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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

At 21, is it too late to learn and be loved ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've always had problems socialising and making friends, as in I have no idea how to form relationships. This also means i've never had a girlfriend. I just have no confidence, feel like im imposing myself on people and generally just clueless. I just turned 21 and I feel so... (151 words)

Boyfriend will not stop groping me in public!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is slightly, well very, embarrassing, I'm posting this out of sheer desperation, so please serious replies only! My boyfriend is um, rather disinihibited in public. This includes mainly groping my bum, breasts and talking about sex in full view and earshot of every... (196 words)

I'm in love with my cousin. should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have become more attached to my cousins over these past couple years. We see each other 3-4 times a year and over this past summer we saw each other a lot more than we usually do. We talk to each other everyday on the phone as much as we can and I have come to like her a lot. ... (210 words)

I just cannot make him cum!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant seem to make my boyfriend cum. I have literally sat for hours going down and giving him hand jobs but he wont cum. I'm beginning to feel like theres something wrong with me!... (35 words)

Do I have to lose my hymen to squirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Yeah, so i'm 13 and sometimes when i'm alone i like to play with myself. I managed to orgasm in like 40 minutes on my first time and i have been doing it 2-3 times for the past two weeks i am on my bed playing with my clit. I really want to know how to squirt. Any tips? And do ... (67 words)

I'm definite proof that nice guys finish last

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, so I've asked questions on here before, got some advice, but a year on, I'm still in exactly the same situation. I'm now 25, and still never had a date. Never had a girl say yes when I've asked her out, or don't think there's ever been a girl that's had any feelings for me. ... (222 words)

Our marriage is breaking up and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am about to lose my wife of 14 years and we have 2 kids as well. We had a great pressureless life for 10 years (everything went so smooth) and now she started working for about 3 years now and the pressure got to her and it has been bad the last 2 years. she says shes fa... (130 words)

He moved in with me, and our sex life died

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has recently moved in with me. Before this happened, we saw each other mostly on the weekends because of the distance we lived. Our sex life was great. However, it completely stopped once he moved in. After battling the many reasons as for the cause, we finally ... (322 words)

Should I continue to flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, this might sound really corny what i done... So I like this boy, and i think he likes me too (but im not sure anymore. He was recently moved to my P.E. class so he sat next to me on the coach. We talked alot as we have the same interests and get along, but he's shy so ... (255 words)

How can I make him think I'm losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I said too much and now regret it. I know guys like the chase and want to be the first to say how they feel. I just cant help myself and I told the guy I like that I dont know if hes into me (he now knows i talk about him with my friends, he knows im thinking about h... (99 words)

I'm positive he's cheating but I don't want to say anything. If I ignore it, can I still make things work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for nearly four years and I love him very much. We do have our problems from time to time but that's because "one" of us has anger issues. He has hit me one time after I slapped him but I had a good reason to get phys... (328 words)

My boyfriends best male friend calls him all the time, even at night. Am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2yrs and in that time his best friend who is a boy calls him upto 10 times a day, whether he's at work with me, anytime even at night he calls him. Its really annoying, am i over reacting ?... (49 words)

How can someone who says they love you leave you in the dirt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In April I found out that I was with child. I knew who the father was because I had not had sex with anyone but him. He was the first person that I ever sleep with and the same goes for him. We were each others first. We always stayed in touch with one another. Now the night we ... (300 words)

What makes someone push something good away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age - What is wrong with me? I am a successful female divorcee, who has had multiple relationships that just do not turn out. Recently I dated a guy for 2 1/2 years. I fell in love with him, but had reservations about some of his behaviors and his reputation with my friends made the... (225 words)

He watches porn more than having sex with me, and then lies about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - (It's long, but please read the whole thing before giving advice so you understand everything. Thanks :-D) First off, I want to say, I do not have a problem with porn as long as it's not an addiction. I believe porn can be healthy for a relationship as long as both people f... (1132 words)

I want to have sex whilst I'm spotting, how can I talk to him about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently on birth control. Its my second month taking it, and now im starting to spot. I know its normal but I really was looking forward to seeing my boo today and having both oral sex and penetration. I know it may sound nasty, but I just want to know could I still have ... (72 words)

At then end of the year we will never see each other again. I can't deal with it, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a over a year and a half. come the end of this year, we both have known that we have to say goodbye. We will be travelling to different countries because of university, family and culture and there is nothing either of us can do about it. We ... (177 words)

He left me for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i've were 2gether for a year and half and i love him i do i really do but he says that the feeling is not mutual he likes men.... he is gay.... i felt like i wanted to pass out. what am i going to do he left me for another guy! am I that useless that i cannot please a ... (71 words)

Bites? Scabies? Allergic reaction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently been waking up with what looks like mosquito bites but i did a little reasearch and i think it might be a dust mite bite but there is 5 of them , I am worried. Is it an allergic reaction? Is it scabies? when i first got bitten it hurt alot i could not tell what it ... (84 words)

Scared my eating disorder will return!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 4 months pregnant with my 2nd baby(planned), me and my fiance are both over the moon. I'm very excited and feel very blessed to be carrying our second child. I love being a mummy to be 10 month old little boy. He's my whole world and I love him so much, I can't wait to ... (244 words)

Relationship where we've never had sex, he's never said I love you

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 28 year old woman and have been in a relationship with a 32 year old guy for over 3 years now. He has never said I love you to me. Also he will not have sex with me- we have never even slept in the same bed. He always has an excuse and we have had some serious talks ... (115 words)

I had to invite myself, now I don't know how to discuss it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating a friend of a friend. Before we became involved, I used to always ask him what was up on the weekend and he'd invite me to go out to the bar with our friends or sometimes just his friends. Last night I asked him if we could get together this weekend, and he ... (205 words)

For the guys: How often do you call a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Question for guys: How often do you call a girl you are sorta interested in but its really new and fresh and your taking it slow. Is it once a week? once every 2 weeks?... (39 words)

My boyfriend is underweight, and I'm worried about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive always known my boyfriend is very small framed. Recently we were discussing weight, because I've been trying to lose a few extra pounds. And he stated that he weighs 110. He is only 5'10 in height.T his makes his bmi at 15.8! Is this normal and should I be worried? When we ... (141 words)

Should I wish him a happy birthday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for a year. He is a good friend to me but last year he didn't say Happy Birthday to me. Even though everyone said happy birthday to me around school. I was so shocked and now his birthday is coming around should I say happy birthday to him. Why would he ... (99 words)

I can't tell if he is just being friendly or wants more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend Rob and I have know each other for a year or more and he started out a long time ago acting nice and flirting. He used to have me listen to his music and watch videos on his ipod, I did a word search and he would write our names on it, texted me all the time. Then a ... (274 words)

He ran off but we were still going out...?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this one friendd of mine used to always text and want to hang oout but i went to a diff school then he did but then went i trasferred to his school and he stopped talking to me. one day at school i seen him so i yelled his name and he said oh shit and ran off so i wass like ... (100 words)

I don't like sex, it's despicable, what do you think?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't like sex, I never have and I don't think I ever will. I'm not asexual, I'm anti-sexual. For me, sex has a negative impact on a relationship not a positive. I think as a man, if you have a sexual relationships with a women they judge you on your penis, not on ... (216 words)

How can I keep his attraction for me long term?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there. I'd be very grateful for some suggestions from women out there on how I can remain attractive to my man in a long term relationship. I sense he is very dissatisfied with me - disgruntled to the extent of having low self esteem. He doesn't want to talk about our ... (144 words)

Strange physical sypmtoms are really concerning me. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isnt love advice but it is necessary. I have recently been feeling sick/nausea, always tired, i have lost my appetite and have a metallic taste in my mouth. Not to mention the hair on my legs seems to have a life of its own and is growing really fast. I have had ... (84 words)

I want to get them to break up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive known this girl for a year now. Shes everything you could ask for, pretty, great personality, and we have really good chemistry, we could talk for hours. When i first met her she was going out with one of my friends, and i was going for someone else. It didnt work ... (181 words)

I'm turned off by my girlfriend's tattoo, this is causing problems during sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a problem with my girls tattoo. Its quite large and of a tribal/spikey design. I love her to death and before people jump in and tell me about self expression and accepting her for who she is - I totally except her for who she is and love her for being her self. I just ... (183 words)

Why did he run back to the ex and behave like he did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im currently 29 weeks pregnant and me and my ex partner got together 15 months ago he had come from a broken marriage and i came from a broken relationship i fell pregnant straight away not planned but we decided to keep it at 26 plus 4 weeks i developed pre eclampsia and my ... (289 words)

How do I act around him at the party?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well last night me and a couple of friends arranged a camp out/party sort of thing. A lot of people came for the party bit, but in the end only 5 of us camped out. Now a guy I know was one of the ones that camped out, but he only arrived at 11.30 because of work. Only me and ... (608 words)

I love her, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I 'M HURT because my fiancée of nine years said we're done ,she bring up the past all the time .I always put her first now she dont want to talk about it.what do i do i wrote her two letters telling her how i feel and i was sorry.we live together for eight years [Moder... (270 words)

My gay ex-boss wants to watch a movie together before the re-hire...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age - I have an ex-boss who is considering hiring me again. He is gay and kinda tries to hang out all the time. He suggested he is renting a movie and we should watch it at my place before we get into the job thing. I'm scared but I need this job and don't want him to mistreat me. ... (79 words)

I'm not sure who the father of my baby is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is abit long but can anyone possibly help me out...? hi guys before u judge me, yes it was silly but its done now so anyway here it is... i found out im pregnant tuesday (8th) but let me explain i came on my period last month a wk and 3 days late i came on the 31st jul... (345 words)

I'm a 16 year old boy trying to understand myself and these feelings. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Im a 16 year old boy. I think Im normal. I think I suffer all the lessons most people go through, like annoying urges for sex when you cant have it. Im smart, I think befor I unzip, but that the point, ive never unzipped as im still a virgin, but the question that bugs me ... (277 words)

Why do men and women make it so hard to build a relationship together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so this is really a question for men who have been through the same thing and women who have told a guy this and what it really meant for them. I'm in love with this girl for quite some time now. She is my best friend. so much so that I dont see myself wanting to find ... (198 words)

Why does ex behave like this after we said our goodbyes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with me ex several months ago and met with him a week ago for a closure, then I said goodbye to him. This is because we had been communicating on and off and I told him we can't move on if we still get in touch. He agreed with me. Just 10 minutes after we separat... (161 words)

Ex "disappeares" again and again! Did sex made things worse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid- Sorry this is so long but it requires every detail....Well, in January of this year, i met this guy "matt" at a club and we exchanged numbers. Soon after that, we went out on a date to the movies. We continued going out like this for 2 weeks, then matt disappea... (977 words)

How can I get my friend to see just what her boyfriend is like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I was hoping I could get other people's opinion on a tricky situation (sorry it's a long one)... I guess there is nothing I can do and I should mind my own business but I'm just curious to hear your opinions... I am good friends with my neighbour *Jenny* and her ... (628 words)

Why do women have checklists for potential boyfriends? Is it all about box ticking?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so this is really a question for men who have been through the same thing and women who have told a guy this and what it really meant for them. I'm in love with this girl for quite some time now. She is my best friend. So much so that I dont see myself wanting to find ... (206 words)

I'm 35 and she is 21, would people care about the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 35 and just signed my divorce papers to finalize my divorce. We were separated for almost a year and I found myself becoming friends with my neighbors. I was physically attracted to the one girl from the day I met her and she was the same. Since then we've become really ... (133 words)

I had a terrible accident 4 years ago and my girlfriend has looked after me, but now I find out she has been talking to a guy behind my back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi‚ I,ve been in this relationship for 9 yrs and we live together. I was in an accident 4 yrs ago, I almost lost my life. She's been helping me with everything because I'm in a wheelchair, I have to learn to walk again but she been there for me. She told me she's not happy ... (209 words)

Is he shy? Not into me? Unsure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've 'dated' guys who want to get physical too soon and most often when I say no they just disappear on me. It hurts at the time but I get over it and realize they weren't worth much in the end anyway. Right now I've been on four dates with a guy. First date no kiss, just a ... (332 words)

Is it ok for me to be jealous?

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend keeps calling this one girls babe and sayin ilu and i miss u 2 each other all the time and they haven't even met i have asked to stop kindly but she is still saying those things. is it ok 2 b jealous?... (45 words)

B/f is friends with his first love again, I feel jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when it comes to my boyfriend's ex i never really used to have a problem with her. before me she was his first love and as teenagers they were together for about between 18 mths to 2 yrs. they broke up and it just happened that i was his shoulder to cry on, we got closer and ... (369 words)

I want to get closer to him but don't want him to think I'm feeling sorry for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age - I have been in a troubled relationship and noticed it morewhen I started developing a crush on my hairdresser - single parent. His dad died of prostrate cancer. It never went anywhere the crush I believe was two ways as I could tell by the way he looked at me and tried to ... (135 words)

I can't find someone to be with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really starting to become upsetting to me. I'm almost 19. Ive dated two people. neither for more then a month, but yeah, it's really starting to upset me that I can't find someone to actually be with. I'm not ugly (people always tell me i'm pretty. it's even gone as ... (239 words)

She's not really affectionate with me and now I found out another guy likes her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello dear cupid, my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few months now, and let's face it. She hasn't been the warmest of girlfriends. She never hugged or kissed in public, through the months, she has difficulty with affection of any sort, and as... (172 words)

Why is it becoming harder to have an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I cant orgasim anymore..or not as much as I used to. When my boyfriend and I first started going out I used to have 3-5 orgasims while having sex. Then it changed and it is harder to orgasim and sometimes I have one or none at all.. I was taking the pill and durin... (155 words)

How can I talk to my brother about my relationship and make him understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and am in a relationship with a girl who is older than me with 3 years,my senior brother knows about it but we dont talk about it,we come from a family that is highly religious and having a girlfriend is considered a sin. How can i talk to him about my relationship and ... (94 words)

This girl makes me uncomfortable and I don't want to hang out with her anymore. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is strange. Recently I had to end our friendship. Where do I start? When I used to work, "Suzy" would glance at my work from the corner of her eye which got me annoyed - I do not like others looking at my work and then copying it. She would stare at me all the time ... (404 words)

He only seems interested in the television and computer. Is this normal in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Good morning to all... I am writing for some advice or just another opinion outside of the one that I have within my relationship. I have been living with a man for nine months now and would like to think that my intentions are good. I do my best to contribute around the... (481 words)

We've split up, but he still phones me everyday, calls me "babes", and tells me he loves me. What is going on in his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I split up a few days ago. I ended it with him because he had started to have feelings for this other girl and wasnt sure what he wanted anymore. i've been in bits ever since. the thing is he still phones me everyday, calls me 'babes' and tells me he loves me ... (93 words)

My children are being kept away from me against my will by my mother-in-law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old. I have been married to my husband since April 13, 2007 and dating him since October 24, 2005. We have 2 kids together. The oldest turned 3 April 5, 2009 (I was about a month pregnant already when I started dating my husband. He knew this and wanted to be ... (1626 words)

How do I get her off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been crushing over this girl for over 5 years now, but I cant ask her out as she already has a boyfriend(of 3 years). She doesn't know about my feelings for her. What bothers me is that she speaks to me when we are out of school but ignores me in the hallways and since ... (81 words)

He stares and smiles at me, does he fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this guy and ive seen him on my daily routine for awhile when im out and about and i always catch him staring at me and the other day for the first time we were on the same path which had road works and he walked on to the road to let me pass,i said thank you and he ... (80 words)

My partner of four years is driving me insane!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner of four years is driving me insane, we have had some very great times and some very bad times, he had to move out becuse of problems he is having and i speak to him horribly, he has lied to me, gone behind my back and mad me feel like shit at times. I speak t... (444 words)

He didn't make any attempt to get back with me but do you think he wants to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

- My ex bf broke up with me 1 week before he was due to leave for an long overseas holiday with his guy mates. At first he suggested we go on a 'break' and I said that I didnt want to go on a break because the whole time he was away I would just be worried non stop etc. I felt ... (607 words)

She dumped me suddenly and got back with her ex the next day. I feel so used and hurt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About two months ago a girl that I had been dating for three months ended things with me. When we last spoke she said that "things aren't working out between us", and that "I deserved better than her". The day after she broke up with me I found out that she had gotten back ... (152 words)

Should I stand aside or tell her I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody, i'm a 20 year old guy who's in terrible pain. I'm in love with my 22 year old manager. This is a very long story so please bear with me. It all started 2 years ago. I got a job at a bookshop because I had to earn money for an eye op. At first she was in the s... (844 words)

How do people say goodbye forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Summer is almost over, and the time has come for me and my girlfriend to part ways. We've only been together for a few months, and we always knew that the day would come where I would have to go back to Uni, and eventually, she would be starting her first year of uni. That day ... (274 words)

Husband told me he liked small breasts now he tells me that mine are too small!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I have never had problem with my breast,I have always liked small breast,and i have even been asking god I hope they never grow and they always stay small. before I get married I asked my husband if he likes small breast or big one.his answer was it doesn t matter f... (286 words)

Why do they give me their numbers if they don't want me to call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey I have a big problem..whenever I go clubbing and partying I always get numbers from women. On average I get about 3-5 numbers per night but whenever I call them they usually seem to be more than ready to not talk to me. What's going on here and what should I do to avoid ... (56 words)

B/f cheated on me with ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for the past 9 mos. When we started dating he had came out of a 10 year relationship and had a 6 month old son with his ex. I was hesitant about dating him at first because of this and had told him on quite a few occassions that he ... (1465 words)

Is it wrong for me to get back at her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i havent been here in a long time life has been going good with me lately but now i have a major problem. A month ago or so my cousin came here to cali to live with our aunt so everything was going great with her i was being good with her and we were getting along but now ... (585 words)

Is love enough to keep our marriage together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i have been married since april 2008. We started talking jan 2008. Our relationship moved extremely fast. We have a baby together she was born april 2009. We have lots of issues and are trying to decide iof we should stay together. Before we got married i ra... (987 words)

Cheating while intoxicated?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can people actually get drunk enough and cheat on their loved ones? Mine cheated, however said it was because he drank. (he rarely gets drunk around other people, or if im not around, and no doesn't have a drinking problem)He was at a family event and felt secure enough to... (114 words)

I'm too shy to tell her how I feel

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - As cliche as this sounds: I have fallen head over heels for a certain girl (we'll call her Jenny), and yet I'm too shy to tell her how I feel. We've known each other for years, but recently we just started hanging out together more and more often. She asked me out to the movies ... (368 words)

Why can't men commit to one woman?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Y is it hard for men to commit.They act as if they are in a realationship but at the same time just not saying it.But if they see the women with someone else than they want to claim her but to a certain point. I was in a three relationship with this guy but to a certain point ... (208 words)

How do I prove something I'm not doing?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i have a rocky marriage and have been trying to decide if we should divorce. He thinks im cheating on him but im not. Ive only been acting weird because i dont know what to do about us. I keep telling him im not cheating and that i love him. At first he believed ... (81 words)

How would I tell my friend I like his sister?

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So a couple a days ago i noticed this hot girl in A and W checking me out, she was staring me up and down while smiling and like twriling her hair a bit. I realized a bit later that she looked familiar and asked my friends if they knew her and it turned out to be one of my good ... (125 words)

Married have a lover but now he wants to cool it

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 24year old female and have be with my man for 8years.and married 3years...the last 2months i have been with a married man and he told me that he thinks hes falling in love with me and i feel the same but he said for to cool it for a while..im not in love with my ... (94 words)

Blew me off and then is talking to me again!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all... am back talking about the guy who blew me off 2 months ago ..... he now has called and asked me out again! What should I do?... (32 words)

Tired of being the good girl all the time!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Life is to short to have to worry about if and when the right man would come along. I am a single mother of a daughter that is seventeen. I have always tried to do what was best for her. I never brought her around to many men that I have dated. She would always ask why she ... (140 words)

Sex painful and uncomfortable for me

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and I had sex for the second time he had an orgasm but I didn't He says it was amazing for him but I didn't enjoy it It was still painful and uncomfortable for me Is it just still to soon or is there something wrong with me????... (53 words)

I want the perfect movie pash for my first kiss, there will be a crowd..help!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been going out with him for ages now and everyone wants us to pash but i have never done it before and im not sure how to pash i have seen others do it but it will be in front of everyone so i want it to be perfect but yeah can you help me?... (57 words)

I'm in love with my bestfriend, all his actions and friends, say he loves me too...all ..except him!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh goodness, where do I start? So as the title states, I'm completely and honestly in love with my best friend. He and I have known each other since we were about 9 and there's nobody in this world that knows more about me than him. We're inseparable. We've lived together ... (410 words)

My girlfriend feels in some ways inferior to me in knowledge and tries to avoid me because of this..?

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend would feel she is not matured whenever we are together and because of this she feels she is inferior as she compares the amount of general knowledge I have on daily life. She is trying hard not to see me as frequent as possible. How can resolve this? I need ... (60 words)

Am I the only one to fantasise about having sex, only clothed?

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi , can you pls tell me whether women will enjoy sex when man is fully clothed.i am a man i like to be fully clothed with woman wearing short skirts and i enjoy very much when she grind,rub her thighs against my thighs which is fully clothed but her is naked i only liks leg... (98 words)

I'm from Montana, and dating my fifth cousin. Does anyone know if this is illegal?

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i'm from montana and i found out i'm going out with my fifth cousin, is it illegal for us to be going out? or would everything be ok... (28 words)

How do I know whether I'm over my ex, or I'm trying to find a rebound to move on?

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - 2 months ago my gf if u can call it that broke up and we talked everyday but when she told me she was hooking up with guys when she was drunk i was jealous but didnt tell her. a month ago i told her that i couldnt be friends with her anylonger if she didnt want to be with me ... (151 words)

Should I make him choose between me and his ex?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 9 months is friends with his ex, and it's driving me nuts. He was friends with her 2 years before they got together, for 2 months, and they remained friends after the breakup. They've been friends 5 years now, and I only got together with him last year. The ... (150 words)

What should I do with this Capricorn guy? I feel like I'm the only consistant in this relationship!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my Capricorn guy for 5 months,everything was just great at the begining and slowly he was pulling away stopped calling txting..etc, unless if i did! second he was like let us be close friends! and thats what he told me that he mentioned it from the begining ... (169 words)

How do I know if he's into me? He is my art teacher..

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I like my art teacher... But good news we are only like 3 years apart in age. I don't know if he likes me and I think he might have a gf but I can't ask that! It'd be awkward. He's asian too and I don't think he'd be into me because I'm not Asian. He's pretty nice to me ... (106 words)

Confessions of a Sexless Union, what do I do from here?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend hasn't had the desire to have sex with me in 2.5 years. I don't believe he's cheating on me, he's just gone off sex and affection. He's incredibly depressed about his station in life yet seemingly has no desire to better his position. I'm incredibly frustrated ... (115 words)

I've only ever had the one partner..and I'm fantasising about other men because of this..!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having feelings for another guy, well more like fantasizing what it would be like to be with him and I feel badly because I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for a year and five months, and who I love very much. But he's the only guy I have ever slept with and im curious ... (96 words)

Help! I can't help crying about my relationship's messy situation and I have no idea what to do!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Mine is not the most conventional sort of everyday relationship issues u deal with everyday but I really need your help as am going mad here. I started seeing this guy back in April this year, at first when he asked me out, I turned him down because I was aware... (555 words)

This is the email he sent me..does he like me , or not?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I Saw this boy at this convention I been through 3 days I kind of no him But I never spoke to him.He was watching me 3 days blah blah its really long yeah I had 3witnesses watching him and they said Yeah he does preety much Like me,I emailed him this...: But This ... (785 words)

Was I taking it too far with these nicknames I made for her?

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12 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, i met this girl in 9th grade today, and she apparently found out my name by me drawing it on the marker board when i went to the restroom during language arts class, and she says "hey christopher!" in a loud, playfull/obnoxious, voice, and i returned with "Hi!" and we just ... (207 words)

He hasn't called for about a month now, but I'm too proud to call him first!

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12 September 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi Guys Here's the deal. I recently broke up with this guy, we have been what you would say best/very close friends before we got intimate. We were close but as with all relationships we had our ups and downs. When we broke up, it was my doing...I just don't answer his ... (277 words)

Part of me wants to beg for him to come back...but is this actually for the better?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm desperate for some advice other than what my friends have been telling me. I've been with my boyfriend for around 2 years now. Our whole relationship has been pretty rocky in that we are completely different people and so our personalities always clash. I... (728 words)

Birth control confusion...

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Like i said before im just a teenager. i still live with my parents for a while, Mom was talking to her sister, and her sister has a girl a couple years older then me, but when her daughter was my age she put her daughter on the birth control pill because if she got rapped she ... (158 words)

Why does he jolt when we are being intimate? Is it just a result of his orgasm?

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am currently seeing an older guy and i have found when we are being intimate, at a certain point, he will start to have strong jolting sensations, so strong he physically moves back and forward. i have never experienced this before, is it just the result of his orgasm?... (50 words)

He didn't bother telling me he wouldn't be able to meet as we'd arranged! He is wrecking with my head!

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im starting to get really f***ing annoyed right now im in my last year of school doing my a levels and so is my boyfriend we spent a lot of time together in the summer an grew alot closer staying over in each others houses etc were back to school id say two weeks now an... (434 words)

I'm really trying to be on good terms with my ex

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12 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I had tried to be friends but some days he was super nice, others he was cold/distant.He acts like I broke up w/ him and he would constantly bring up our relationship - y it didnt work etc, try to make me jealous or compliment me alot - mixed signals. We made p... (234 words)