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writes:Hi ! Im 25 years of age and my boyfriend is 21. I met my boyfriend 9 months ago. We hardly meet but we always talk on PHone. I love him a lot and for the last 9 months i thought he has the same feelings as i have for him. But today he told me that he now thinks that he's fallen in love with me. I was bit shocked....so i asked him what does he mean, coz for the last 9 months he's been saying that he loves me. Then he told me that all this time he was just flirting with me...but now his really in love with me. I felt so bad coz i truly and honestly loved him from the beginning...i was so upset when he told me that he was just flirting with me. Please tell me what should i do. Shall i leave him....? I'm just confused what to do... Please help me !
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): Hi. It is disconbobulating to discover that someone who said they loved you didnt really mean it, they were just flirting with you. I can understand why you are feeling confused and wondering if its worth the bother of. I would think twice about it. You may be wondering if he is in love with you now or if hes just saying it and not really meaning it again. Try and meet up more and see each other in person. Then you will stand a better chance of working out if hes for real or not.
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