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What do I do? I like one and don't want to hurt the other!

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Question - (16 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2009)
A female Netherlands Antilles age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So i have 2 guy friends. Lets call them Bob And John

Bob and John have been best friends for a long time.

I like John. And he likes me to. But Bob also likes me.

Me and Bob have been really good friends for a really long time. And there has always been something between me and bob. Now I'm simply confused. I don't know what to do. I know that if i start something with John that Bob will be really hurt and i dont want that. Also there is the problem that it might ruin their friendship.

Can anyone give me some advice on what to do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009):

You are a nice person if you are considering their feelings.

I am sure it would be awkward for them. At the same time, it is not advisable to stay with someone you are not totally into. Break it off and just sit back to see what happens.

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