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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We had an affair, he's divorcing his wife but what will others think of us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - In Jan 2009 I moved across Canada to do my student teaching practicum in a small town. for the most part most of the other tacherswere really nice to me and I made alot of great friends. With in a few months of teaaching I started having an affiar with one of the other ... (241 words)

Do men over 40 still get hard ons?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age - I want to know if man over 40 will still have hard on. My husband lost it, and went limp. What is going on?It is hard to know, how common is that,when it happens to you.. You can't see others bedroom life. He also don't care about sex, and he used to be always very sexual . O... (103 words)

I love her, she's no longer in my school, how do I get the courage to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl who lives near me, ive always liked her but around 1 year ago she left my school so i havent seen her since then. i swear im in love with her, ive had loads of girlfriends but ive never felt the same about them as i do with her. my mum visits her house now and ... (176 words)

We split eight months ago. Can anyone suggest how to ease the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So, just to clear something up, I am female, not male. So, I am going on almost 8 months of being broken up with the guy I thought I was going to be with forever. We knew each other for a total of 10 years, we dated for 5 years, 4 of those years we were engaged. I'm sti... (221 words)

I only have 7 days to get her to like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, a lady friend of mine is coming onto town. She moved away from here about four months ago. I believe I can get her to like me but I only have 7 days to do so. Whats the best thing a man can do or say to get a girl by his side?... (57 words)

He said "he's available but not reliable"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for almost two months- He has been really great, affectionate (says great things like: "you are my dream girl- everything about you is great!" - siting all characteristics about me he loves- physical and intellectually....) We ... (247 words)

I was told to be more dominant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was told that I should try and be more dominant. She said it was something about how we cuddled that gave it away. How do I change? I sorta get the way to act but its the stuff like cuddling and kissing dominantly that confuses me. How does one cuddle or kiss ... (66 words)

Is it bad for me to always wait for the boy to ask me out!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Its it bad for me to always wait for the boy to ask me out! I've never had a relationship and my friend has shown some interest but I'm afraid to tell him how I feel. I might tell him when I graduate since I will never see him again! I know that hes nervous around me and he ... (94 words)

My partner sometimes shows no interest and is looking at other women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with my partner for nearly two years. Sometimes we have such a good time together and really get on! However we have other times when i can get really upset from him either looking at other woman or getting paranoid from his past. Sometimes he can be really comforting ... (97 words)

He won't notice me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really fancy this guy i think i mite be in love he knows i fancy him we work together so its awkward but i just dont know what to do sometimes he will do something that makes me think he fancies mebut then he will ignore me i feel hurt because he just wont notice me ... (57 words)

G/f doesn't like sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of almost a year now has recently told me that she doesn't like sex. She enjoys having orgasms but is never in the mood to have sex. When I pressed her for more information she told me that she thinks instead of having sex we could be doing something else like ... (191 words)

Is it all in vain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here goes all on a plate for the last time so I would be greatfull of honest and good advice not told how we done wrong and what we done wrong. So here it is I was seeing someone I was working with, we were so like best friends that much I would love to just have that back b... (1147 words)

Is he trying to mess with my head, or is he that into her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - one of my close guy friends i like said he loved me and he even said he wanted to marry me and we went out for about 3 months then i dumped him. now a month later he says he's "deeply in love" with one of my best friends and wants to ask her to prom, i asked him to stop talking ... (153 words)

Was I rude to not check, or right to not lead her on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I recently attended Reading festival (and had an amazing time!) and i was approached by a girl who couldn't find her friends on the first night and was lost. I lent her my phone to call her friends but she couldn't contact them so i said she should hang around with... (281 words)

I'm afraid my Dad has Alzheimers, but he won't see a doctor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 28, been married for 2 1/2 years now. My dad has been acting strangely over the past month - he always attempts to strip to his underwear in social activities (but we manage to, and always eats and eats, and tells me now isn't as good as 1992, and wishes it was 1992 aga... (278 words)

I got his attention...Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I hit it off flirting with a really hot restaurant bartender. Before my friend came over I started up a conversation with him and we talked for about an hour. The other servers kind of laughed that they didn't want to interrupt him when they needed drinks. When my friend came ... (141 words)

My wife's new work 'friends' are making inappropriate suggestions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I don't have a problem with us, but we're not sure how to handle her new friends. My wife and I got married very young, 1 year after high school. She stayed home and we have 3 kids, now she started going to work to help pay for our 'big' house. Our kids are all... (314 words)

The psychiatrist recommeded meds, but my mom's against it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i saw this psychyatrist because i was flunking out of grade 10 and my parents wanted to know what is wrong with me. bnasically im just depressed all the time and she wanted me to put me on meds but i said no and now months later im not any better. im leaning tords them but my ... (75 words)

I don't feel sexually satisfied, any tips to make sex better for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship which is obviously more than just sex. However, when we do have sex i do not orgasm and i cannot tell when i am 'coming'. So while my partner is getting pleasured i dont find sex that great and end up unsatisfied and wanting more to fullfill this. Does ... (70 words)

How do I accept my boyfriend is a crossdresser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and have lived together for a few months. Recently I found out he was wearing ladies underwear, not because he told me but because I found them. I confronted him about them and he told me he didn't know why he got them,... (341 words)

I feel like I've ruined his life. Please help -- I need a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i feel so lonely, i have no friends, i feel this is the only place i can turn to. i love my boyfriend so much it hurts! literlly! every time i even think about the lyrics in a love song i get teary eyed. any way we're having lots of trouble getting along. i'm 19 he's ... (577 words)

What do I do? He won't talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend had some set backs when it comes to us moving in together, he got drunk made a BIG mistake and slept with another girl, it was hard but we overcame it and got back together and then just a few days ago he started acting meaner, distant.. he planned on coming ... (271 words)

As soon as we got engaged she became distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im not sure what to do or think any more.... Im engaged to a woman who is my every thing and now it seems to be slipping away. we recently got engaged on august 8 a day before her birthday. Since then she has moved into her own apartment and we live 40 miles apart and im taking ... (440 words)

Why am I not attracted to anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 going on 16 and I have never been attracted to anyone. Trust me I've tried. I thought in the past that perhaps I could be gay, but that doesn't work because, well I don't know, I'm not attracted to girls. Guys scare me, not just in the shy way but I'm scared that they're ... (164 words)

If he doesn't want to admit he has cheated, does this mean he can't or won't change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 8 1/2 yrs now, married for nearly 5 and have 2 beautiful children together. My problem is over 2 yrs ago my husband started an affair which lasted for several months. During this time he never admitted that he had the affair and I ended up ... (182 words)

We split up because I was self-harming.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i fancyed this boy for just over five years. when i soon plucked up the courage to ask him out before i could finish the question he repled yes. i had never been so happy in my life. a week after we split up because i was self harming again. soon after we had spoke i promised ... (127 words)

I'm enjoying the attention, but I know I have to choose one or the other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im seeing two guy's, im sleeping with one jim* who does not want anything serious just casual but we rarely go out together, this old flame came back into town 6 wks ago he has been wineing and dinning me cinema i lost my phone he bought me a new one he is really good to me but ... (143 words)

We flirt by text but I'm nervous around her in person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, well there’s this girl I really like....let’s call her Charlote (not actual name) anyway..i think she likes me back but it is hard to tell the only real communication we have is via text and internet etc even though I do see her at school most days but when I do its just ... (181 words)

What in the world should I do? My hubby suggested separation. Should I just give up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having a difficult time with my husband of 15 years. We've been together for 18 years, and are best friends. The last year, however, he has been going through what he calls "changes"; We have four children together, and recently, he said he wanted to separate, saying ... (358 words)

How can I get back with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I went out with this girl for about 2 weeks, she was like my best friend before, But she stil is now. The reason we broke up was because it was really awkward, but that was mainly due to my friends being twats. So it was like awkward in the way that I couldnt hug her ... (108 words)

Will a 20 year old get in trouble for dating a 14 year old girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What trouble could a 20yr old male get in for dating a 14yr old girl even if both familys are happy with this and give them there full support?... (29 words)

Its been a year since we broke up, but I still cant get over how badly he treated me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel kind of stupid still talking about this situation as it has been a year since our break up. I was with this man who hurt me really bad emotionally. He lied and humiliated me. I really loved this man. Anyway fast foward I am living my life but I think about the way he ... (125 words)

I've been away at college for two weeks, but I think I've made the wrong choice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey okay so this isn't a relationship problem persay more of just asking for advice in general. So I am away at college its my freshman year the college im attending is 14 hours away from home I know its only the second week and I need to give it time and try to be more ... (194 words)

I won't go out with him if he has a girlfriend; he doesn't want to risk breaking up with her in case I won't go out with him after.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new job around 6 months ago, got on well with everyone. There was a guy who started like poking me and pulling my hair, not nastily, but in a fun way. I thought he liked me or something, until I was told he had a girlfriend, who actually works with us. He started ... (405 words)

How can I make an impression so he'll know who I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I like this one guy who doesnt really care about having a girlfriend!! So he doesnt bother to remember many pplz names so when my friend told him i liked him at first he thought i was someone else and then he just didnt know who i was!!! :(:(:(:(:;:;:(: i wassoo sad :'( so how ... (87 words)

Fashion tips for orientation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi am looking for an outfit idea to where to my freshman orientation for grade nine! At the school im going to theres like a whole day made out of it lol! And the school is really preppy like brands like hollister ,abercrombie, american eagle, aeropostale and then roxy for ... (93 words)

He's asking me to try things in the bedroom I'm not completely comfortable with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's attitude towards sex has changed a lot in the last few months, it's not like his sex drive has shot up, that's stayed the same, it's rather what he wants to do to me sexually that's worrying. He's asked me to dress up like a fireman, and parade around, knowing ... (341 words)

How to get through to financially irresponsible fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my "fiance" to death, but since we have been living together, and especially now that I have a ring on my finger, I have been taking our problems more seriously. Here's my thing.. my parents raised me to be responsible. I always keep on top of the bills and even p... (897 words)

After a break up, aren't we supposed to learn from our mistakes? I'm not! What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 17 and am very counfused apparently that after a break up we learn from our mistakes, but I think I haven't or have I? Everytime im with a decent guy I know that treats me right I get scared within the 1st month and start to feel traped and hit the eject button. I ... (150 words)

Is he too far gone to save this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 years and I seem to be falling apart. He wants to have and open relationship and I am just not up for that. He said a while back that he would attend coucling with me. So I finally looked into it and set up and appointment. The next ... (248 words)

I am in love with my manager, but I don't want to spoil things for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i'm a 20 year old guy. And i really have this terrible love problem. I am in love with my manager. She's 22 years old. And ever since i started working for her we've been friends. One could say that we're close friends. Last year she was single and i thought she... (497 words)

Married almost 25 years, are we falling APART or is he????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, My husband and I have been married for almost 25 years. We have 5 children. Our oldest past away when he was 6, we have a daughter 21, son 11, daughter 8, and son 6. I am just really confused here. I work, one year ago he changed jobs so he is home like a normal father s... (424 words)

So my FWB wants me to get pregnant. I'm not interested in having kids. What is going on here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a friend with benefits "situation" with a guy for 2 years now, and so far everything has been good. Last month he said he wanted me to stop taking my birth control so I can get pregnant. I don't know what 2 think. Is he seriously saying this, or is it a test to ... (218 words)

Met the man of my dreams at the coffee shop...what do I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age - The other day I met this guy who is the man of my dreams at a coffee shop. He stood there and stared at me for awhile,letting me look him in the eyes for a while, and than walked away. How do I know if he is coming back? Do I have to do anything, or say anything the next tim... (65 words)

I have a new elder sister! How do I love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have got a new elder sister. Before this i didnt experience luvin a sister.. How to love her and make her happy?... (23 words)

What shd I do????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl for a short amount of time. I used to talk to her everyday if not see her everyday. Things were going great. I don't think that I was smothering her because if I didn't try to see her, she tried to see me. I went on vacation for 4 days. I talked ... (309 words)

How do I move on from an LDR who I thought was Mr right..?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do u move on from a long term relationship after you break up with the one who you felt was mr right. Obviously i get the point that if he was mr right then we would still be together but some things are 1 sided. I might not be mrs right for him but he sure is everything ... (200 words)

Update on text cheating husband...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age - Hi everyone, This is an update on the situation with my text cheating husband which I posted about a few times. We have recently returned from a cruise which was completely marred by 'her' and spent nearly every day arguing because I kept bringing up his texting affair. ... (500 words)

Been with my gf for a year but we only have sex once every two weeks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been with my girlfriend for a year now and everything is going great apart from one thing, we hardly ever have sex im a 19 yr old man and feel i should be haveing sex more than once a fortnight, ive tried talking to her plenty of times but she just gets in a moods with me ... (215 words)

We've been dating for 4 months but I don't feel that she is into me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

2 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 19. WE have been dating for four months, but I don't feel that she is that into me. She told me shes bad at expressing her feelings, and that had been a problem on past relationships. We only see each other once or twice a week and if i don't call ... (112 words)

Is my husband still interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my husband still intrestid in me? I've been married for 7yr, have 4 kids and dont understand my husband. I mean my husband dosent even ask for sex. I even started to buy sexy lingerie an wear it around for him. Figured I could turn him on, NOTHING HAPPENDS?? He dosent e... (135 words)

What should I do ? I think I'm starting to fall in love with him and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple months ago I got a job in the food court at my mall. I met this guy (we'll call him Chris) but never paid much attention to him since we rarely worked together. Then one day, it was just the two of us opening in the front of the store and we started talking. He opened ... (279 words)

Ex showed up at my work out of nowhere...why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I just have a question really...why would an ex who you havent seen in a long time just show up to your job out of nowhere? So here's the story in a nutshell...I work in a convience store/ gas station and my ex came in to buy beer and gas, pumped his gas and then came back ... (181 words)

My married, younger boss has started taking an interest in me..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 41 single never been married, no childern, and have just started really enjoying being in my 40s. About 3 months ago I landed a fantastic new job. but, 10 year younger married boss has now started showing interest. late phone calls at night with regard to work, nice ... (105 words)

I love a cousin 12 years older than me but he lives 15 000kms away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Over two years ago, I travelled to the States and stayed there for almost a year. I met my cousin there, he is 12 years older than me. We fell in love, in the beginning we did not dare to tell anyone nor each other but for some reason the more time we spe... (329 words)

After his dad died our relationship totally changed and now we have broken up, but I still hope we will get back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,i was going out with my boyfriend for almost a yr and a half when his dad died. this changed everything from the way he looked at life and from the way he acted towards us. he is the nicest person in the world and already in our relationship we had come across alot of ... (226 words)

I don't keep secrets from him so I expect the same in return, so why is he continuing to lie to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this man for about 4 years. Two years ago I ran across a few emails between him and his ex girlfriend. If I hadn't seen these I would have never known. I told him how this made me feel and he seemed a little angry with me for looking through his email. He ... (131 words)

Is our age difference the reason why he is acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel in love with a 21 year old guy I'm 36 we have been together for 2 yrs he just moved out on his own with a male roommate He decided 2 weeks before that happened to breakup with me.. There was no reason for it . Everyone is confused including me. We r soulmates He k... (135 words)

How do I concentrate on school and not on the girl I like?

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl very much from past 3 years. I am currently in class 12th. She also studies with me. We talk to each other. We r just frnds. I think she knows i like her. But still, she has a boyfriend. I am losing concentration in my studies because of her. I think who... (84 words)

I don't want to disown my friend but his obsession with this girl is driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, My friend has been obsessed with a girl he's fancied since 6th form. He's now 21 and insists he's in love with her despite not seeing her in over 2 years. He and the girl were never an item and were barely even friends then, let alone now. Whenever I talk to him he domina... (249 words)

I'm dating an overly flirtatous man, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age - I am in a relationship with a man who constantly is flirting with other women. He has several female friends although I don't think they like him in the physical sense. He thinks that if he keeps it all on the table then there is nothing wrong. I think it is disrespectful... (107 words)

Unsure if I'm pregnant, do my symptoms suggest that I am?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey well lets cut to the point if i am pregnant i will be four weeks, i am due on my period today it aint showed up yet but theres still time. the other night for about half an hour i had a pain down below that felt like someone was stabbing me and also i have no energy a... (98 words)

Help! My boyfriend just can't sleep with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I was best friends with my boyfriend for four years before we started going out, we are madly in love and very happy. There is a lot of passion in our relationship with us both pleasuring each other daily but whenever it reaches the point ... (167 words)

I really like him but I just can't trust him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy 9 months ago... his 4 years younger then me but i love him a lot. He has told me everything about his previous girlfriend. My ex-boyfriends always cheated on me. Non of my previous boyfriends were faithful with me. Now that im in this relationship with this guy i ... (226 words)

Travelling in Australia and met someone, what do I do about my boyfriend back home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, Im currently travelling around the world. So before I came away I was on a website for travellers and met lots of friends who ive met up with along the way and turned into great friends. There was a guy I was chatting to alot for 6 months before we left h... (250 words)

Friend has boyfriend issues... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, So a friend of mine (it's true, it's not me!) is having some issues with her boyfriend. They met on the internet, and they haven't met in real life yet, however her parents are fine with it and they are meeting in the half term. Recently she's been worried because he ... (130 words)

Boyfriend is going back to uni and I don't think he will miss me at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically, I'm having doubts about my boyfriend's feelings towards me. He has never been very expressive with his emotions but recently he has become even less so. He rarely tells me he loves me without me having to say it first, he rarely compliments me and he just seems ... (338 words)

Two friends fighting over a boy and I'm stuck in the middle! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :D Okay so my friend has a boyfriend and they are perfect together, however my other friend has started to like him. Both friends are in a huge feud and I seem to be caught in the middle of it. Both of them usually come to me for a shoulder to cry on or for advice b... (156 words)

I love him, but its not the right time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've been talking to this guy for about seven months and I completely love him and he loves me, but I can't handle it anymore. I love him so much and I don't want to hurt him, but how do I tell him right now just us the right time. ... (51 words)

I'm having an arranged marriage, and my fiance would rather spend time with his friends than me

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,I have got engaged around 5 months ago. I am basically a very shy and introvert kind of girl, but my would be is extrovert and very social. He has a large network of friends and contacts. Everytime he remains busy with his friends and all. Initially he used to talk with me ... (163 words)

He never listens to me!

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating my boyfriend for a about 8 months now and we are completely serious and in love with each other. When it comes to arguing, we are both stubborn but here and there we would let down our pride and apologize. Most of the time, my boyfriend doesnt. Hes so hard to ... (142 words)

I said no when he proposed because our star signs don't match

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused what to do.... Im 23 yrs old.. I am in relationship with a guy(he's 5 years elder than me) for more than 10 years now.. we've been through many ups and downs... his parents knew about us and they had approached my parents without letting them know about our a... (376 words)

Boyfriend is selfish in bed, should I break up with him?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I care about my boyfriend, but in bed there is no satisfaction. He won't do things for me and I'm beginning to think that he is very selfish. Although he asks me what I want him to do, I don't feel like he will listen so I don't bother. I'm starting to think that we should... (140 words)

Hopefully we'll get back together, how can we stop falling into the same trap again?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Myself and my boyfriend of 2 years split up recently after he kicked me out of my home. He said after a week he had made a huge mistake, but he didnt want to go back to the way it was. After some talking we agreed that after some time to sort ourselves out, we would like to ... (210 words)

Wife goes bi to straight... now I'm lost.

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am married. and yet i find myself wondering about other woman. I have these fantasies i guess you could call them, and my wife isnt able to make them happen. She doesnt fit the act. What should i do? Before we got married, we talked of having a semi-open relationship, because ... (133 words)

Married young and not sure if it was right.

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20. I am married. Have 1 son. and have been married for 2 years. My father told me before we got married, Are you sure your ready? This is either going ot be the best or worst choice of your life. Well I dont know which one it is, for it has only been 2 years. However, i ... (116 words)

Crazy coincidence left me heartbroken

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Well i may be silly but this is a crazy coincidence and now my feelings for him are back again. Last year 2008 i started dating my ex boyfriend on the eleventh of april i remember the date because we went to see a movie we fell inlove with, we had a good relatioship f... (501 words)

People say I am cute looking but not pretty, is it the true reason for me to be still single to the age of 16?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi dear friends. My problem is that I fall in love with anyone on road and to coincidences, he also starts talking to me, looks at me as if he is in love but NEVER cares to propose. I am now finding my self giving up. I see that I have started to lose interest in those gu... (157 words)

After we became sexually active he told me he just wants to be friends!

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2 September 2009 (F)

age - I just royally screwed up. I started seeing a married man. I told him it was over because I knew it was wrong after we became sexually active. Now the feelings of love wont go away. When I didnt care he did. Now I care and he is distant and saying he wants to be friends. ... (135 words)

Even though we weren't right for each other, I'm finding it hard to get over him. When will this pain pass?

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2 September 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my partner of 4 years nearly 5 months ago. I am trying to get on with my life. He is away at the moment and I don't see him but I am still kind of thinking about him and it still hurts. We were not right for each other and brought the worst out of each other but ... (99 words)

I feel so ugly, how can I look better?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Gah... how should I start this off... (I'm not so good at writing these haha...) well... Pretty much starting two years ago, I have been feeling ugly. Not only that, but I know I have gained a lot of weight and it shows, which makes me even uglier. I used to be tall, skinn... (572 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to trust me? And how do I know if she loves me?

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello people.well im 15 years old.n heres my question how can u get ur gf 2 trust u...well i mess up on her n the firest 2 months i kiss another girl..it took me i say 2 months 2 tell her.but it was the time i statred realizing how much im n love with her.so i told her the ... (372 words)

Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other . I am divorced and have known the guy in question for ten years . He helped me emotionally by talking ( no sex !) through the break - up . However now we realise there are strong ... (105 words)

I have classes with my crush, how do I make sure things are not awkward between us?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy I like and we were talking for like the longest time then when school started he stopped talking to me. we both liked each other too. well we have two classes together and things are awkward how do I get things to not be awkward between us?... (51 words)

I had an abortion because we decided we were not ready for another baby, but now he has changed his mind and wants to try again!

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heres my story i have a daughter shes 7months after her i made the mistake and got pregnant again me and my bf decided we wernt ready for another baby so i got an abortion, but now my bf wants another baby! i dont understand i just had that abortion a couple months ago so whats ... (175 words)

Why would I rather have a bad guy and try to change him, then have a good guy that doesn't have to be changed?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How come after every relationship ends, I say I want a good guy. I want a guy that will finally treat me good, with the respect I know I deserve but how come when a guy like that comes around, then I don't want to take the chance? Why would I rather have a bad guy and try ... (158 words)

No sex on our anniversary! Is he cheating or tired of me?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - it's my anniversary and my husband never thought of having sex with me. i wonder if he's cheating on me. we have sex maybe once a week or often longer. he's a truck driveer, we argued most of the day while he was warking. he came home a hour or so later than normal. went to ... (132 words)

I want him to feel the way he USED to feel about me!

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf recently broke up for about a month and just got back together. we were together for 7 months before that. the feelings between us are sorta the same. we still love eachother but we're not IN LOVE with eachother anymore. i want him to feel the way he used to a... (90 words)

Why does my ex go out of his way to put me down?

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2 September 2009 (F)

- My ex bf broke up with me. Why would he continue to to contact me and put me down for being who I am etc? And then suddenly he would start sucking up and being nice to me by complmenting etc and inviting me to social events? Hes been doing this for the last month since we ... (101 words)

Is he cheating or planning on cheating on me?

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2 September 2009 (F)

- Do you think my bf has or is planning on cheating on me? I caught him using an online dating website. Basically what happened was we both met through an online dating website. We decided we would be in an exclusive relationship- this was verbally spoken about and discussed- s... (272 words)

How do you fall out of love?

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is more of a discussion question than problem, but i've been thinking about it and would like some opinions. What is love, and can you fall out of love?... (31 words)

I took his word for it that we were 'just friends' and went out with someone else. Now he's distant.

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2 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - (I'm reposting this question because I received no responses the first time, any advice would be really appreciated) So I'm kind of in a mess. My ex and I were each others first love. He was everything to me, and for almost two years I thought we were happy. Until one day he j... (597 words)

Having an affair and now she wants a baby with me

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - here is the question i have affair with married woman, but she want to have kid with me , she says it will remain secret , please advise.... (28 words)

How do I tell her that I need her?

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I tell my girlfriend that I need her. I've told her lots of personal stuff, but I've never told her that I need her and I know I do so how do I tell her. I want to just so everything is in the open.... (47 words)

My ex and I are seeing how things go, but there seems to be other guys

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my girlfriend have recently split up, but at the moment we're seeing how things go...things seem really good between us at the moment but I'm being troubled by a few things. She's just started college and is hanging around with a few guys there at college and i know ... (141 words)

I've been dating two guys, I feel as though I will have to pick one to get serious with

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - You know those moments when a problem you've been thinking about suddenly becomes clear to you? Well I've just had one of those. There are these 2 guys I've been seeing and they are both coincidentally overseas at the moment and due back at the same time in 2 weeks. Well I've ... (497 words)

Why did she set me up with him if she liked him?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo basically my best friend since 5th grade set me up with this guy a few months ago right after a long serious relationship I had. We both had a thing for e/o lasted a bit didnt actually go out. But after a couple days we decided to be friends because I wasn't over my ex and ... (249 words)

Her bj technique is killing me

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Recently I've been dating this girl, we're both 18 I've been with her for 2 months the problem is that when she goes down on me she kind of chews on my penis. I don't really want to say anything because I love her but if this carries on I'm gonna have to break up w... (62 words)

Do guys prefer small, petite girls?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys prefer small, petite girls? I'm 4'11. Most of my guy friends love short girls, but I have met some who prefer 5'6 and over. What do you think?... (32 words)

I want to get her something that will show her I love her

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to get my girlfriend something that says I love you and I'll do anything to prove it. There is no special ocasion I just want to get her something. She's 14 so nothing sexual. I buy her flowers every now and then so I can't get her that. My budget is very low so nothing ... (68 words)

Help breaking up with a boyfriend

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help on breaking up with my boyfriend.. It has been about a year and a month since I have been with my boyfriend. He is one of the kindest people I know..he cares about me a lot..always asks if I'm ok..but..the problem is..he is a pathlogical liar.. and up to this po... (262 words)

Does your body change after first time sex?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I know im 17 and all but I hear so many things and I can't tell if its bullsh and it or not dose your body change after having sex? If so how Do your breast get bigger Hips expand(I think it dose duh!) What happens? Thanks for the help... (60 words)

I don't feel like I fit in anywhere

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2 September 2009 (F)

- I thank all who answer here. This may be a hard question to answer but here goes. Most of my life I feel like I do not fit in anywhere. I am fairly self confident, have fairly good social skills but I process things differently than other people and I guess that makes me seem ... (233 words)

Friend was date raped and she's trying to hide her feelings

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Last week, my best friend went to a concert. She made the mitake of drinking too much. After clearly being drunk, somebody drugged her and possibly raped her. Two of her other friends decided not to stay with her so they wouldn't get introuble, although she obviousl... (143 words)

I need my family but they aren't there for me now they know I'm gay

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, my name is John, I'm gay and I think I have a problem, I am very emotional and sensitive, this is bringing me a lot of problems now, right at this moment my life is so messed up, first my boyfriend broke up with me, second my family knows im gay and they dont ... (243 words)

Can stress distort feelings?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age - my husband and I are always togetherintimately,socialy fight on ocasion but never lasts long.Lasyt year issues with job changes,menopause lot of arguing them=n. I fear he may have cheated? I know there is a possibility I could have pushed him away. WHe has issues with m=not ... (97 words)

Does it mean anything that he's suddenly calling me baby?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve got a few related questions here - if a guy goes backpacking on his own for 4 months and doesn’t have sex in that time, is that likely to be because of chosen loyalty to a potential girlfriend but current friend-with-benefits or more likely just because the opportunity ... (240 words)

He says its "just sex and nothing more"

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm living in a house with 3 guys. I fooled around with one of the guys before i moved in but it cooled off and stopped before i moved in. But within the last month weve been cuddling, and started having sex. Were trying to hide it from the roommates, but a few peo... (165 words)

How are things going to be ok if his actions don't follow his words?

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years and I love him more than anything in the world. The only problem is where he lives. He live 2.5 hours away and we are both in college trying to graduate. I have tried everything to be closer to him but all the csu schools are not ... (472 words)

How do I say I love you without saying "I love you"

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex got back together after a 2 month split where he has another sexual relationship. he is asking me to show and tell him how i feel towards him, but i find it impossible to tell him how i feel because it is always in my mind that he would go off with another girl ... (146 words)

Crazy about my sister-in-law!

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2 September 2009 (M)

age - I am crazy about my sister-in-law and have been for over 30 years. I have told her and tried to stop my affection but to no avail. Since her husband died 4 years ago it has got much worse. She says she has no desire for me but I don't beleive her as I think she's just trying ... (66 words)

He stares but never says anything

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: This is NOT posted like its coming from a female 36-40. there is this guy i like but i am not sure if he likes me, he stares at me all the time but there is no expression on his face, sometimes if i catch him staring he will look away other times he will stare at... (111 words)

My heart doesn't flutter anymore for him

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2 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 11 months now, and i'm not sure how i feel about him anymore. We had a bad year as i've had an emotional year due to a house i was living in being terrible with awful people in it, and also my nan dying and my dad having ... (261 words)

Should I tell my friend that she cheated?

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2 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok i have a friend, lets call him Veidt, and he has a girlfriend ,lets call her Janey, and i had a party and rob, i mean veidt, was there, so was janey and a 3rd guy, lets call him nite owl, ok so its 1am and veidt is sleeping on the coach with me on a chair, and nite owl is on ... (102 words)