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writes:Hey,I need some advice please :)!! In July I met a guy at Uni, but as it was the end of term we spoke about twice and although it was flirty nothing happened. We didnt speak all summer, however two weeks ago he began facebooking and then texting me and asking if I wanted to do something in the first week of term with him. Of course this sounds as if he is interested in me and for 10 days we did not stop texting and flirting and he told me how good it was texting me. We went on msn and had chats late at night and he played truth games with me where he asked questions such as 'how long does it take you to know if you like someone'. his answer was 'not very long at all'. I don't know if that was a hint. He has arranged to watch films with me and go for a drink with me too. However 2 nights ago, we were speaking on msn and he seemed a bit more distant than usual as if he didnt want to speak to me and for two days now he hasnt texted or made contact with me which after 10 days of constant contact is a bit upsetting and makes me feel as though I have done something wrong. On the other hand he could be waiting for me to text him first as he has done a lot of chasing, but then it was very strange how his attitude just seemed to suddenly change the other night. Could anyone advise me what to say to him, how long to wait and what they think of this?? Thank you very much xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): I hate to say it, but maybe he was texting and IMing because he was bored. I would give it a few days, and then ask him if he still wants to meet up for that drink/movie night. If he doesn't reply, changes subject or makes an excuse and doesn't initiate any contact, then leave it. Don't waste your time or pine after someone that changes so quick!
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (16 September 2009):
 Agreed with deliawood.
When something is burning hot and there appears to be this "fabulous connection", it tends to burn out more quickly. Next time, create some intrigue by not being so readily available for "constant contact for ten days".
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Don't text him at all. It sounds like he is not interested.
He knows he hasn't maintained contact. Let him be unless he gets back with YOU.
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