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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months and this is by far the best relationship I have ever had (and that includes two failed marriages). We are very much in love. The problem is she has gone away for a skiing holiday with her girlfriends for a few days and I can't believe ... (207 words)

Bury 6 ft under or go another 6 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. This past year has been long distance (2 states over). I feel like he does not care about our relationship. He calls once a day normally when he's off work and about to head home so those conversations last about 12 min max. He doesn't ... (118 words)

I'm not sure how to masturbate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to finger myself but dont know how to do it the right way help plz... (17 words)

Cheating girlfriend what do I do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i recently completly broke up with my son's mother that was with for about 3 years. i found out she cheated on me. i had a feeling something was going wrong with our relationship when she started going out to the bars with her single friends. i hate her guts right now and am ... (167 words)

50/50 ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 weeks. we're both a little quirky and get along so well. we're best friends, and we love eachother so much. well at least that is what i thought. we made a mistake but it was on both of our parts and i assure you it was taken ... (179 words)

He wants me to contact him but wont reply to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a bitter ending with my ex 4 months ago. Then last saturday we met finally as a closure and acted as if we were not bitter at all. I wasn't expecting anything as it was a relief to me that finally we ended in good terms but shortly after our meeting, he called to say that ... (157 words)

Am I going to be used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy at a festival a few weeks back and we swapped numbers and got eachothers facebook addys etc. even though nothing happened at the festival there was definately an attraction there and we both admitted to wanting something to happen. we've been talking over the... (163 words)

What does she mean by slow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me she wanted to take things slow and I wanted a few opinions from other women on what that means. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two months and we haven't done anything sexually intimate other than kissing and making out. She got out of a ... (152 words)

How do I help my husband relax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age - I'm 47 and my husband is 45. He took leave from his job yesterday in disgust along with 2 other colleagues, after hearing some other colleagues laughing and joking about "let's cause another Enron scandal". My husband is worried that another Enron scandal may just happen a... (75 words)

Did I miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I might have had a miscarriage...I don't really know. I was suppose to have my period 3 weeks ago and I didn't get it so i figured I was pregnant since I didn't get it and there were no signs that it was comming any time soon...and a couple of days ago I had really bad ... (160 words)

Sex is always painful

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - soo i lost my virginity about 8 months ago. it didnt hurt too much but i didnt feel any kind of pleasure at all. not from any kind of sex we had. and i had sex with the same guy about 20 times after that until we broke up and didnt feel any sort of pleasure, jus pain. then i ... (200 words)

Sexual position suggestions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello people, I have a sex question. My girlfriend has told me that my dick is a little bit larger than she's used to, and we've been having problems finding a good position. If we're not really careful, it comes out, and it's a hassle when I have to get back in. The only pos... (114 words)

Future baby daddy drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello world !please help me .i just found out I'm pregnant and ever since I told my bf I was he has been acting shady ,playing his game allday, nt getting into any convo about our future he dosent help me out around the house knowing I must take it easy being I'm only a 2mths ... (91 words)

Why won't my boyfriend take me might being pregant seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok so this is hard and its really bothering me. im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. we have only been together for about 3 months but we have sex almost every day. a lot of the time its as much as 3 times in the same day. no exaggeration. he refuses to wear a condom, even tho we ... (326 words)

Why does it matter who I date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i'm going out with a lad not my usual type , i like him because he doesn't mither me like previous boyfriends do and my guy mates do. my mum said he looked immature based on his clothes , that by wearing hoodies means he is emotionlly immature then started comparing him to my e... (112 words)

Should I say yes to date this boy ?

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8 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I really fancy this boy and he likes me. The problem is one of my friends fancies him too. I have only known this friend for 6 weeks and she isn't one of my best friends. She told me she really likes this boy and she flirts with him so much. He used to flirt with her too but ... (224 words)

Trying to have sex for the first time and it's not working to well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so few days ago i tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we just couldn't...at first i bled little, the next day same, then in the next 3 days i started to bleed more and it was hurting a lot.I noticed that my hymen was tearing more every day but it just ... (193 words)

Missing my childrens father

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i miss my ex the father of my children we have been spit up 7 mths his father was told he has cancer since hearing this it made me realise how i would feel if anything happened him. i believe i really truely love him and i miss him so much. i cant say anything as it isnt the ... (82 words)

Confused about ex

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok hes my ex, but he has a gf whos pregenent, anyway he said he loves her and would be lost without her and would be heartbroken if they where to split BUT why is he still SLEEPING WITH ME and other people of he says he loves her so much Guys please help its fucking my mind ... (65 words)

He was unsatisfied now I'm unsatisfied what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. about 6 months ago he sat me down and we had a discussion about how our sex life was unsatisfying to him. he told me that he wasnt questioning our relasionship he just wanted to improve our sex life becuse it had began to boar him. ... (188 words)

Disgusted with my boyfriends promisquus past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you get over your boyfriend promisquous past .......when you are not at all like that ?i have been in 3 relations so far was fooled and dumped in one and the second guy cheated on me after 3 yrs of engagement we parted....i am now with my present boyfriend from 2 yrs ... (247 words)

Confused he wanted it then changed his mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i'v been seeing an old flame for 2mths causal as we are both just out of marriages it was really just 2old mates goin out few kisses n cuddles he is gorgeous in every way make's me feel so special he said we cant get serious as he doest want a relationship so we carried on ... (134 words)

Should'nt we still be hugging and kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age - I have problem, my live in husband wont kiss or hug me or even touch me in any kind of way, what can I do, what can I say, he hasnt touched me in over six months! please help could he be cheating on me, we are 48 years old and shouldnt we still be touching and hugging and ... (64 words)

Ex fiance ignored me now I'm mortified and embarrassed

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here goes. i deleted my ex fiance from my facebook after he added me a month ago. ive been restless since because all ive ever wanted to do was clear the air with him but seeing he was married and i think the shock of hearing from him was too much so i deleted him. anyway ... (103 words)

How to go about finding out if he is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked this guy for almost 3 years but in the past few months my feelings for him have become much stronger. We get on well. My friends were always aware of my feelings for this guy but I told two of them how my feelings had changed. One of themwas very supportive and ... (156 words)

What is an orgasim?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i fill rilly stupid askin this but i fill even stupider not nowin so here it is. wut the heck is an orgasim? like i no wut it is but i dnt no wut it is. and try not to give me all medical terms and stuff cuz i aint smart enuff to understand it. so plz help me ... (62 words)

Is it to early to ask him to move in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - am in a relationship for three months i love this man..i get bad mood swings if doesnt want to sleep in my house..i live with 2 of my teenage daughter do you think it to early to ask him to move in with me.... (44 words)

Heart broken even though I never had him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel kinda silly about this whole situation but here goes. I had this MAHOOSIVE crush on this guy who lives in my dorm and everyone knew mainly because I was so exstatically happy and in love 24/7. He's sweet, cute, funny, caring, amazing, sensitive etc. etc. basically perf... (147 words)

How should I deal with my situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please, no judgment. All I want is a sympathetic advice. I met this man 3 years ago, and it was a love from first glance. Our situation is:he is single, divorced 12 years ago, never got remarried, i am married my wholle life to a wonderfull man, we have a grown up daughter toge... (626 words)

Possibly miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been on the pill for 3.5 months now and have regular sex without a condom. Last month, about a week and a half before my scheduled period I started spotting heavily, like almost a full on period for the full week and a half. I had skipped my period by skipping the sugar ... (190 words)

Should I be worried? I havn't heard from her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I havent heard from my girlfriend for almost a week when we usually talk every night. The only thing i know of what is going on is that her family member at the beginning of the week said that she left her phone at her house after watching her kids and ran off with a male ... (214 words)

Afriad of marriage after he cheated several times before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) age 41-50 - my boyfriend of eight years on and off just asked me to marry him in january 2010. i'm so in love with the thought of being in love and we have 2 children together, but all together i have five. he has done some things in the past to me, matter of fact alot such as cheat ... (708 words)

Emotional issues causing problems in the bedroom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age - I'm in a sad situation. My husband never told me he wants to leave. Yet before his erection problem started,we had the biggest fight, when he accidentally told me,that he never loved me at all,he just stuck with me. And 2 weeks after his erection collapsed in the middle of ... (113 words)

Feelings for a close friend crushing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel pretty stupid asking for advice about this situation I'm in, considering I give advice so frequently on here. But it's obviously totally different when you're in the situation yourself, and I would appreciate any opinions/words of wisdom. I've recently split up with a l... (659 words)

My First love sending mixed messages

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8 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old male at a military college with the world at his feet but would give up it all for this one girl. I have never been unfaithful in the least and am generally a good guy Before the summer ended I felt like I had to do something, anything, just to reach out. So I... (603 words)

Confused, upset and desperate for answers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I posted a question earlier on but I didn't get any replies so I'm trying again and really hoping someone can help me! My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago after 7 months together. We are both in our early twenties and we were extremely happy together. He has ... (331 words)

My boyfriend is manipulative and talks badly of me to friends. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i dont know what to do. Everytime me and my boyrfriend fight he always turns it around on me...he is very munipulative.We fight all the time and we live together. he tells me if i move out then he will break up with me. He says that all the fights we have are my fault cuz ... (102 words)

I screwed up but want another chance with her....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - here goes nothing. I was with this girl for about two months, maybe a little less. We got along great, sex was awesome, had a great connection. I am not the most secure person, and I had some issues. She told me very straightforward earlier in the relationship, no games, no ... (358 words)

How can I make going to college more interesting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, this may sound like a stupid question but it is something that is really getting me down. I have recently passed my AS exams and have returned to college to do my A2 exams. But most of my friends havent returned to school as they didnt pass, this makes school so boring... (172 words)

Should I confront him about my suspicions or am I just overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Lately my boyfriend has been really moody and becoming more and more aggressive towards me. He says things like "I just want to fight you sometimes" and "do you always have to ask questions? you're so f*ing dumb." a friend pointed out to me that maybe he was using steroids! I ... (149 words)

Help!!! I want to end my relationship with him but find it so difficult to do so... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to end my relationship with my current boyfriend, but there are so many reasons why it is becoming more and more difficult to do so. Firstly, his mum terrifies me - she apparently tried to run over his last girlfriend, and attacked her Mum! If I ended my relation... (265 words)

It's heartbreaking thinking my son could be growing up around another man and thinking he's the dad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Basically I'm going through a really tough time at the moment, I have been on and off with my partner over the past few months and I don't see us working any more even though I want us to be together. She is about 6 months pregnant and it is both our first child, we ... (180 words)

I need some help sorting out this friendship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I need some help sorting out this friendship...to make it work like it should be. Well we've been friends for nearly 2 years at first we were great but then things got weird. I dont quite understand but I feel im being treated very differently. Its like im the one... (879 words)

I really like him, but I think he is just using me for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know if I did the right thing: I met a guy at a near by dog park, a neighborhood I am now moving to. His dog was bitten and I made my move offered help (I had a crush on him for awhile). We walked our dogs together and went on a date. We shared a really passiona... (392 words)

Met someone on the internet, but now I think he is gay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys. I feel really strange typing this, but I need someone else´s advice. Ive been chatting to an english man for more than 2 years. Ive made a big big effort to go to his country and finally we met. I went to the city where he lives. The first night me met it was the most ... (452 words)

I waited to have sex but now he doesn't want to!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months. I have always respected my body so I wanted to make sure things were steady before I even thought of having sex with him, even though I have had sex before with other boyfriends in the past. The problem is that ... (148 words)

Is my ex just trying to be my friend or is he crazy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and have two children. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Our marriage is great but can be a little better. Before I met my husband, I was with a man that was a cheat and very dominating. Beside all the flaws, he was great to be around. At times we ... (390 words)

Is he trying to break it off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I posted a question earlier but did not recieve any replies so I'm going to try again and make it more concise I'll start by saying that I'm 31 yrs old and basically in my first "real" relationship. I should also mention that I suffer from extremely dehabilitating anxiety.... (280 words)

Help, I'm a sex addict and I think it's ruining me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Iv'e always had a high sex drive but it's getting ridiculous. I have been with my girl for 10 years now. We used to have more sex in the begining and it was great but now that she doesn't want so much anymore, I find myself turning to porn and i'm finding other girls really ... (191 words)

Is 8 years too big an age gap?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a guy who just turned 25 last week and have started dating a brilliant girl who is only 16, 17 in a couple of months. Is this too big an age gap for a relationship? I've known this girl for a few months and she has had the hots for me from day one, I shrugged off the ... (152 words)

How can I fix this mess? I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello there, i made the worse mistake ever! and i need help to fix it. i ended a a year and a half relationship last week, he said that he wants me happy and that if that is what i want then i should go, but now i dont want that i miss him way to much and it was the worse thing ... (125 words)

Am I wrong for being happy that my daughter has a good relationship with her father?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with the man I'm with now for 2 years and our relationship is ready to crumble. I have a daughter with my ex that I was with for 12 years and my current man can not handle our friend relationship. It hurts me deeply that he can't see that I only want happiness for ... (174 words)

How do I get this girl to notice me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - there is a girl i like a lot and i mean a lot i cannot stop thinking about her. she doesn't know me but i see her almost everyday. i just want to tell her how i feel but i know i can't because she already has a boyfriend and i hate him so much. i want to know what is the best... (93 words)

I have no idea how to break up with my boyfriend of 3 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a serious dilehma. I haven't slept more than three hours a day for what seems ages, and I think about it every single waking moment and it's eating a lot of my energy and leaves me exchausted everytime. The problem is, I have been thinking of breaking up with... (509 words)

My boyfriend has unresolved issues with his ex-fiancee!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for six months and I really love him. He's been hesitant to fully commit to me so I confronted him about it. He always tells me he loves me and cares about me a lot. He said he hasn't been able to commit because he has unresolved issues with his last ... (574 words)

My pregnant partner and I keep rowing. Could it be down to her hormones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Good morning, Me and my partner are expecting a baby in 7 months time. We are going through a rocky patch at the moment, maybe its her hormones I'm not sure. We nearly broke up last night because things are getting in our way. She thinks everytime that we get somewhere ... (248 words)

Adults: Were you really in love as a teenager?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am fifteen years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for ten months. We have been in a long distant relationship for seven out of those ten months. Sometimes I feel like I love him so much it's unbearable, and I miss him so much, I feel sick to my stoma... (202 words)

My ex wanted me to make more effort to contact him so I did, now I havent heard back from him in 3 days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help:( My ex boyfriend who i love so so much recently got back in contact with me. I cut contact with him because I really wanted him back,and I still do. He initiates all the contact that has taken place over the last few weeks...phonecalls, texts, coming over to me when he ... (127 words)

I don't think my girlfriend is ready to commit to this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months and its been the best 10 months of my life. I am 18 years old and she is 17. The problem is, for the past 5 weeks she has been burying underlying problematic thoughts in her happiness, and those thoughts a... (387 words)

What did I do to make this guy back away? Everything seemed so perfect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a bad car wreck in April i had just broke up with my ex boyfriend about three weeks later. The relationship i was in before was horrible very abusive. I almost died thats how bad the wreck was. Once i was able to see my friends, i met someone. I must tell you i had ... (523 words)

Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from the company? this was ... (170 words)

When is sex just sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - when is sex just sex for you,dear men (not talking about one night stands and casual hook-ups with women you don't really care about) and when do you know skip over that hill and make love to your partner? How does your behavior in bed change, before, during and after... (195 words)

How do I get my new boyfriend to talk dirty to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really get turned on when my partner talks dirty and kinky to me during sex. I also like it rough. I find it hard to orgasm or get wet without this verbal stimulation. However, my new boyfriend won't talk at all during sex, and he is too gentle with me. How do I get him to ... (64 words)

If my teacher broke up with his girlfriend would I have a chance with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My last year teacher got involved with a senior girl two years ago and they've been dating since, but for the last year they've been kind of on and off. I really have a huge crush on him. He did get into trouble for dating a student but he got to an agreement not to teach the ... (151 words)

I still have strong feelings for my boyfriend but all this family drama is too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This summer has been a lot of fun with my boyfriend but now that we have been spending "too much" time with one another, according to the adult they are very agitated. Now neither his parents nor my parents are cool about our relationship and caused a huge scene. The adults ... (134 words)

How can I trust my friend? I don't want to feel the pain of losing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

8 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 23 and I have an issue with my best friend. A brief insight: We've met almost a year ago and since we had so many things in common we became best friends almost instantly. I'm bisexual and he is not sure about his sexuality yet but he thinks he's bisexual too. We ta... (443 words)

I get close to orgasm, but feel pain and make him stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Alright so this is a rather embarassing topic. My boyfriend and I have had sex about 5 or 6 times. I have never orgasmed. I know this in itself is a pretty normal thing but I am feeling pain the closer I come to a climax. It feels like this pleasurable pain the more stimula... (135 words)

I want to see him again, but was it too casual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy casually for 8 months, he never committed to me but we spent a lot of time together. He just moved away to another city, and we didn't really discuss what would happen between us. I cried on his shoulder the night he left, and he said he'll miss me and I hold a ... (147 words)

Broke up with the guy who was my best friend. I can't sleep!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My best friend also happens to be my exbf. I have deeper feelings for him than I could ever imagine, especially being in high school. We broke up 4 months ago and I'm still a mess over it. I've dated a few guys since, but I couldn't get very emotionally invested. I just bro... (243 words)

I can't tell is it's just flirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately, I've been confused by the attention of a personal trainer at my gym. I signed up for him, and we got along great, and he even came to one of my family's get togethers. There's always been a bit of flirting, from him. I play stupid because I don't want to seem like I'm ... (205 words)

My baby sister wont stop crying for me at night, what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi again umm my sister the 3 year old one crys when I leave to go to bed at night. It gets so bad I have to sleep on the floor what do I do she won't listen to my parents she just crys for me at night for so long I end up on the floor with a banker and pillow. Please help! ... (64 words)

He has always kept his ex as an easy backup..this worries me!

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry if this question is long... Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this... I've been in a committed relationship with a man for about 3 months now. I have tried to avoid the "ex" conversation up until recently, because I know he has slept with about 5 or ... (697 words)

Is he in love with me or using me for a home and stability?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age - hi i met a man 7 mnths ago all was good we got on great, his never been marred has n kds, he had come out off a 6 yr relatonship when she med another guy into the home, now were i feel insacure is since we met his somehow managed to move in with me and although hes inscure he ... (143 words)

Should I hope for the best or run?

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8 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - 23 years ago I dated a girl for 4 years. We went are separated ways. WE both got Married .Then i got a divorce. We live in different states. She found out about me and came home to visit her family . We got together and i fill back in love. She says the same thing and says when ... (86 words)

I cheated on my b/f and want to tell him

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my bf. He never found out and now i want to work on the relationship, but i feel it might be too late. What do i do? should i continue, tell him the truth im soo confused. Ive learned from my mistake, im hurting bc i ended the affair and im hurting bc i let my bf ... (65 words)

What are the chances hes seeing me just to get back at me?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a few dates with a guy and then decided I couldn't pursue things with him as my ex had come back and started causing me problems (I never got back with him, touched him or invested time in him - he was just harrassing me and wanted to patch things up). I didn't know ... (286 words)

Is he lying so I won't think there's another girl?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well......my BF Jon dumped me becuz he was getting ready to go bac to skool and he said it would b to hard to focus on his school work and it didnt make since to me cuz i've been in skool for 3 to 4 weeks now and my grade on papers r fine and hes a better student than ... (88 words)

I feel really ugly and can't make my boyfriend understand

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8 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, I apologise beforehand because I truly need to rant, I've been having an awful week regarding this problem! I hate it when people say to ugly people "just accept yourself, love yourself... if you don't feel it, just fake confidence!". IT DOESN'T WORK! Like it was that... (610 words)

It burns when I pee

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this passing weekend...i went over to a friend's house.... i had met him before and was very attracted to him, he was very nice to me and everything(this was 3 weeks back) the day before this friday...he told me that he wanted to have sex with me badly... i also wanted ... (805 words)

Does how he signed my birthday card have any special meaning to it?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is actually a pretty stupid question.But one that I would like some opinions on. Today was my birthday.I spent the day with somebody that I have been seeing for about 7 months.We have not talked about commitment and love and all of that.We do treat each other as a couple I... (159 words)

Should I ask her out or just remain her friend?

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8 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused in what to do........ I've meet this girl almost 2years ago and we have been very close to eachother when i first meet her we both wanted just to be friends(she had a boy friend at the time and she made sure i was aware of this.) And i didn't want to be in... (303 words)

I need advice about proceeding with my marriage plans.

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8 September 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid: I have a dilemma. I recently got engaged to someone who I have been involved with for two years. To be honest, the person was involved in another relationship for a number of years when we got together but last year, things were over for good. We've spent a lot of... (270 words)

I'm doubting myself. Did I make the right decision?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Need more advice after another question asked here... I'll sum that up. I had a one-night stand kind of thing with someone. It was an accident. I tried to stop things but he was pretty pushy and each times things progressed it kind of felt too good for me to really force to ... (859 words)

I'm so guilty that I cheated on my husband. Should I tell him?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A few days ago, I slept with a male friend while my husband was out of town visiting relatives. It only happened, once, i swear, and I did not intend for it to happen. I didn't set out looking to cheat, it's something that just happened. We'd had a little to drink. That doesn't ... (118 words)

Is thinking of preteen boys ok when I masterbate and am I gay or straight

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8 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - when i masterbate, is it ok for me to think of preteen boys. i dont know if im straight or gay because sometimes i like to think of girls and sometimes i think of boys. im 14 and i need to know what i am and whats wrong and rite... (50 words)

How do I get back on track and get these stupid thoughts out of my head?

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8 September 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hey, Well I broke up with my GF about 1 month ago. It was mutual, but we just felt we loved each other, but was not in love with each other. We were dating for neraly 2 yeras... We still see each other regularly, every 1-2 days I guess, still talk and stuff. However la... (238 words)

Is this just a nice way of him breaking up with me?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to break up for now. Here is the deal. We went to the same college for one semester and it was amazing. We did everything together. Then I transfered to a school about 2 hours away and the first semester was hard but it worked. Then I came home for the sum... (132 words)

Do I stay or do I leave? I'm so confused...

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Well im a young sixteen year old girl. I have (well, had) in my opinion a pretty amazing boyfriend. We broke up the end of July because of a few problems. He's done some things that I was not happy with, It wasnt the fact that he did those things, It was the fact tha... (484 words)

We met last week, and now suddenly she's single?

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8 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Thanks for the reply from a 'male reader'. This follows... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-she-didnt-say-im-meeting-my-boyfriend.html I've just heard that she's broken up with her bf, I'm not being up my own,or for 1sec suggesting that I'm taht infl... (70 words)

Was this verbal abuse?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been married for about one year, and we went out for about one year, so we have been together for two years. I have been depressed anyways, Idk why maybe because I am going to be graduating soon and this is a life change for me, graduating from college, but lately s... (700 words)

He's perfect for me apart from the sex...

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been dating and intimate with the same man for over a year. He is quite a bit older than me. The sex is over-the-top, yet I backed out of our engagement due to some issues of his that seem to be unresolvable (financial, family, baggage, etc). I am currently seeing a ... (175 words)

His ex is causing us to drift further apart... Help!

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in absolute love with one of my best mates for bout 2 years now!!! We never went out but we often had a kiss here and there or whatever but I know he feels stronger bout me and i feel the same about him but how can i get him to realise to just go for it all our ... (123 words)

My husband has lost interested in making love... what's the matter?

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8 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have been married for three years and have a 1 year old daughter. Recently I have noticed that my husband has lost interest in making love. I know he is not having an affair and has recently been very stressed due business issues. But whenever I try to make an effort he ... (89 words)