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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She ended our 3 year relationship because of an old crush, who won't even go out with a girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21, have been dating my girl best friend who is bisexual for almost 3 years. I'm in love with her. She always seems to be very good and loyal to me. All of the sudden, she told me that she still likes this one girl whom she had a crush on in 8th grade. I found out that she ... (194 words)

Is he worth keeping around? He doesn't spend any time with me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has been going through a complete transformation: i have known this guy for a while and he used to always text me. about 2-3 times everyday from the end of my sophmore year to the end of my sophmore summer. when i found out i was going to transfer to ... (894 words)

Anal sex and wife won't try it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Firstly I apologise for such a long post, but this is a BIG problem with lots of different elements. My wife and I have been together for almost 6 years (married 3 months) and a few problems keep coming up. The first problem, the one that keeps cropping up is my fa... (969 words)

Does the gorgeous boy I like actually like me now that he has noticed me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at a party the other night and there was this boy there from my school who is 2 years above me. I have always thought he was gorgeous but he never seemed to recognise me. But at the party he was looking and flirting with me all night, heres some examples of what he did, ... (265 words)

Sex still hurts after four years of contact, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and even to this day it hurts me to have sex. Even if we have forplay before contact it still hurts no matter how many times a day we do it. what should i do?... (45 words)

Why are my boyfriends friends/roomates so mean to me?

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13 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm a female, 20, and I've always had boys for friends because I don't like confrontations or drama that I get with girls, so in the past 3-4 years I've become best friends with a group of 5 guys who've pretty much been there for me and have been pretty supportive..until now. ... (488 words)

How do I experiment with my sexuality without making people think I'm bi or gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i experiment with my sexuality without making people think im gay or bi? Also, i think two of my friends my be well, ones probaby bi and the other seems to be like me, curious, but i dont want to blow my friendship if their straight. And help..please :) ... (57 words)

We got back together 2 months ago after he cheated, but now it's really bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year when he unexpectially cheated on me. Our relationship was going very well and we didn't have any problems. I'm 15 and a sophomore in high school, he just turned 18 and started college. The first week of college, he went to a party ... (346 words)

Do you follow your head or your heart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married to a wonderful man. He is smart, kind, has a good job, and is a hard worker. In fact, I love him - but only as a friend. I don't want a physical relationship with him at all. I have told him I want a separation, but I am not sure if it is the right thing to do. ... (140 words)

He ignored, cheated and still ignored

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is long, its just i really need advice: My bf and I had been together nearly 2 years and we lived together for a year and half. Exactly 6 months ago he had to move bk to the US from UK and ended up getting a job in Aspen. Everything was fantastic with communicati... (504 words)

I had a problem opening up, because I've never opened up completely, not even with my family, and with him I was always scared of his reactions and judgements. Now he's broken up for good! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, My boyfriend broke up with me. He says it's for good this time (we've broken up before). Basically, he had issues with my past, I have low self esteem, he had trust issues (because of my past and because I never gave him all the details... like he expected me to t... (463 words)

Can't have an orgasm since I'm pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question. Since I found out I'm pregnant everytime I try to get an orgasm I can't. Its weird the only thing I get now is tingling all over. Does it have anything to do with the pregnancy?... (40 words)

really like this guy, but is he just using me for a bit of fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i like this guy, we have been out as a couple a few times and we just starting seeing each other more again but not in a relationship kinda way - just as mates. We have been kissing and cuddling (NOTHING ELSE) as well but then i just found out he has a girlfrie... (99 words)

I'm scared I won't find anyone to be with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and at the stage where I am afraid I wont find a partner to spend my life with. I have been in four relationships, the first 3 I ended because I dind't see myself with the person and the last 1 broke my heart. Finally when ive been through few boyfriends and figured out ... (118 words)

I finally told him about my lies to him, and he broke up with me, calling me selfish and manipulative! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so a few years ago, a boy moved to where i live, and i liked him instantly but i was too afraid to say anything to him...i liked him for three years until i finally found out that he likes me too, and we ended up getting togeather, it was an amazing 9 1/2 month ... (200 words)

Pill? Or no pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive put on a little weight over the last couple of years, and my boyfriend has suggested i come off the pill. its always been a good choice to go on it, the sex feels better for both of us and its safer than using condoms. altho ive tried a few different ones i always seem to ... (180 words)

My girlfriend works with her ex lover(not boyfriend) is it wrong of me to ask her to quit that job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - After my girlfriend and i got together, i got her a job at a bar i work at. during a short breakup, she had sex with a co worker of ours. We are back together but i hate seeing them interact on a daily basis. Is it wrong of me to ask her to quit her job and find another one ... (69 words)

Its looking smaller as he's getting bigger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Over time my boyfriend of many years has gained weight(now 25yrs old and 5'10")...he went from 135 lbs and is now at 190. It was a goal for him to gain some weight since he was so thin. I'm not attracted to his body. Um, he has no neck...well, major double chin and his member ... (149 words)

Am I stupid for hoping we could be together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm sorry if this is a little long but here goes.... I dated a girl last year for about 6 months and I completely fell in love with her, she'd tell me she loved me too and i'd never been happier in my life. This is why I was devastated when she suddenly ended it. She t... (405 words)

Why is he telling me this stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend tells me that hes never felt the way he feels when he kisses me with anyone else. He has a new girlfriend (he got back with a long term ex he was with before me) and even though he wants to see me sometimes, no signs of wanting to get back together. He tells me ... (126 words)

Could I still get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Today me and my boyfriend was in bed, we didnt have full intercourse but he put his penis inside me with no condom but didnt ejaculate or move it about, could i still get pregnant?... (35 words)

How does a shy 40 year old meet people?

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13 September 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hello Everyone I am a 40 yr old single female with a good job, independent and people have told me I am beautiful etc. I take care of myself, play tennis, eat right and as a result was able to maintain my youthful figure etc. The reason why I have gone in such detail a... (249 words)

Is there actually any cheating going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been separated for 4 months because he was having an affair with a 17 yr old girl. (he's 28) While who he sleeps with is no longer relevant to me, I have to maintain a civil relationship with him because I am pregnant with our first child. I have already ... (432 words)

Should I be worried that he's still friends with his rebound girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago over an argument about one of his female friends. Nothing was going on with them but he was lying to me about seeing her and I had had enough. He swore he had no feelings for her. 3 days after we broke up, they began a relationship. It... (195 words)

Moving to a new country and dealing with a break up away from family and friends, some advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Really I am writing this to see if anyone ever experienced the same problem as I have and if there was a solution. 2 and a half years ago I met my boyfriend from Spain. He sat beside me on the train, we got chatting, he asked for my number and we ended up dating ... (708 words)

My friend has changed since he started dating this girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, about a month ago one of my best friends started dating a girl. Ever since then, he's changed: -He skips our band rehearsals. -He ignores my other best friend and I when she's around. -He skips classes. -He all of a sudden hates skateboarding and calls it "unco... (118 words)

Should I go to Las Vegas with my Brother in Law who is getting divorced?

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13 September 2009 (F) age - My husband's brother and his wife announced their divorce which will be final in early 2006. My BIL is somewhat of a loner and has no one to really talk to. We've always been friends for as long as I've been married to my husband (over 20 years) and I get along with him really ... (224 words)

Help with bullying ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a problem in my school classes see this year i have classes with rough thuggish boys that mess with people and talk about them and i drown myself out by not participating or talking trying to avoid them but it never work i get so nervous that i start to shake and back ... (179 words)

Was he just keeping me warm, or does he like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - had a sleepover at my friend's house (lots of girls + guys sleeping in a big tent in her garden) her twin bro was there im good friends with him but nothing more but i was sleeping next to him + was shivering and he was SO nice like got me loads of blankets and let me put my ... (145 words)

I've never kissed anyone. Will I look like a fool when the time comes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I don't really know where to start but i'm 15, nearly 16 and I have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone or anything. It's not that I don't want to it's just that nothing has happened for me. Yes I have been asked out but I have said no because those people just were not ... (144 words)

He says he wants a break. Does that mean I should move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi ..I am so confused right now.What does a break mean? I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 mons now.We have spent every weekend together since.he is very active in my kids life.Past 2 weeks we have been a bit distant.So I did a little snooping and he has a profile on line ... (227 words)

He called me a hoe -- does that mean he wants us back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 years old and my boyfriend of 3 years is 29. yes thats 10 years difference. what could we possibly have in common right? well he spent 10 years in prison and his state of mind is truly that of a 20 year old at this point if you ask me so we actually have a lot in common ... (356 words)

A fancy this nurse - would I be foolish to ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im in a bit of a dilemna as to whether to ask a girl out or not. The thing is this girl is a nurse at the hospital where my mum is currently staying. My mum is very ill and they are not sure what is wrong with her, and she has been in hospital for 11 weeks now. Im going... (217 words)

He says he's too old for this - any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am in an age gap relationship, my partner is 57 and I am 37, we have a great relationship, he has a boy of 8 from a previous relationship whom I have known since he was 3 and we get on brilliantly, there is only one problem I have recently admitted to myself and to my ... (173 words)

Is he making me suffer for what I did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive dated this guy for 2 years i do love him but i know for a fact that he loves me even more..i've changed his life! it was all perfect,but 4 months ago he had to leave the country..it was so hard for both of us but we promised we'll face anything,together... after 2 months... (230 words)

Am I asking too much - a blowjob whilst driving?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have benn married for 20 years, 2 great kids. I love my wife very much, but I want more when it comes to sex and foreplay. When it comes to iniating sex, it is always me who iniates, and I feel like when we do have sometype of sex, oral , etc, my wife just goe... (282 words)

Should I give her another chance, even though she has lied to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so ill make this as easy as possible to understand. Im 18, and my current girlfriend is 17. we dated for about one year and then had a nasty breakup. Hours after I broke up with her, I was calling and texting saying I was sorry and that I didnt mean what I said. ... (655 words)

I start twitching when my boyfriend fingers me - what is this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we dont have sex but I give him oral sex and hand jobs and he has tried oral sex on me and fingers me. We dont really have a lot of time alone because our parents are always in the house when he comes ... (143 words)

I want us to have a threesome with a female escort. Is this is a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, just a quick request for advice, please. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 8 years, and enjoy a healthy loving relationship. We are hoping to get married soon. We are both in our late 20s, professionals, and own our own home. For the length of ou... (266 words)

I am 25, a virgin and never kissed a girl. I am considering going to a hooker, is this a good idea?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, i'm 25 and I have never had sex, even I have never kissed a woman. So I have alrady decided to pay a hooker. I'm very exited about that, but at the same time scared. Am I doing something good or at the contrary? All the time I was expecting for somebody who really loves ... (90 words)

Broke up, now I have to move out. Should I tell him I am going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had hurtful break up with my ex month ago. It was the most difficult situation I ever faced. He was my true love, he lied on me and he said stay here in my place as long as you need as a good friend and good flatmate, but I found out that he is waiting patiently me to move on ... (265 words)

I like this guy, but I don't think he even knows I exist! How can I make him notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) I go to the gym every Monday and I always see this boy, I think he is 17 and he is georgeous, I don't even think he knows I exist. He always smiles at me but that's about it and i want to like speak to him but I cant ramdomley just go up to him and say "hi" can i ... (154 words)

I keep losing my erection with my new girlfriend. I desperately want to get this sorted, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 19 years old, ive recently been having an erection problem half way through sex i keep loosing my erection. Im recently with a new girlfriend i was with my last girlfriend for over a year and our sex life was amazing it was good every single time, but now with my curr... (121 words)

Do I need to accept that my marriage is over? Or is there anything I can do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 4 years now, married for 1 year and 4 months and we have 2 beautiful boys, nearly 3 and 6 months. 4 weeks ago he said to me that he was unhappy and that he felt empty. Subsequent conversations have revealed that he loves me as a friend ... (257 words)

He's a really big guy...but not so big "down there". Why might this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - my boyfriend turned 18 back in july and we got together about 2 weeks after his birthday. we had sex about a month into it. he is a really big guy (6'4" 220 lbs.) so i suppose i was expecting him to be pretty "well endowed". i was wrong. hes only about 5 inches hard and ... (88 words)

Is it wrong for me to want more from my wife sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear All, My wife and I have been married for 20 years have a great family, work hard. I love my wife very much, bu I have been very depressed and want more from our sex life. When it comes to iniating sex, I am the one to do it, and when I do, I get sometime , I'm t... (273 words)

Does he actually like me? Or does he just like hooking up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a 3 year relationship a little while ago, I felt it had been over for awhile it was just a matter of someone stepping up and making it official. Recently started hooking up with this guy I met 2 years ago in college. I really like the guy from college, but I'm ... (204 words)

Why hasn't he made contact? Is it because he doesn't care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'd like some opinions, especially from any guys out there, on why my now ex-bf might be acting how he is. To cut a long story short, we were together for 8 years. He split with me 18 months ago, saying he wanted space/time to himself (I later found out he was messing ... (364 words)

I cheated on my wife when we first got married. Will counselling be enough to help us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my wife, when we first got married. We only dated for 2 months before getting married, so we definitely got married to quickly. It has been almost 2 years since then, and I know that I love her more than anything, and she is still with me and loves me. But what ... (78 words)

How do you get over someone you truely love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you get over someone you truely love, and have loved for more years than you can remember? I am in love with this wonderful man, but due to circumstances, I doubt we will ever be together. My heart aches for him, he makes me laugh, smile and he is my best friend. We ... (235 words)

I'm trying to move on, but she won't let me. She keeps contacting me, so she is always on my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a 4 year relationship with my current girlfriend. 2 of those have been long distance. Coming to the end of the long distance she became uneasy that I wasn't committing with respect to marriage. I wasn't in a position to think of marriage but she was... Anyway ... (859 words)

One minute everything was great, the next I had lost the person I love most in the whole world. How do you get over that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So right now I feel like an utter mess and am not sure how to deal with it. Could use some advice. Here's the story: I have had the most amazing year with my first love (who I was close friends with for 6 months first as well) and I love so many things about him. I'm really ... (677 words)

I really don't know how to get my ex back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im looking for some advice a little about two month ago me and my ex broke up. I was living with her.We was alway fighting and her family was get involved. her mother would cried everything we would fight. Me and my ex was not seening eye to eye. We was both unhappy and ... (283 words)

Strange "pop" during sex, and it wasn't my first time! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I lost my virginity on April 4th 2008 (i remembered the date because it was very special to me) and ever since then had sex with my boyf. We broke up but i used a vibrator for 7 weeks before i got round to having sex with my new boyf (about March 25th 2009 or something) ... (129 words)

I cant decide between two boys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have got back with an ex but now I am back with boy one. Boy two keeps ringing me and saying that we still have feelings for each other and we always will. He has asked me to meet him on wednesday but I dont know if I should as I am with boy one. It is really hard as when I ... (155 words)

How can I stop the shaving rash?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Everytime I shave whether my pubic hair or my legs I get a hideous rash for atleast a day. On my legs it goes with cold water and if I pat them dry but when I shave my pubic hair it comes out in this horrible red rash wich I think is highly unnatractive, this rash lasts until ... (71 words)

I got out of an abusive relationship. How can I move on and meet someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've come out of a very controlling, mentally abusive, unhappy relationship. And im still dealing with the pain and upset of how he used to make me feel. I've been to counselling and I am over the worst but not quite there yet. It was a year ago that it happened.. im just ... (133 words)

He's getting very distant - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship. I feel like i have been stuck in this caged life for almost 5 years. I am currently unemployed and with a small child. Me and my child's father aren't married, but we are together somewhat. Living together, I am very unhappy. I am depressed all the time. ... (229 words)

Were they just trying to keep warm together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well last night me and a couple of friends arranged a camp out/party sort of thing. A lot of people came for the party bit, but in the end only 5 of us camped out. Now a guy I know was one of the ones that camped out, but he only arrived at 11.30 because of work. Only me and ... (612 words)

We have been together for 16 years, but now he has lost interest in me and our daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am unsure what to do! I have been in love with the same man for 16 years since we were kids. Since our child was born 7 years ago we have not really had a proper relationship he has had a few other relationships none of which have lasted more than a few weeks my response to ... (265 words)

I think I have hit puberty, but why am I still small?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) age 26-29 - I am 13 and I think ive already hit puberty and im 2.5" soft and about 4.5" hard why am I so little?... (23 words)

My boyfriend doesn't care who I go out with. Does he really love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f loves me but is not at all possessive about me. I can go out with anybody and do whatever I feel like. He doent mind. On the other end I am extremely possessive about him and he respects it and feels really good about this . Then why he doesn't feel the same way about me ... (74 words)

In love with my best friend’s fiancé, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is my problem; I’ve fallen in love with my best friend’s fiancé. I’ll try to give you a little background about the situation. I’m currently a 22 year-old college student, during my freshmen year I meet a lot of new people, including my now best friend and his ... (515 words)

Should I stay secretly unhappy in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help? I am in a de-facto relationship of 18 months, we have bought a lovely home together. I love him very much but unfortunately it is the old hollywood line "I love him but I'm not IN love with him". I don't want to hurt him, I thought I was madly in love but recently ... (216 words)

Should I tell him that someone tried to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I'd like your opinion on the situation please! my bf and i have been together for a year now. because of his job we are long distance now, but still fully commited and faithful to eachother. Before he left, he told me he wanted to know everything that happened to me. ... (157 words)

Could my daughter be lying that she is a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter has just turned 17 and she says that she is still a virgin. I believe her because when she gose places she calls me every five minutes, but my cousins all believe that she has had sex. I think that she has not because she dose not go to many place she has never been ... (117 words)

Husband cheated, don't want to stay but don't want to destroy our family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for almost three years now my husband has put me down and called me names our whole relationship I left him july of last year for cheating on me but I came back cause I found out I was pregnant I thought that things would change but they seem to be worse but I ... (158 words)

I love her, hate her b/f but I know he makes her happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is still about the same girl. One year later she is still with the same guy.... This summer i called her because one of our friends said that she wanted to talk, when i called her she wasn't even the one to answer the phone, it was the friend that told me to call. I soon ... (510 words)

B/f talking to online girls but he says he was just being "friendly"

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13 September 2009 (F)

- Is my bf cheating on me? I caught him using an online dating profile website. He said he hasnt met any of the girls he had talked to though. I read some of the messages back and forth between him and this one girl and he is def flirting with her, saying shes hot etc. I had t... (210 words)

Does he like me or is just flirty because he can be!

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i was wondering if you could help me basically i like this guy he is just the everything to me not everyone but to me, he is the bomb! right i go to a night club and he is the DJ there and wen ever im on the dancefloor apparently he watches me wen he isnt sortin... (146 words)

Am I making a decision based on rationality or am I just fed up?

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together in my home and have children from previous relationships. He is still married and trying to get custody of his children. The children live here 1 week and at their mother's for another week. I find this to be very ... (234 words)

I'm in love with a married man...HELP!

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started interning for this company about a year ago. That's were I met him. He was my boss and a solid 18 years older than I am. There was no immediate attraction. I knew he was married and the thought of us being together never ever evvvverr crossed my mind. I loved working ... (704 words)

Becoming obsessed with g/f in LDR

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 11 months now and now I'm in college. We're staying together because we really do love each other. I find myself staying home and waiting for a call from her when she promised she would. For example, there was a football game today and ... (122 words)

He doesn't help, all he does is argue

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a Mother of 4 and my husband of 11 years never spends time with me or the kids! All he does is hang out! He doesn't help all he does is argue. He is very verbally abusive! We often argue about money because he doesn't want to help me buy anything! I'm ready to leave bit I ... (100 words)

How do I find out if I'm his type?

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay , so theres a guy . I asked about him in another question . He calls me names that aren't really that offensive ... kind of like he's flirting . He'll talk louder if he sees me , i guess to get my attention? He tells me how I should go out with his friend or some other ... (151 words)

Why the attention when he has a girlfriend?

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay , so on my bus this junior learned my name somehow . He says Im the 'hot one.' And everyday he'll always call my name or go "Poooh Bearrrr." He wrote me some note about what he liked about me . But I think he's pretty weird , and you know what else? He has a girlfriend! ... (67 words)

I"m in love with my wife's sister...I want to marry her!

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i am and have been overwhelmingly in love with my sister in-law (my wife's sister). first u must understand my wife and i are not in love with each other and haven't slept or been intimate with each other for a least 10 years. i had a few chances make a move on her but i didn't ... (110 words)

I'm always wondering if he's lying to me about doing drugs

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone im 21 and been with my boyfriend since i was 16 now i know it may sound stupid but i was lied to about drugs... Serious drugs... Now he claims he isnt doin them anymore and i wanna believe him but cant let the past go that he lied to me about this... It always ... (102 words)

Dated a girl, then her sister, now I want to date the 1st sister again

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok when I was in 7th grade I was 14 going on 15 I started to date this girl who was 14 and in the 8th grade, we'll call her BB. I dated her for maybe 4 months and then the summer came. Over the summer I never saw or called her once, needless to say the relationship ended ... (401 words)

Can you get infection from anal sex?

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey i just need to know what would happen if my boyfriend's sperms came into my back side ... i need to know is there any infections would occour in the intestine or not .. please i need reply as soon as possible thanks... (44 words)

Please help me save my sister!

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I know this isnt really a relationship question, but I could use some help. My sisteris 30 -- married and has 2 kids (from different fathers). She was a wild child from starting at age 12 all the way up to about 7-8 yrs ago. Such a little hellion, I was turned off on having ... (227 words)

Ex is being a hypocrite trying to do this!

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help here. i had a messy breakup with my ex fiance. part of the reaon was i was friends with another guy and spoke to him on email which he didnt like. i have lived with my mistake ever since but now he has come back into my life on facebook and is married but wants to... (100 words)

B/f and I can't stop fighting and don't know what to do about it!

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im in need of help see me and my boyfriend have been having trouble lately we can not stop fighting and i dont know how to tell him my problems because he get every thing out of order well see we where having sex every day and night until i got pregnant and now i really dont ... (123 words)

We both know we could be good for each other but are afraid to date one another

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine last week revealed to me that she loved me. I have known for quite some time that she felt that way and never said or acted on it because I did not want to risk ruining what we have. Now that she has made it clear her feelings for me, she is now stating that ... (191 words)

I can't do family functions with my girlfriend

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my girlfriend for over three years now. She is a recovering alcoholic, and has been sober for 19 months. At EVERY function with her family, (bday, fundraiser, visit, etc) the entire family is drinking. Somewhat heavily i might add. She asks me to go to these ... (187 words)

He was trying to hook up and have sex with a girl on Craig's list

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help with my relationship. Here's a little about it. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. He is my second boyfriend. I was with my ex for about 3 years. I conserve myself until marriage and I did not have sex with my ex; however, I lost my virgity to my secon... (214 words)

She has problem going from friend to girlfriend

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay me and my friend started going out but before we did she told me she has a problem from going from friend to girlfriend. and I just said ok well now that we have been together she still acts the same and its kinda weird, and i guess bothers me a little,the only time i feel ... (85 words)

The fight was something silly but he broke up with me and won't talk to me now!

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a big fight with my boyfriend yesterday and he broke up with me. We were yelling at each other on the phone and that's how it went. It's been 2 days now and he haven't returned any of my calls and keeps clicking the cancel button when he sees me calling. He shut... (206 words)

I don't love him but I love his son!

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13 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok heres the story short. I,m 17 and i,m talking to a guy ( 17 ) who i used to date we,ve lost contact over the past year and now he,s back and he has a son who is 9 months old. He says he wants me and only me. I want to say no to him but I keep looking at his little boy. His ... (142 words)

What can I do for my ex? Please help!...

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13 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I finally got in touch with my ex girlfriend after not hearing anything from her in two weeks. She answered my call and told me that her mother passed away. Her step father blames her, and her brothersand sisters wont speak withher. She also told me that she drinks heavily, ... (198 words)