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writes: hi. i have a slight delema.Me and my girl friend are 15 and we've been going out for a month now.i absolutely adore her. And she says she loves me and thinks about me all the time. But she doesnt show it.We just hug and/or a quick kiss. Nothing more. Im a very lovey dobby kinda of guy and i want more than that. We're not intimate at all...and when i say that i dont just mean just sex. I mean like i need a lil more affection from her....be more romantic with her...i wanna share my love with her. but she doesnt seem to be on the same page. i mean it would be great if we did have sex..but that's not what im asking.... i want us to spend alot of time with eachother just doing the things we like to do..and for her to show that she loves me. for us to fall asleep together watching tv on the couch. i always try to put my hands around her waist and hold her and try to make out with but she slowly pushes me away..so i stop. Do you think she's not into me..or is it shyness or waht? cause she doesnt date much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question tahnks guys ur answers are very helpful..ill try to lay off. and maybe she'll be more comfortable
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reader, Omegahero09 +, writes (18 September 2009):
 It's all gonna be good. These Aunts gave good advice, it'll be cool man.
-Hero
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reader, rockhard  +, writes (16 September 2009):
she might just be scared of the problems ahead like with her parents and stuff and if its sex you want well you just need to relax and let her decide it just have a serious talk with her about your love for her tell her out like babe i want you to listen to what i need to say cause i want to show my feeling for you.then go on about what you think of her it always happens to workout in the end and you get a little action if youre lucky goo luck man just relax dont rush it
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 September 2009):
 She may like you a lot, but just doesn't feel comfortable yet with all the lovey dovey stuff. Unfortunately, you can't make someone love you. It can also be a bit offputting to a girl to feel like she's getting pawed at when she's not prepared for it and wanting it to happen. You're just going to have to back off a bit. Maybe give her a chance to notice that you're not as physical with her, and she'll come to you instead of you doing all the pushing.
If you give her a chance to miss you, you might be surprised by her reaction! Put some air between you, be a bit less lovey dovey, stay busy, don't drop everything for her when she says 'jump' and say 'how high?'
Learning some patience here will be a very good skill for later on in life, when you encounter a really puzzling creature, the grown woman. You think you're confused now? Just wait!
Relax, patience, kick back a bit, don't push so hard on her. Time will tell you how she feels, you've only been going out a month.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): When someone pulls back, it tells you she is not sure of the relationship. Maybe you are being too pushy and should back off.
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