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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 years already, we spent most of our days together and happy. We would argue off lil things but I didn't think it was really serious that one day he told me he wanted to be single!! I know, knowing we've been together for so long and constantly spending time with each other he needs his own space, but for some reason what he wants is not space anymore, he hates me n doesn't want anything to do with me. It's been really tough on me knowing he was my one n only, mybest friend anything I could everask for. The time we spent together was the best times of my life!! I'm starting to realize maybe I should just let it go, becuz in my mind I don't wanna let go of it, I feel like he's the one! Lately I've been just relaxing n thinking of him constantly, buy I was wondering if he ever thinks of me? Does he? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): After a 6 year relationship I'm pretty sure he doesn't hate you, and certain that he still thinks of you. Whether that be positive or negative thoughts I don't know, but he probably does miss some aspects of your relationship. 6 years at your age bracket is a long time - if he is the same age. Maybe he's getting into a phase where he just wants to go out partying, drinking, and having one night stands so when he's older he knows he didn't 'miss out'. If it's not that, it could be a number of reasons, if all he has told you is that he wants to be single, then you have a right to know what he thought wasn't working in the relationship. It may help you get some closure - and learn from - to be able to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): hiya im in the same kind of position as you i was living with him for 5 years, and we broke up 2 weeks ago. Its so hard when you have spent nearly everyday with each other, when you and him had fights were you always the first one to wanna make up (i was i used to cry beg him to stay ect )if so let him go dont contact him, if he is ment for you he will not pass you by. research on the web about the no contact rule. spend your time between being with people you know love you and being on your own,you need some thinking time. look after you and i promise the pain wont last forever.
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