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writes:I don't know what I want, out of life, in a relationship or anything..I can never make a decision i'm really indecisive and it's all down to the fact that I never know what it actually is that I want.If I eventually do end up making a decision then it's ALWAYS too late and I probably only want it then because I know I can't have it.Why am I like this it's really messing my life up and relationships or potential relationships...I know I do it and I do learn from it I just never change. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Just take some time to figure out yourself first. It's hard to figure out a relationship, when you don't even know what you want. Make a list- decide what you want in a relationship, qualities in a person, etc. It sounds cheesy, but might work. Otherwise pursue other interests and don't be so focused on being in a relationship- just let it happen naturally and you will know when it is right- it isn't something you can decide. Since you're having a hard time, maybe it isn't the best thing for the moment- that's okay, though because when the time is right you will know and won't have any trouble deciding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): If you cannot make a decision, then you are not ready to do so. As you said, you finally get down to it. If it's too late, then it was never meant to be. Give it some prayer.
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