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My best friend has a thing for my boyfriend!

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Question - (16 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *onfused389 writes:

I really think that my bestfriend has a thing for my boyfriend..she always finds a reason 2 ask about him and she turns into a different person when he's around...she has never done anything like this to me before at least i hope not but she like to stay in touch with all my ex boyfriends....i would never do anything like this to her what should i do...i really like him i might even be in love with him and i told her that but for some reason i think the more i like him the closer she trys to get to him...im hurt and i try 2 talk 2 my boyfriend but he just thinks thats how she is buts shes not......HELP ME!!!

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A female reader, mzredbone United States +, writes (16 September 2009):

I think your friend is a hater.Does she have a boyfriend?If not there is your answer.She is probaly jealous and in need of attention that you are getting while on the other hand she is not.I wouldn't be calling her my best friend if she was behaving the way you say she is.She is keeping in touch with all your ex's,what kind of joke is that seriously,a true friend would not do that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009):

I think your friend just wants attention and is jealous of you. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, then she is probably lonely and misses you. Try to have a girl's day with her- go shopping, see a movie, get lunch, etc. If you hang out with you and your bf along with your friend, have your bf bring one of his guy friends along so there will be 4 of you and she will have someone to talk to. Your boyfriend is with you because he likes you, not her. Don't let her bring you down.

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