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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

His sister walked in on the two of us while we were nude and kissing. Do we talk to her about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend and I are bicurious and we were having some fun (both of us were fully nude and french kissing). He is 19 years old and I am 24 years old. While we were nude and kissing, his 14 year old sister walk into the room (next time we will lock the door). Should we talk... (80 words)

His reaction to my unintended pregnancy has made me doubt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not exactly sure what i'm asking for here, but i couldn't find any 'answers' from any other source, so i thought i'd give it a go. I have just experienced a miscarriage. I think the most part came yesterday but i have been having a lot of pain etc today. I only took a po... (445 words)

Pregnant, no job, no money, no home of my own, and no boyfriend... I need advice and support!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in the bigest mess ever and i've never felt so vuerable and helpless in my whole life :-( I'm 32 weeks pregnant leaving me with 8 weeks left until my due date. I'm homeless as iv'e only just plucked up the courage to leave my boyfriend of 6 years. I'm pennyless as... (347 words)

Does he even love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if its me lately we have been arguing alot we have been together for almost 2 yrs and we live together and we have a child. I love him with all my heart. But he thinks he does'nt need to tell me where he is at all the time. I only ask him what time he might be... (220 words)

Should I get her back? Or will karma do it for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit of a mean one. A girl who is supposed to be a friend slept with my ex within days of us calling quits. I know she had been after him for the entire time of our relationship (3years) even though she had a doting bf. Should I get her back? Or will karma do i... (68 words)

How to get to know this guy I can't stop thinking about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really like this boy whos 2 years above me, but i havent really ever spoke to him and i very rarely see him, i might pass him like once a week or somethin withhim been in sixth form. He has flirted with me at a party before but not verbally lol. That was a few weeks ago. ... (220 words)

When do I tell the guy I just started dating that I'm pregnant by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Eight months ago I got a divorce from my high school sweetheart. We started dated when I was 16 and were together for 11 years. During that time we stopped using birth control because it didnt matter to us if we expanded our family. (we have 2 kids already). After our divorce ... (249 words)

I think he's making a really bad mistake by breaking up with me and I can't do anything about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: 2 questions from the same poster are combined here as they are essentially the same question.] My boyfriend of a year told me that we are done. He completely shut me out and was being so rude. I got that we were done but i wanted to know why. He broke my heart... (514 words)

Brother? or twin brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. About a month ago, after going out and drinking a little bit too much, I made out with this new guy in our grade (lets call him Van). Since then, he has been really sweet and cute and caring towards me, we've gotten to know each other better in school, and he ... (669 words)

How do I stop worrying about this person who was the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - All right, here goes. A few months ago now (almost 4), my Ex and I of 15 months (with not a single fight)split - more accurately, she broke it off with me. Less than one month prior, she was telling everyone she knew - her friends, parents, siblings, my friends - that s... (524 words)

How do I dump him gracefully? Ignore him or tell him straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I posted this yesterday and got 2 replies I am so thankful for. But I need more advise from our dear aunts. I am still confused... How should I turn down my ex without with grace? Here's the background. I have realized now he has played with my feelings ever since he b... (402 words)

Should I even try to begin to understand??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Don't know if anyone else can get their head around this because I can't... I was going out with a girl for 7 years. We got on so well, really knew each other, and had got to the stage that we could openly talk about anything. She even brought up marriage, just a mont... (243 words)

Men: Is sex 3-4 X a week too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - one for the guys here?? I am I would like to think quite a attractive women, I am a mum but still look after myself.. The trouble is my sex drive is sooo much higher than my partners, it's got too the point that if ever I mention sex he gets really annoyed and says what's w... (112 words)

B/f doesn't trust me at all and its driving me bats!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Should i stay or should i go? my boyfriend of 1 year doesn't trust me at all. i don't give him reason not to trust me, i'm very faithful and loving and wouldn't dream of cheating. he accuses me daily of cheating, he genuinly thinks i already have cheated (though i haven't) and ... (296 words)

I'd really like him to just walk up and kiss me but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I wrote a question recently about a guy who I am communicating with via text, email and phone. I am a widow and he is divorced. I have kids, he does not, but mine think he is great. I am so confused right now. After being married for almost 20 years (lived together since I ... (218 words)

Does it turn men off if a woman has alot of gay male friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This might seem like an odd question but when a straight woman has a lot of gay male friends is this a turn off for straight men? Background I moved to an area last year where being gay is considered illegal and is sort of undercover inotherwords the gay community is tight and ... (370 words)

Take him back or leave it???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we have been going out for 7 months. The story.. It all started at school he was staring at me and saying hi to me and i was like why is he being like that to me? i have not seem him around school before.. so a couple of nights after he bebo'd ... (464 words)

If he really cares about me and wants to be with me for xmas wouldnt he do anything for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend 21. Its been 1 year and a half we are together but more and more we experience problems and more often we fight. Even if i know it might be early i always keep thinking of the future and imagining my life with him. We both talk sometime... (477 words)

I'd like my ex to come to the show how do I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im showing my art tonight prob the last time at this bar and mass txted friends sayin that its prob my last and I'd really appreciate if they came. Last cpl of shows - no one has really gone - cept for one. Oddly enough i'd be stoked if my ex went -he went to my first one ... (241 words)

Opinions please... is this perception correct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone noticed that when the males in your life (co-workers, family and friends) have a woman, either had character problems or a mistake was made i.e. there is a problem to be discussed information sought or advice requested. But when a female tells the men in her life ... (175 words)

Girlfriend's past haunts me every day

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I love my girlfriend very much but her past haunts me everyday. I know of 6 of her past encounters. She has told me about all of them. One she had slept with the lead singer of a band. Another she told me recently that she had gotten so high she got taken advantage of.... (253 words)

We don't spend as much time together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, from the day i met him he has always been very busy with work, and i have always accepted that and more or less taken a back seat to it. i would see him at weekends, sometimes fortnightly if he had appointments alr... (473 words)

Yikes!!! I accidentally sent the text to her!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

- To be honest I don't really need advice I just need to talk about what an idiot I am. I have really really liked a girl i know for about a year now. But I never expected anything to happen because she is lesbian. But the other day she told me that she thinks she might be bi ... (178 words)

I love him but what can I do to help out our sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years now. We've had issues in the past but for the most part get along. He is an alcoholic but I have accepted that. I guess I've come to terms with it because he only drinks excessively at night and at home. my point in ... (177 words)

Wanting a phone sex relationship to be more

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a on and off again phone sex type relationship with an older man ever since i was 15, i'm now 17 and he is 40 years old and divorced with two kids, issue is, i am starting to fall really hard for him. i want more from it, but, i'm not sure how he feels, he gives ... (144 words)

Woman's intuition and an ex lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you believe in womens intuition? Especially when you feel that your husband might be talking to an ex lover?... (20 words)

How can I tell if my boyfriend still loves his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i love my boyfriend he says he loves me but deep down in side i think he still loves his ex how do i know?... (25 words)

My boyfriend wants to date another woman to make sure that I am the "one"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for over four years and are now living together. Yesterday he opened up to me that he might want to date other people, to make sure I am the 'one.' By dating he means, take someone else out to dinner just to enjoy thier company, no ... (148 words)

He hasn't asked me out but we flirt all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - There's this boy a year and a bit younger than me in year 9 (i'm in year 11). We always sit next to eachother on the bus journey for like 40 minutes and we're friends with the same people on the bus. Lots of people say we suit eachother but he has never told me he fancies me ... (165 words)

I never get included in things with "friends"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in my last year at high school. throughout high school I have always hung out with the same group and considered them to be my friends. However, whenever they hang out outside of school they never invite me. They usually go to "Steve's" house on the weekend. Once i ... (188 words)

Does the way I dress scare women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - The reason I ask is because I often get some strange looks from women as I walk past. They often give me a look like they're scared. I'm wondering if its because of the way I dress. I often wear a black coat, usually wear black jeans, have black shoes, short cropped hair and to ... (210 words)

Did I get abused sexually?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just your average 14 year old girl. I've been going out with this guy for a couple of months. He's been fairly decent with me all this while.. but all of a sudden, sometime last week, he started asking me to have sex with him! I wasn't and am not ready for that kind of a ... (128 words)

Is it ok to be married and have friends of the opposite sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 41 and have been married for 22 years. Is it ok for me to have female friends and my wife to have male friends? We have plenty of mutual friends but maybe we need our private lives to help us remember who we are. I have been told that the problem with the girl friendships ... (74 words)

I asked a girl out and she said no!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well i asked a girl out and she said no. i am distraught what should i do i feel crap. my friend ruined any chance by shouting we are talking about sex so it put her off the topic of going out.... (42 words)

My guy friend told me he loves me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was texting my really nice guy friend a few nights ago and we were being random and hyper and i texted him i love you!!!!! but i thought he knew i was kidding. well a few minutes later, i get a text saying i love u 2 and when i asked he said he was completely serious and had ... (71 words)

I still like my ex, what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, this is a very silly situation that probably gets asked everyday but I can't go to my best friend because she cant give serious advise without taking the mikky of me. A year ago I met a boy at my friends brother at a party he was going out with someone then but a ... (435 words)

Why would my ex want to see me this weekend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For five years my boyfriend and I were pretty happy. We had a few problems, difference in lifestyles (that i thought could be sorted out) and we eventually split up. We tried to make it work but I think once he planted the seeds of doubt he couldn't see it working out. We d... (204 words)

I fancy my English Teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and I have a crush on my 22 year old English Teacher! She is soo Hot! In lesssons she keeps looking at me and smileing? Why is that? Does she like me?... (35 words)

Is he still married?????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I found my boyfriend's pay stub yesterday and on it it says that his taxable marital status is:married. Does that mean he is still legally married? ... (26 words)

I don't know how to get his attention without seeming like a stalker.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this problem seems a little silly. I'm 17 and in sixth form and I like one of my classmates a lot. I fancy him. He's not the greatest looking guy, looks don't bother me at all. I'm really attracted to the person that he is. He's intelligent, ambitious and kind. But he ... (207 words)

After being away in the army so long she only wanted sex once and it's driving me mad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently returned from the army to my wife. In base there was not a female we could interact with and having no sex for so long drives one mad. Don't get me wrong even if I could interact I wouldn't cheat on her. On my first night here, we got busy, but after that she is n... (89 words)

Cheating and lying but I'm still drawn into him... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm addicted to a guy who has a past of cheating... I still like him... but he's said I'm boring before and it makes me wonder will I keep him interested in the relationship? I am a virgin.. I have decided to wait until I am married to sleep with my husband. I'm 19 and I ... (133 words)

Please please help me I've never felt this way before I care for him so much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i really need your help. theres this guy "travis" that i dated in highschool for two weeks. we broke because he had been talking to his ex girlfriend the whole time and when i left him he went straight back to her even though he swore he had no feelings for her. i ... (540 words)

Stay Married or Separate - Stepdaughter issues

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in my second marriage now for 7 years as of February 2010. I am contemplating separation due to my stepdaughter and I don't feel as if I love my wife. My stepdaughter is 22 now. I came into her life when she was 15 and I sort of knew that this may be an issue but the wife ... (375 words)

Terrified of losing him... advice needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past year and a half and we have split up a few times but we have said this is the last time we are going to try because its hurting us both to much splitting up all the time but now it just feels like hes not as ... (278 words)

Should I approach him more... or shouldn't I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I would like to ask for some advice. Recently I realized that I've fallen for a guy. Of course, I can't be 100% sure it's something more than a huge crush, but I find that I simply cannot stop thinking about him, my hands feel weak when I think about him, I've even ... (743 words)

Help?? I am a grumpy snappy cow...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, I don't know what to to with my life. I am a 32 year old mum of 4, my husband and I work and seem to be like ships in the night, now the credit crunch has bitten us and things are tight, so the work arragements has to stay as they are. My problem is I feel so ... (244 words)

Why does my boyfriend make me so upset and hurt all the time, while my male best friend does the opposite?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

- Why does my bf make me so upset, anxious and hurt all the time, where as my best male friend does the opposite? My bf is never there to support me. Whenever I need him, he has always been drinking so he cant be supportive, becuase when he drinks he gets really, nasty, i... (856 words)

He's addicted to Vicodin, and I don't know what kind of help would be best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27, in a good job, have a good social life, me and my fiance are well-liked. We've been engaged 6 months. I found out that my husband was addicted to Vicodin the other day when I found bottles of the stuff hidden behind the breakfast cereals at home - I had no idea they... (286 words)

I fell in love with a friend that slept with my good guy friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am really losing my mind here. Here is what's going on with me. I have a girlfriend for about 5 years now but our relationship is extremely dysfunctional and we are never intimate nor have I had sex with her in over a year. She has been pressuring me to get married and ... (1024 words)

How do I pursue this relationship further without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A new guy has just started working at my place and I have noticed I am interested in him. He is in my age group and he has been around me and chatting to me when ever possible at work. Our conversations are flirty and also he has filled me in on himself lately! However, as he ... (119 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there!! I'm new to this site so am hoping u can help me please. I'm pregnant, and I dnt no how to tell my boyfriend, I know I have to but I just can't find the words. I was on the pill...and really have no idea how this has happened. I've been back and forth to the doc... (271 words)

My girlfriend is very sexual when it comes to masturbation, but when it comes to me she wont let me get involved!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Sexually my girlfriend and i are having considerable problems due to lack of experience on both our parts and she also has vaginismus (which she is currently seeking help for) so no penetrat... (931 words)

Should I get back with my ex? Or will the distance be too much to handle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex and i broke up about a month ago. it was a mutual thing, we went to college and the long distance thing wasn't working because we didn't have enough time to create a strong relationship first. we still like each other, we just can't make it work because of the distance. ... (104 words)

I love her, but she is screwing with my head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age - This week has been so very tough and my story is long one but i shall try and be brief. I meet a girl when i was 18 and it was love at first sight but she was with her childhood love, this eventually ended and we got together when about 24. It was very off on and on, more off... (495 words)

Can anyone tell me what my dream meant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i had a dream last night that i was just hanging with a random girl, we weren't 'doing' anything but i was really happy that i was just chilling with a friend, can anybody tell me what this means?... (39 words)

Have we got too intimate too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i and my bf are in relation for nearly 4 months. last week we met in a park and got very romantic!! we had our smooch for the first time .he kissed me on my neck and licked it very fondly....now i am in a fix whether its very soon for us to get so much intimate or is it normal? ... (74 words)

What are your thoughts on how to do this the right way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend told me randomly one morning when she was really horny that she had dreamt about us having a mmf threesome. i was schocked at the time and i was pretty much speechless as she masturbated just thinking of the idea. later she took it back and said she had only ... (223 words)

I told my wife I would leave if my MIL moved in with us!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i have been together for 6 years now. ever since we've been together either her sister, her brother, or her mother is living with us. we've been by ourselves for 5 months out of the 6 years of our relationship. her mother is 41 and she can't support herself. shes ... (239 words)

Do you think it is worth it to forgive someone who did this to you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for 3 years. We graduated college and had a long distance relationship. In this time she broke up with me for someone else. Im am pretty sure she cheated on me before she broke up with me for this other person. Well she came back to me after about ... (158 words)

I have a crush on my lesbian teacher and its making me question my sexuality!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

24 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1: I know the topic of teacher crushes has been discussed to death on this site but I feel that my situation is a little more unique in that my teacher happens to be a lesbian... S... (868 words)

Was the pregnancy test correct? Is there a chance I could still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex last month and a day after that i took the ECP 'emergency contraceptive pills', and my period came for 3 days. but my period normally last for 6 to 7 days. I have done it again after that but with a condom. I got checked by the clinic 2 weeks after that, ... (113 words)

My best friend is dating the girl I have a crush on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem that I know I will have to wait to act. I live in a rural town and i'm in a class of 50 students. my friend is going out with another one of my girl friends. i have a major crush on her but i cant make a move cuz its homecoming week. i also cant do it ... (83 words)

Why is he doing this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have liked this guy 4 a long time and we recently started dating,we havent been 2gether a month yet,he said hes liked me a while as well..at 1st he would call me every nite and then we started spending alot of time 2gether(hes my neighbor)if he seen me outside he would wave ... (438 words)

How can I get a flesh light?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old male and have been masterbating since I can remember. I am getting sick of my hand and would like a flesh Light. Any tips on how to get one?... (35 words)

Forgot to take something out, had sex now concerned

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here it goes... Me and my boyfriend had sex the other night went alright except for one thing... I forgot to take my tampon out..I found out the next morning is this safe???... (35 words)

Should I hit him up or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im soo sad. this guy that i have been talking to for over a year, has decided that he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. we always argue and go through the same conversations about me not listening. he wants me to do everything he says and when i do, he still manages to find ... (202 words)

G/f broke up with me because of arguments! I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so me nd my gf 4 3 nd half weeks got into in argument and she broke up wit me 2day...it started last week i found in her fone tlkn 2one her exs who i thot she had a major problem with.sayin how he controlled her nd played her..sayin i have feelings 4 u still but dont get a ... (757 words)

My g/f really has downtime in a LDR

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My girlfriend and I are in a LDR. I'm in college and she's in high school. She goes to school, then work then she studies and she hardly ever has any down time to just talk to me. I know she really does try to make time and i appreciate that soooo much. She real... (106 words)

My partner doesn't want our baby.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 30yrs old and I just found out that I am pregnant 3 days ago. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years he already has 3 children and his reaction when I told him I was pregnant was like I ruined his life. We did use birth control but as you know nothing is ... (143 words)

Is she flirting, playing hard to get or just trying to annoy me?

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, theres this girl that i like in 9th grade, and im pretty sure she likes me, but two days ago she asked if i had a myspace, and i said no(and it was true, i didnt) and she said "liieerrr you just dont want me to message you on there" and she wasnt really calling me a lier, ... (156 words)

Too much time in bed....

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All, I had this strange problem of not being able to get up in morning.Usually i go to bed at 11-12 at night and wake up by 8-9...I think i am sleeping nearly 10 hours a day..Isnt this a problem....As far as i have 8 hours is the normal time.....Well i am not into much... (85 words)

How can I change in this relationship

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help.I don't know what going on with me. I am extreamly jealous of my husband.Even he go to work I thinking of he make out with someone.We been married for 2years.We always fight. every week.We both tired of it.I try to change, but I still can't. I am so ... (170 words)

How to get more pleasure

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Omg sooo me and my bf are very sexual i love given him b.js and stuff but when it comes to him doing itt to me like eating me out or just having sex ....i kinda dont even feel any of it at all i need help..i get wettt and horny and all of the above ... (56 words)

What can I do to get him out of my mind

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need help guys, I'm Ethan, gay and brokenhearted. My boyfriend ended up our relationship like 3 months ago but I still have a lot of feelings for him, he was very rude to me that night, he said really bad things that I'll never forget, I shouldn't feel anything for ... (444 words)

Is urinating inside each other okay?

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and i are both into a fetish called watersports. It's got alot to do with urination. Well my boyfriend likes it when i pee in him, and vice versa, but i was wondering if it was okay? Like, is it safe for us to be urinating inside of each other?... (53 words)

Will he want to get back together, or not?

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So right now I find myself in a situation that I've been in before; and I don't like it at all.. I was with my most recent ex for only about one month (he just broke up with me two days ago). Now I know, this is a really, really short time that I've been involved with the guy, ... (324 words)

Got carried away with a dildo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well, i kinda got alil crazy cause i have'nt had intercorse with my bf since ever,sooo one night we decided to have phone sex......i kinda shoved the dildo deep in me and i thought i was getting wett but it seems i was bleeding...what did i do wrong..?? What should i do?... (53 words)

I cheated, she broke up with me, but I really want her back!

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me Its my Junior year in high school and im really cracking down on my grades this year. and at the end of last year i met this girl that thought i was cute. i saw her around the hallways and she always looked great. her hair is really dark and it glows a dark red... (408 words)

Do you gain weight after getting your tubes tied?

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my man have decided that after the second baby that we didnt want anymore children. So i would like to have my tubes tied. But alot of women have said that when u get your tubes tied you gain alot of weight is that true? ... (47 words)

He's never been good at relationships but what is your opinion?

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive known this guy for 4-5 yrs - Lets call him "Robert".We were friends and some point jumped into intimacy. He was a drinker who expressed his naughty feelings for me and would be touchy feely in public,get jealous when I was w/ other guys.We had too much sexual chemistry ... (326 words)

Should I risk our friendship by asking her out?

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Okay, so... I've been friends, really good friends with this chick going on 4 years. I've liked her in the past, at the beginning, for about a year, asked her out... no dice. I got over her, and had a relapse. I've like her for the last year or so. I tried ask... (139 words)

Should I go back to work with my ex? He'll be my boss.

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I and my bf (ex now)we used to work in the same company ,he was my boss too ,it was job he offered to me, so I had to resign from my previous job , due to some circumstances in the company , they cancelled my job for sometimes , they send me home , one week later I broke up ... (213 words)

This guy has me confused! He doesn't want a relationship but wants to hang out all the time...

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy for 4 months and I need help to figure out if it is going anywhere. We don’t live in the same town but are close enough that it’s easy to see each other. When we first met he was the one who would text me all the time and wanted to know ... (572 words)

How do I give good phone sex?

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to have phone sex with me. I would love to try it but an not sure what to do to make it enjoyable for him. I know to moan and breathe heavy and that kind of stuff, but what else do guys like. What are some things I can say to him that will really make him go ... (62 words)

Where does the cum go during sex?

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay im just curious and just a lil confused. When a girl has sex with the guy, withought a condom where does all the cumm go? does it stay in or does it come back out. And when girls clean their genatalia waht/how do they do it ive heard of doochebags i just dont understa... (85 words)

I'm terrible at math. What can I do to overcome this?

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshman in school and I am getting back on track after a terrible semester. I still need to pass my math placement test and I am terrified. I am TERRIBLE at math! I'm so scared I might not pass or do well in the rest of my classes. I also need to transfer since I ... (106 words)

Falling out of love or running out of things to say?

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been feeling very disconnected and withdrawn from my partner. Because we are what would be termed as an 'opposites attract' couple, I have found that NOT having certain discussions w/ him is a way for me to avoid - what I feel - are the glaring differences between us, ... (391 words)

He promised me he'd always be at my side but that was a lie. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I just need a little help, if not that, support, to get through this. My boyfriend, whom I have been with for two years straight, broke up with me last night. I didn't want to let him go because we really had something there. And for those adults on here that ... (174 words)

Am I blowing this out of proportion?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok I was here last week asking if i was blowing it out of proportion. With all of your help and friend and family i realized i was not blowing it out of proportion. I decided that i want a divorce and to move back to the place we just left. i have told him this and he wants me ... (190 words)

Did she just use me sexually and will she ever come back to me?

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is a long post, but I feel all the information in it is necessary. A year ago in August, I started my second year of college. It was at this time I met her. I had known her from when I was in elementary and middle school-she was a grade below me. My best friend i... (971 words)

Should I attempt to move on even if I don't see a future without him?

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So my ex and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. We were friends for about 3 years before we started dating and when we finally did it felt like everything fell into place. Well when he broke up with me he said that he was just in a bad place in his life and didn't know where he was ... (388 words)

Intimidation for female sexuality!

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sexually my girlfriend and i are having considerable problems due to lack of experience on both our parts and she also has vaginismus (which she is currently seeking help for) so no penetration can take place. We have been together for coming up to 11 months. In the early ... (826 words)

I'm shy, she's shy..how is this going to work?

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24 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a shy guy, not a whole lot of relationship experience. I met this girl at a dance last friday, and we were grinding and dancing most of the dance. Ive phoned her a couple times and we've hung out a bit during lunch, but shes really shy around me unless her friends are with ... (156 words)

He hurt me and I have cut off all contact

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24 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A business colleague and myself developed a deep friendship where the attraction was very evident. I am married and he is single. However none of us acted on it. We would spend hours talking about our lives and business. At some point I realised that I was perhaps leading him ... (174 words)