so basiclly i'm quite young and i live in another country to this other guy who is 20 and 6 years older than me and he isn't a perv or nothing due to the plain and simple fact i lied about my age i look older anyways and i'm more mature so when i say i'm older people will ... (431 words)

A check into his emails brings up many inappropriate texts between him and his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What to do? Last night in a fit of temper following an argument with my boyf, i decided to go through his SMS inbox behind his back. at the time i justified it to myself by telling myself it was ok because he had done this to me in the past, and it was something i had ... (623 words)

I think he's trying to decide if he wants to be with me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dealing with wach other for 4 years now. I have held the title as his girlfriend for 3 years. Hes 22 and im 21 and he recently mentioned that he was ready yo start a family, I personally dont feel that neither of us are stable enough for a child or ... (229 words)

Who's right? Him? Or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me out...Recently I asked about my relationship. And now my boyfriend wants his question answered.He wants to know is it right for me to text or call him like every 3 hours when he is not home..But here is why I do In the first part of relationship was perfect like ... (243 words)

Can he be so cold to not acknowledge the wrong that he's done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 1/5 years and we spoke and emailed every day, several times a day, for several hours. We somehow managed to make it work. Last week I was away on business and told him i'd talk with him on sunday as soon as i got back home. ... (425 words)

Guy with girlfriend very flirty..is that wrong?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is it wrong for a guy who has a girlfriend to be very flirty. I have met this guy and we are all stayin in univerisity halls, therefore he is away from his girlfrind but he is acting exceptionally flirty. I feel bad because I am enjoying the flirting as i have feelings for ... (68 words)

I'm a babysitter and the father asked me out to lunch!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I babysit a couple's child. His wife is expecting a baby in the new year. The husband asks me out to lunch when he picks up his child. Is this inappropriate?... (31 words)

We love each other but don't make each other happy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I'm gonna try to condense the past 5 years into a few paragraphs! haha So my boyfriend and I met in 2004 when we were both much younger and immature (18 and 20), we practically lived together and dated for 6 months, then broke up. We were just really young and... (738 words)

Ex: Would he tell me that he loved me if he didn't?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so me and my ex split up about 3 weeks ago due to him having feelings for another girl. it was me that ended it because i just couldn't go on knowing he liked someone else. since then we have kept in touch and he claims that he still loves me but doesnt know what he wants. i ... (193 words)

Am I just not being assertive enough? G/f walks all over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im not a very assertive guy, and i feel that i have let my gf walk over me a bit too much recently, i have let most of my past flames controll me and walk all over me, i do not like to upset people and often go out of my way just to make people smile or feel that iv sat... (676 words)

Help me win back the man I adore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For almost 2 years I had a wonderful relationship with a beautiful man. Even when he became an Air Force Officer and we had to do the long distance thing for over a year we remained very close and would visit each other frequently. We both have decent incomes and would split ... (575 words)

Is it silly of me to dwell on the fact that he hasn't bought me a birthday present?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been going out for four and a half years, and for my birthday this year he told me he was taking me on holiday. 2 weeks before my birthday though he broke up with me, he said he needed space, and lots of time apart from me. I rang him 3 days later ... (235 words)

I have been unwell and none of my friends have asked after me! Should I bring it up with my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently fairly poorly at the moment and have to stay at home for a few days. I have a lovely family around to care for me but what concerns me is that, in my opinion, friends are meant to also ask after me if possible. I have several good friends but only one of them has ... (141 words)

She is afraid to have a relationship with me in case she loses her support system

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am friends with a girl. I haven't known her long. Just under a year. When we first met we talked about getting together but she was just trying to get out of a bad 5 year relationship. Since we started hanging out as friends she would tell me about her life and how bad ... (319 words)

He's never given me any reason to doubt him but I cant get over his past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age - Hi, my partner of five years is 62 and I am 53 hence we have a lot of life experiences between us. When we first got together he told me a lot about his past and if I'm honest I was shocked as it consisted of 4 unplanned pregnancies, 3 abortions etc etc. (I was brought up a ... (326 words)

The girl I used to bully wants to go on a date with me! Any ideas why she would want to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im slightly confused by this, i used to bully this girl when we were both 13-14 im a girl too (im not proud of it and i know its worng) now we are both 18 and i got a phone call from here saying that she forgives me for bullying her and wants to go on a date....now i have ... (86 words)

My girlfriend wont let me pleasure her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently having problems with my girlfriend. A little background info: She is 18 and I am 24. We met online when she was 15 and after about 3 or 4 months things started to blossom and she admitted she loves me. So once she turned 18 she decided to apply for a co... (246 words)

Is my boyfriend falling for his roomate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has moved in with our mutual friend, who is a girl. They are also living with two of his guy friends. They have been getting really close. They are extremely flirty. In fact, they are closer at this point than I am with him. They are constantly facebookin... (324 words)

Which guy will bring me the most happiness? Who should I trust the most?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - last night my bloke asked me to sleep with him, i said no, by sayin no resulted in him pushin me right by the stairs. i nearly fell down them. do u think he would ever hit me? also i have been reading his comments and it appears that he is meeting up with other gals... i really ... (317 words)

I'm having a second affair after I promised I would never leave him again, do I stay with him or follow my heart and be with the man I love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This could be a long post but I have to lay it all out. I am a married woman and have been with my husband for 13 years. He was my first serious relationship (I met him when I was 20). About 6 years ago I had an affair and told him I was leaving. He had a nervous breakdow... (671 words)

How do you get your ex back when he is in another country?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you get your ex back?when he's in another country? now i know some of you would say:why do you want him back?or he's not worth trying..and blablabla... but i know for a fact that this is what i really want..i know he has feelings for me but we're both so stuborn an... (77 words)

I'm the one showing all the love...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. so i hope anyone can help me. I dont know if my boyfriend loves me. He says he does. But i feel like im the one showing all the love. See i had to leave him for three months and i promised him i would call him. I feel bad cause im always the one calling him to say good ... (279 words)

Guys: Do you still think of your ex when in relationship with someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a qucik question to the guys who come here! Do you still think about your ex gf's or ex wives whilst you are in a relationship? If so how, when and why? Thanks :)... (38 words)

We are both married but I can't move on from the ex after 8 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He is my soulmate and i love him so much. i dont see myself loving someonelse,i hev tried but failed because i think of him all the time and he tells me he misse me too.Right i started dating this guy wen i was 18years old we loved each other so much that we alwaz spent so much ... (471 words)

Has my sister's man been molesting their child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a younger sister who is in a very abusive relationship. Eleven months ago she had a baby by this person. A few months ago they broke up and eventually, he wormed his way back into her life. She just found out (by a doctor) that she has herpes and that she is again pre... (149 words)

What if this girl finds out I still have feelings for my ex?

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25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, I like this girl. But still have feelings for my ex. Should i continue going for this girl i like or not because its unfair? And what if she were to know i still have feelings for my ex? what that affect alot of things?... (55 words)

B/f talking to his ex even though he knows I don't like it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well, my boyfriend and i have bin together for past two years..although we live very far apart but still i have never been felt so low..i have started to feel insecure over these couple of days..sum days back we had a fight because of his friend who offered him to spend a night ... (173 words)

Do you think he is having a second guess about breaking up or am I waiting for nothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend ended our 6 year relationship 3 weeks ago, he said he doesnt feel he loves me anymore. He works from home and we have a 2 year old boy together. We spend 24/7 together, even share the same hobby. We have the odd disagreement but rarely argue, we get on really ... (671 words)

Why does it hurt to have sex even after 5 years of sexual activity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all I'm kinda new at this so please work with me...I'm 20 years old and lost my virginity at 15 I've had 3 partners in that time one of which I was with for 4 years and we did it on a regular basis and even now it still feels like he rips me open everytime I know that ... (182 words)

Why do I get upset when my boyfriend masturbates?

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25 September 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I am wondering... why do i get so upset when my boyfriend masterbates? Why does it bug me he watches porn... i get so jealous as if he wants to be with those women on the porno and then he tells me sometimes he doesnt need porn and that its in his head..? Why do i immeditaly ... (115 words)

Can girls feel you cum inside of them?

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25 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a weird question. I hooked up with this girl for the first time (without a condom, stupid I know) and she rode me for a few minutes and came on my penis. After she finished cumming she asked me if I had cum inside of her and I was puzzled since I thought she could ... (107 words)

What do I do about my alcoholic wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age - my question is about my alcohol wife Im married 15 years and the stories or horror stories I never thought that an alcoholic can create so many serious problems, dangerous and destructive. I got to get out of this situation I tried everything to help her, rehabs, doctors, 911 ... (321 words)

Even though he's been going behind my back, I don't want to leave him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had a realtionship with another female for years. I was with him first but it started before we were married. Then We all started having threesomes together. I did not know that they were doing it behind my back. I just recently found out that this has been going on ... (180 words)

Shall I go and talk to him even if he's a jerk and a liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is happening ? I and my boyfriend we are together since 2 years , recently I noticed that he became different person , he changed , like he doesn’t want me , if I hug him he said I hate hugging If I want sex , he said I hate sex , if I wanna go out , he says I hate goi... (498 words)

Does all this mean I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im deeply in love with a girl at school and I fall in love her all over again when I see her and think about her. Also I get really excited(down there) and my nipples erect. I have never liked anyone this much before but i want to know if i am a lesbians. I know i should know ... (104 words)

Is our love fixable after 20 yrs together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We have been together for 20 years I am 40 and he is 39 . We were college sweethearts and very intensely in love. HE would play guitar and serenade me outside my window. Bring me flowers the whole thing. THen we had a child. I watch enough OPRAH to know to fold the child into ... (332 words)

Why does she dress to impress when I'm not around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey whats up guys and girls i need help i don't know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when I'm not going to be around like when she goes to school or work or something she never wears nice things when i am. does she have something on the side, is she cheating on ... (413 words)

Caught in the crosshairs between best friend and her boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have a friend who I had been friends with for over a decade and we fell apart over a serious issue some time ago. I love her though she's the only person I care about (platonically) the way that I do. Now she had this boyfriend who treated her horrible and was a real ... (441 words)

Once a cheater isn't always a cheater?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - a week ago my cousin told me she had slept with my bf. given the fact that he had cheated on me before, and that she is a very close cousin, even though he denied it. i still broke up with him. now i learn that she lied in order to break us up. cuz of this event i haven't been ... (115 words)

He wants no contact but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been dating my ex boyfriend for 2 years, we broke up about a year ago for a few months and it was him who wanted to work things out. However, out of the blue he told me nearly 2 weeks ago he wanted to be alone and didnt want a relationship anymore. He has also told me he ... (106 words)

He didn't tell me how old or sick he was, and I've me someone closer to my age

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25 September 2009 (F)

age - I am 62 years old (but a very young 62). I'm active, I exercise 5 times a week and everyone tells me I don't look my age. I'm in good health and take care of myself. Six years ago, my husband of 32 years passed away. Three years later I met a man while I was walking home ... (552 words)

What do you say to a person in this position who once meant everything to you?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, deep breaths as I type this out. It's very long, but I felt I needed to give all the facts. I'd been best friends with this guy since we were seven. We were crazy close. We'd talk about anything and everything, always be around each other, it got to the point where when... (1060 words)

Should I admit that I'm bi or keep it a secret from others?

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25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, im so frustrated. after getting dumped by my girlfriend, i felt relieved cuz things between us werent working out. after the events between us were over with, i didnt feel like being in a relationship anytime then i thought "what if the person i would be with be a ... (96 words)

How do I overcome the bad boy syndrome?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help i do have a thing for fallin for guys with bad repuations like cheatin lyin etc.. but when this one guy in particular who has told me he is attracted to me even with his cheatin past isnt showin me attention cause i "played hard to get with him" makes me feel bad how do i ... (66 words)

I'm afraid to commit to anything intense right now but I don't want to lose her!

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25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with a girl last year, and it was really exciting. but she had a boyfriend. she told me she felt the same way but couldn't do anything about it. it went pretty good and pretty bad during that time and my heart breaking on and off. after a while, i fell in love ... (213 words)

Should I try and get a relationship from him or just stay friends?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately i havent been able to make up mind about a guy. But there are two guys who i have had feelings for, for a couple years now. One of them just hates me now so i just said that God was showing me it wasnt meant to be. The other guy is still always on my mind. This past... (176 words)

What is the best thing for everyone in this situation?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am overwhelmed. Nine months ago or so, who I thought was my best friend started dating the guy that I had a huge crush on for over three years. I know he wasn't an ex-boyfriend, but he was still a huge part of my past. He and I always had a more than friendship kind ... (285 words)

How common is it for guys to try to push you into things sexually?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ladies how common is it for guys to try and push you into things you don't want to do sexually or to atually force you-I've encountered a few guys like this and I want to know whether it's normal but girls just don't say that it's happened to them or whether I'm just ... (118 words)

Guys: Is monogomy a myth?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - guys have you ever been completly faithful to a woman throughout your relationship-I'm starting to wonder whether faithful men are a myth,all my boyfreinds have cheated... (26 words)

Why was he so intensely into me only to drop me later?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is it with guys who come on so strong in the beginning, pursue you like crazy, get your hopes up so much and then just drop you like you never mattered at all? I met someone online and I seriously thought he had a lot of potential. The first date was amazing, we just... (411 words)

How can I control my sexual urges better?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know exactly what I'm asking here, but I'll try to explain it. It's been a while since I've been in a relationship, about a year, and I don't really feel particularly lonely (although I would love to meet someone nice). My problem is that I'm having trouble with my ... (86 words)

Do I have a disorder?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 years old and I don't remember the last time I was truly happy. Sure, I laugh and I smile but I can't remember what true happiness is like. I haven't felt it in a long time. I don't have a bad life, I think I am a good looking girl and I have great friends and fami... (304 words)

Feeling lost about myself

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I know this is going to sound a little crazy but have you ever felt like you werent really you? i mean for me i fell like the world is going so fast but im just standing still and not included in it. I honestly dont know why i fell this way. I am happy but at other ... (207 words)

When do I say enough and just move on?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here goes, I was married for 17 yrs.to a physical and emotionally abusive man. Finally got the courage to dump him and 4 mos. Later began a relationship with (A). We fell deeply in love but cause of my past didn't trust him. We moved in together but I treated him the way ... (199 words)

How can I get over my spanish teacher?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher is a girl and so am i. i can't ... (271 words)

My boyfriend gets mad if I wear matching bra and panties when he is gone

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend gets mad at me for wearing panties and bras that match when I am not with him. Is this out of line? We have been together for almost two years. I have never been unfaithful to ANYONE. HE has.... (44 words)

Why do I feel like shit over something SHE said?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't really know how to go about this but here goes anyways. Ok, so I have this friend that I started hanging out with more and more recently. We hit a rough spot and got evicted from our apartment and she is letting is stay with her and her family and sleep in her son's ... (307 words)

I think I'm bisexual how can I tell my girlfriend?

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25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Im a 14 year old male and on the virge of turning 15. And i have a girlfriend who i love dearly,And i really enjoy beying with her. But with this comming of age ive realized and discovered many things about myself.....the thing is i maybe attracted to guys too. it's ... (175 words)

Dreaming/fate/love

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25 September 2009 (M)

age - If you have been talking to a girl for awhile , no big deal .Then one day you shake pinkies . And something goes right through you . Like a chill going up and down your spine.Only this was like I fell inlove with her . And please ,was not looking for it . Was this just a ... (164 words)

Am I being punished for not being a male?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have gone through over 11 years of sexual and verbal abuse by my husband. The pain is too much for me. I have had suicidal thoughts of dying and wanted to do all sorts of crazy things that would cause me to die. The type of sexual abuse I have been experiencing i... (331 words)

I feel my boyfriend's mother is overstepping a little with our plans for the baby!

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if i'm thinking to deep into this matter or wether or not i have some valied resson for concern. Me and my partner are expecting are first child in a few months but frew out the whole pregnancy I have had some concern as to wether or not my boyfriends mom i... (377 words)

I don't have what it takes to keep this marriage going...

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I really need some help on this. My husband and I have been together about 12 years. We have been married for 8. I am 29 years old and my husbamd is 32. I am going to try and cut to the short version but this is still going to be kind of long. We were very young ... (444 words)

I thought telling would make it better, but it didn't!

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i had cheated on my bf a while ago and today just told him and he take it the way that i though he would. He hates me and i know it and i derseve it and and im a loser and cheater and i hate myself. he had ask me once and i told him i didnt and i did so now he hates me ... (149 words)

I like this girl, yet I still have feelings for my ex.

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25 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is basic. I like this girl, yet i still have feelings for my ex. Should i go ahead with this relationship of this new girl or wait until i have fully got over my ex? And how would the girl i like take news of me still having feelings for my ex?... (65 words)

I want to enjoy my teenage years! How do I tell him I don't want to date him without upsetting him?

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - one of my realy good guy friends asked me out, but i dont want a relationship right now i just wana have fun and enjoy my teen years without strings atached, i wana be able to do what i want with who i want when i want! how do i tell him i dont wana date him w/out upseting him?... (60 words)

My boyfriend thinks I don't support him, I can't argue or I'll lose him!

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I really love him and we have a good sex life. But hes so immature at times. and the problem I face now is nearly losing him. Today he had an argument with my best friend, my best friend ended up walking out cryi... (300 words)

We've broken up, but it's impossible to work things out with a zombie!

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my boyfriend of almost a year broke up with me almost a month ago, saying it was him not me and that he wanted to still be friends. I was heartbroken, but I have been trying to move on. Anyway, I hadn't talked to him until he called me this week, saying he wanted to ... (245 words)

Visit my son in jail? Or write a letter telling him how his behavior is affecting the family?

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25 September 2009 (F) age - My son ended up in jail, after several probation charges with shoplifting and others, to support his drug habits. Now it is the 10 th year of this struggle. We tried to help him,many many times. Right now ,I'm hesitating if I should visit him in jail, or just write him a long a... (211 words)

I needed a hug, not a French kiss!

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25 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal that a girl would just want a hug from her boyfriend rathar than a french kiss ,,you see ,2 of my friends died at a car accident, and i was crying so when we met , i hugged him and i started crying he hugged me back but then afterwards he started frenchkissing me , ... (102 words)