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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to be just a bed mate for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Everyone. Any advice or similar experiences would be most welcome! And if there are any guys out there - I would so love your take on everything as my male friends don't seem to be much help at the moment!! I met this guy a month ago - great guy with a good job, home e... (844 words)

How can I be friends with him?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age - I have been going through a bad period in my relationship. Lovely guy but relationship not moving. I started looking around and formed a crush on this guy at his families business. His father died a few years ago of prostate cancer. Just browsing the internet a while... (204 words)

Am I asking for sex too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a newlywed (20 years old) to a wonderful husband (25 years old). We got married in May, and we have always had a great sex life. Before we were married, he wanted sex every time we were together and I was sometimes hesitant, but would still satisfy him anyway. We had an ... (312 words)

I'm seen as the quiet kid who never talks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was a little kid I had many friends and always talked to other kids. Around grade 4 my parents split up and I moved in with my mom and sister into an apartment. When we moved in I made friends with other kids in the building, but there were 2 older boys who bullied me ... (197 words)

Do you just run out of love after just 3 days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have gone through a lot. He was there trying to be with me, a year ago, when I was having a hard time trying to choose between him and my ex-boyfriend. Well, I finally got my ex out of my life in may of 2009 and my current boyfriend and I started dating ... (577 words)

Ex and I still talk on the phone everyday!

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Any body think thats its strange that me and my ex still talk on the phone everyday,even if we have remained mates and he now has a gf All my mates think its very strange and that there is still a connection between us... (46 words)

How do I show him I'm glad that we're not friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my friend yesterday, he was annoying. He used to lie about small things for example, the shops he bought his clothes from. He gave me stares which totally freaked me out and would sit very close to me that I could practically not breathe. I think he fancies me ... (130 words)

How do you give a blowjob and a handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i want to give my boyfriend head but im really nervous like what if i bite him by accident and what if he dont like it and also i want to give him a hand job nut i have no ideal will someone please tell me how to give a bj and hj ?? please... (57 words)

I'm dependent on him, but he cheats on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been in dysfunctional relationship. the problem is with myself already. i am financially dependent on my partner. he always betray me, he always cheated on me. i cant move forward or i cant get out in this relationship. i always tried to escape from this dysfunctional ... (132 words)

He turned off his phone and wouldn't tell me where he was -- did he cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my bf for nearly 2 years but he recently went out and didnt turn up until the early hours of the morning, he loves me but do u think hes cheatd on me ? (he turnd his fone off and wouldnt tell me were he was)... (49 words)

Is something going on, or have I done something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - lately, i feel like everybody at school *including friends* have been ignoring me. Today, at school - me and my friend, Jade* were standing talking outside in the schoolyard. When my best friend Georgia* and my boyfriend Kieran* and some other people, just walked straight into ... (130 words)

Friends and family are judging my guy on his appearance.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Recently, I decided I'd introduce my boyfriend to my friends. I met him through the internet and we had an online relationship until we met some months ago. Of course all of them didn't believe such thing as internet relationships could ever work out, and thought he was ... (457 words)

She cut me off a year ago, and I'm getting tempted to cheat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age - OK, so I have made a complete mess of my relationship with a woman I have been 'cohabitating' with for 23 years... I have made a complete mess with our finances (I would say mainly due to my selfishness but there are other issues involved like raising the 3 kids of hers and 1 ... (256 words)

I want him to be part of our daughter's life after he gets out of jail ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My daughters father was brought up in an insane household.. honestly his mother believes in all types of religions and his father would cheat. when i found out that i was pregnant with my daughter he left and started dating numerous other girls. i guess he felt bad because half ... (138 words)

It appears to be over, but I have no closure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, so a beautiful relationship I was in ended badly. We were together for a little over two months, but I poured my heart and soul into the realationship during that time. After she did many hurtful things to me in the last few weeks, she called me and apologized (I was alre... (216 words)

Did he cheat?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age - if he stayed out all night the same day he called his x did he cheat? he said he was at his moms because she was leaving the country for a month ... (34 words)

She's bringing all kinds of men into my kids' lives.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi can you help me? I split up with my partner 2007 we have 2 kids together, 4 and 3 years old. She's been dating and bringing all different sorts of men into my kids life; she can't stick to one man. I want to hear your advice and what negative impact is this going to have ... (64 words)

How can I get talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I don't really know where to start but.. I've liked this guy for a year and we still haven't spoken he's in the year above me at school (i'm 13, he's 14). He smiles at me around school and looks my way when we're in mixed year assemblys and I REALLY like him but the prob... (188 words)

He cheated on me. He doesn't know I cheated on him too. Should I tell him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has cheated on me twice and I've forgiven him both times because he came out and told me I didnt have to find out or any other immature things involved. While he was cheating on me I kinda felt that something was going on so I cheated on him as well. I feel bad ... (116 words)

We broke up 8 months ago, but I can't move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I broke up with the love of my life 8months ago but to me it still feels like yesterday. Recently I tried to move on and date other guys but I end up comparing them to him. Sometimes it feels like no one can ever replace him and the sad part is he has moved on with his ... (77 words)

We went out for two days and then he dumped me. I can't stop crying!.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, I'm 15 in year 11 and there's this lad I like at school I havent been talking to him long, and we got together a couple of days ago, he dumped me last night, but I have never felt like this before. I havent stopped crying, I can't eat or sleep, all I can do is ... (300 words)

He is two years younger, should I give up because of the age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Omg plz plz help. I'm 15 and this boy I really really like is 14 but nearly 2 years younger than me. We've known each other for about 3 months now. At first we flirted and talked non-stop. When we went on a school residential we played truth or dare and kissed, flirted the ... (244 words)

How long to wait around before moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating someone for about 7 months, the last 2 months has been less and less...I don't get return phone calls for days, we rarely see each other. We have never argued, when we are together we get along well, although there is a bit of akwardness at times. We have ... (174 words)

She only wants me forever, but can I really trust her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, me and her have been together for the last 3 years but for some reason I have my doubts about her. Well, everything with us has always been great and we love each other to death and have had many great times, the only bad thing is it is a long-distance relationship. But ... (383 words)

My boyfriend is torn between his wife and me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

- When my boyfriend and I first met it was love at first sight. Not something I had ever believed in before especially at 28. After having our 1st date, he called and told me that he was separated with a daughter and going through a divorce. Not the most ideal situation but I ... (306 words)

My first boyfriend wants to get back with me but I'm engaged, how do I tell him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I dated a guy in high school for 2 and a half years. During that time I fell in love with him. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first time, my first everything. We ended up being forced apart by my parents from some trouble we got into. I was completely heartbroken. ... (249 words)

During sex he went too deep and I started bleeding! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend was having and it went in deep too deep to the point were it hurt, after i started bleeding, but i was due on so we think its probably that, but were just wondering if it could be something else, if it is my period then i have come on a couple of days early, ... (121 words)

Opinions from guys only please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys!!! Well I just want to know when you look at her, stare at her, watch her, when you’re talking to your friends corner of your eye is going on her, when she smiles and laughs you watch her. All this above do you serious like her or not? You know through s... (181 words)

I really need help before I go insane

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, I really need help before I go insane. I’m 17 almost 18. I was in a 2 year relationship with the girl of my teen years dreams (corny I know). I had to brake up with her because she kept getting drunk at party and cheating on me with other guys. after the 5th time of he... (495 words)

Since we had sex for the first time last week I keep getting sexual urges!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have sex for the first time last week, the night before I went on holiday. Ever since ive been on holiday I get sexual urges and every girl I see looks like my girlfriend, why is this? Also Ive never been able to give my girlfriend an orgasm and this is ... (88 words)

Am I cold and heartless because I have stopped caring about everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

- I don't care anymore, I have had a lot of misfortune in the last few months and have cried way too much. So now I just don't care if something bothers me I tell myself I don't care I know I do deep down but I refuse to let that feeling rise. I will not allow myself to seem ... (150 words)

What is sex appeal exactly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a bit confused... I think my ex just insulted and complimented me at the same time... He said the reason my relationships never work is because I have to much sex appeal. What is sex appeal exactly?... (39 words)

My boyfriend said that if I loved him I would have sex with him! Why cant he respect my wishes and wait?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

- My bf said if I loved him, if I cared about him and if I wanted to make him happy, then I would have sex with him. Why would he say this? It really hurts for him to say this to me because I DO care, and I do love him and I so badly want to make him happy. In fact, it hurts m... (336 words)

My husband's addicted to the gym and steroids! How do I get him to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out recently my husband's become addicted to the gym. When I first discovered he liked going the gym, I thought nothing of it, OK, it's just a hobby, but then when it became addictive I thought he must be having an affair until I discovered off a close friend that the ... (248 words)

He's completely betrayed me! I've got the papers for a divorce but am I going too far?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out that my husband of 6 years, was talking to another woman, as far as I know talking and texting, but I also found out that he sent a few pics and videos to her as well, pics and vids of myself that I made for him and him only... he gave me a few excuses... ... (247 words)

I cant stand his accusations any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this is abuse or not. I have been dating my boyfriend (he is from Europe) for almost a year and a half. It started a year ago when he would tell me that I am looking at other men (when I don't) and that I wanted to be with other men (when I'm don't) or that I ... (563 words)

How do I get rid of this rash I have on my butt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Please give a solution for my problem. I have dark rashes on my butt...i have tried many creams and did home treated but the rashes are still there. Due to this rashes im shy to have sex with my boyfriend. Coz i think my boyfriend will leave me after he sees the ... (80 words)

Feeling ignored

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Im 37 and my girlfriend is 41. We have been dating for about 5 months and get along fine. However, I have noticed that her home life kind of distracts us from developing a solid relationship. She has two kids 17 and 20 who live with her (i dont have any kids) and a sister with ... (313 words)

Is he still in love with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my bf for 2years now i love him alot but i sometimes feel realy small.last year i found out he was cheating on me and confronted him but then he droped the girl and thing slowly started mending.today i was with him then he said he will never forget his x(the ... (165 words)

What does it mean if you are in a used relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone tell me what does it mean if you are in a used relationship? And how do you move out or move on out of a relationship like this? Thx...B... (31 words)

Three way relationships. Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 5-6 months now and we have been getting on really well untill recently. My boyfriend once lived with his (ex) girlfriend and when they split up she moved out and she is still paying half the mortgage which means she could come ... (111 words)

Is it unusual not to have your father give you away at your wedding and have your brother do it instead?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married soon (yay!) and I'm worried about that tradition where the father of the bride gives her away. You see, my dad was never around...I think I've met him on 3 or 4 occasions and never had more than a superficial conversation with him, generally helped along ... (240 words)

How cliche, in love with my best friend; how do I get him to be mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know if i should give up or wait for him. I've been friends with this guy for 8+ years and at times i guess we're more than friends we flirt and talk dirty to each other on the phone and through text but nothing physical we've never even kissed. After a traumatic ... (457 words)

6 month anniversary, what do you make of it?

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11 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i have recently had an upset with my lovely gf of 6 months, we just had out 6 month anniversary on thursday. the sunday before i asked her if she wanted to do anything for it n she said she didnt mind, so i assumed that she would keep it free thinking i had something in ... (599 words)

How do I deal with my bf's friend flirting with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - can someone please help me. im having a little issue with my bf. hes recently became friends with another girl, and i wasnt bothered until, i undoubtably noticed them flirting. iv never herd of her before, but since shes been around weve had problems, its almost like hes lost ... (256 words)

This relationship is really promising but I don't want to be a mom to her 6 year old son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am openly, and proudly, bisexual, and I make no apologies for that. I have recently started to become involved with a woman, which is nothing unusual for me. What IS unusual, however, is that she has a kid, a 6 year-old son. The father is still involved in his son's life, ... (249 words)

I feel uneasy about my girlfriend's behaviour!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically my girlfriend is making me uneasy all the time. First it started with her getting drunk and wrestling, biting, and rolling around with my friend on her bed (she said it was nothing).. Then she lies about where she is (acting innocent and bullshitting me with what ... (247 words)

I've been with my partner for nearly a decade, but I cant help fantasizing about men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend, except that I frequently fantasize about men. We have been together for nearly a decade, but I can't seem to stop wondering what it would be like to be with a man. I once broke up with her to be with a man I had known before, ... (175 words)

Why do friends act this way?

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11 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - It seems like all of the friends that I have throughout my life have at one point left me and my group to hang out with other friends. That is fine- we're all entitled to meet new people- but the thing is, my friend ends up changing who she is. They become obsessed with the ... (234 words)

My boyfriend wasnt paying me any attention when we had a threesome but now I think I want to try another one!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so I'm bisexual female and Ive had the same boyfriend for over a year now. a threesome came up in our conversation about four months ago and we'd thought it be fun to try it with one of my friends thats a girl whos also a bisexual, we asked and she said yes. so she came over to ... (308 words)

Am I crazy for thinking she has other reasons for breaking it off with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me a few days before our 1 year anniv. She had been seeming more and more distant lately and was maybe having sex with me once a month and never initiated it. Finally the last month she was always cranky and wouldnt say much except a few words here ... (263 words)

I made up my mind that I want to marry him, but he is "forcing" me to have more time! Has he lost interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for about three months. He is wonderful, we are so much compatible and am in love with him (he tells me he is too) We we disscussed our future together and agreed that we would get married sometime. After a while, i brought up the topic and am a l... (162 words)

He doesn't pay me much attention, do you think he is giving it to another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - am 19 and am dating a 30 years old guy. he works and i go to the university , the thing is am worried whether he really loves me or he is just having fun with my heart. we met through a friend and he told my friend that he wants a gal with a vision just like me but am still ... (154 words)

I don't really feel sex. Whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OMG help me!!! wen I masturbate nothing happens. I'll rub on my G spot but nothing.. it doesnt appeal to me one bit not even a little!! my boyfriend will do it but nothing either.. sex feels ok but not like what its made out to be for me...i fake orgasms so my boyfriend wont ... (77 words)

I cant move on because I see her every day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys.. hope u guys can help me out. let me tell u whats the problem.. its something like a love triangle. i moved to this school since 4 years ago. i met this girl. she was a chinese.her name is mary. on the very first day of school i and her became friends. for two ... (661 words)

I told my boyfriend I want to stop having sex for a month and he said he would get his pleasure elsewhere!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ugh ok so obviously alot of people have read my questions now let me ask you this. I told my boyfriend that I feel like I'm in a more physical relationship than an emotional one. he never kisses me unless i do it first and when i do its onl for like 2 seconds. I'm not a bad ... (197 words)

I had my tubes tied but I'm experiencing symptoms of pregnancy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - someone wrote on here a ?...but I wanted to ask one too... I had my tubes tied 7 yrs ago and most people tell me its impossible for them to come undone and be pregnant again...now my problem is I have had plenty of of symtoms of pregnancy in last couple of months, some of ... (294 words)

Stuck in between a rock and a hard place because I still love her!

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11 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi‚ i,ve been this relationship for 9 yrs and we live together .I was in an accident 4 yrs ago ,i almost lost my life she's been helping me with everything because i'm in a wheelchair ,I have to learn to walk again but she been there for me.She told me she's not happy because ... (201 words)

Is he just scared and will he ever come back around?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This situation is so strange to me, but I come looking for insight- anything- to help me understand his perspective. I have had a secret sexual relationship with this man for a few months now. We have actually only had sex a few times both knowing we shouldn't given the ... (200 words)

My boyfriend wont spend the time on foreplay and sex is getting painful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I enjoy sex together a lot. But lately things have been horrible. We both kinda like our sex rough and never had a problem. However, he just started graduate school and is working full time so he feels crushed for time. I like to have sex as frequently as he ... (277 words)

Questions about STDs...

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11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this question that I never asked anyone about STDs, probably because it's stupid. It's kind of hard to explain. People tell you that abstinence is the best way to prevent STDs. If you and your partner are both virgins, then it is safe to have sex with each other.... (188 words)

My ex is my best friend...we dated and now I can't get him out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My ex is also my best friend. We only dated for 4.5 months, we've been broken up for 4 months. He continues to be my best friend. I love this guy (as best as my teenage brain can comprehend that, hahaha) in a romantic way, yes, as far as I know. But FAR more importan... (312 words)

Am I stupid for thinking he will leave his long term girlfriend and get back with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and i have only been together for about 5 months... then about 4 months ago we broke up and he started dating his ex girlfriend he was with for about 3 years before me...even though he did not admit it to me until i found out from other sources. We have stayed ... (398 words)

My girlfriend has decided to get face surgery without discussion, she's considering a breakup incase it goes wrong? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girl friend of a few months has decided to go for a face surgery without discussing the consequences with me. She has even gone to an extent where she would like to let go of this relationship fearing that I would not lover her anymore if the surgery failed. How would I ... (58 words)

I've been too shy to say I like her, so now I think she thinks I'm a weird! Please advise..!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl in two of my classes and I think I'm in love with her. The first couple of days that schools started she would say hi to me, when ever she saw me looking at her she would smile, but I just didn't have the guts to talk to her. Now she doesn't look at me ... (99 words)

I'm 14 and I need some advice on turning my life around

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11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Im just here to ask for a few words of wisdom and advice. Im a 14 year old male who's going through alot at the moment and its tearing me down.Im a currently a freshman in highschool and with all the grades/test/classes/and drama it adds on more stress and ... (311 words)

Is this a sign of the end of us? Or are my own problems to blame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know when a relationship has run its course?? me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 yrs, its our first proper relationship and i always thought of us as a strong couple. weve had our ups and downs, weve been through alot together and when we're out w... (536 words)

She's willing to do sexual things, but won't say that she loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - !girls please help!!!well im 14 and very nervous because the other day i had the love of my life come over to hang out. and we were laying under the stars and she seemed very happy. so i was happy and i told her i loved her and she said for me 2 wait on how she feels about me. ... (197 words)

He was running hot and cold -- should I give him a second chance?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After seeing the guy for 2 months and telling him I would move at the end of the summer (mere 30 min. from him) he told me: well i guess this summer fling is over. Then a week later his ex magically came into the picture. A month after that, I ran into him and he was chasing me ... (136 words)

How do couples usually fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend very rarely fight and when we do its a stupid fight over nothing and we make up right after is this normal!... (26 words)

Do I turn my back on my sons or raise yet another child?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age - My 19 year old son just told me that his girlfriend of one year is 4 and 1/2 months pregnant. Her parents have made it clear to her that if she keeps the baby that she can not stay with them. Right now, my husband and I are raising our 2 sons, and my 19 year old son already ... (209 words)

Found a great guy but cant open up to him. Any advice?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I say to him? Where do I go with this? I met this guy about a month ago. We went out for coffee and on the first date we clicked instantly. He's actually everything I've been looking for; smart, funny, handsome, a great listener and very patient and understanding. I... (178 words)

What did he mean by wanting me to be submissive?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age - My question is, what are dominant male and submissive female relationships all about. I was dating a dominant male who says I wasn't submissive enough and that I always had something to say. What did he mean? We hung out for 6 weeks and when I told him I did research into ... (67 words)

I don't feel anything for my boyfriend of 8 years anymore

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel my feelings for my boyfriend of 8 years is slowing dying off. The love I have for him 6 years ago was great. What is stopping me from leaving him is that we have two kids together, and I know it would hurt them to see that their daddy and mommy are not together again. ... (175 words)

I really like my Teaching Assistant, I googled him and we have so much in common!

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone. I have a question about whether or not to show that I like my T.A. (teacher's assistant for those of you who don't know). I am a senior in college and he is a Ph.d student. I am 23 and he is 28. (Oh, I know this because I Googled him ;-) ) Class started j... (245 words)

What can I get my 15 year old boyfriend for his birthday?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help on what to get my 15 year old boyfriend for his birthday! It is on holloween and he likes guitars, hunting and drinking monster. I am having trouble thinking what he will like and when I ask him what he wants he says nothing, but I can tell he wants some thing. help ... (58 words)

He has gone off sex, but masturbates all the time. Help guys!

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I need advice from all the guys out there please... My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half - and have lived together for nearly half of that time - he's 27 and I'm 25. Our sex life is pretty inconsistent I would say - for a few weeks we'll have sex ... (331 words)

I'm thinking of giving up Uni so I don't have to have a LDR with my boyfriend of 4 months

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im looking for some advice on long distance relationships as im about to start one, and im not sure if I can cope with it. I love my boyfriend more then anything in the world, and would be more then happy to give up my own university place to be with him at his universi... (197 words)

I cant get rid of my controlling ex, how should I handle the situation?

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody!!! I am having a problem with one of my ex boyfriends. It seems as if he refuses to move on and makes me feel guilty for breaking up with him. I broke up with him because he was very needy and clingy, controlling and had a temper. For example I was expected to ... (658 words)

The first time I had sex I didnt feel anything

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was a virgin?! But the first time I didnt feel anything? Why?? Am I still a virgin??... (18 words)

Flirting by text and now he has stopped. I don't know if he is in a relationship.

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11 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I came across a class mate from uni in facebook and he and I added each other as friends, he asked me for my mobile and started to text me funny messages about how cool, pretty etc... I was and stuff, then he started asking me for details about my pijamas if I slept naked and ... (284 words)