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Penetration is painful, is it because I'm a beginner?

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Question - (16 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I've always been really tight down there. Like before it hurt to put one finger in. So I bought a very skinny cheap vibrator to help stretch Me out a bit. It worked. And soon enough I could put two fingers in with very little pain. So I decided I could probably try and acctually have sex. And it really really really hurt.. And he didn't even get it in. So I bought a bigger one because I find the vibration numbs the pain of stretching. So I know I can definitely have sex now but here's the problem. Penetration Makes Me feel like I have aweful gas. Both ends. And I don't understand. Like I found masterbating better with it in. But as long as I wasn't really moving it that much. And using clit stimulation. But he's not just going to leave his penis just in Me and not thrust.. Is it just because I'm a beginer? I also heard it doesn't feel good because the vibrator doesn't have a forskin. Will that make all the difference for Me?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (16 September 2009):

DoubleM agony auntYes, and this problem will disappear. Are you a very small woman? If so, this issue will still not persevere because most every woman's vagina is extremely accommodating.

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