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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'd like my b/f to communicate with me more and not be so shy

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend that I have been with for four months now. We have known eachother for almost 2 years and were best friends before we got together. I liked him for a long time and come to find out after telling him 4 months ago he was in love with me. I was so touched and I ... (173 words)

Too much has happened and I think I'm growing up too fast

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

17 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So heres the thing i have just won a legal battle so as me and my pregnant girlfriend can live on our own (you wont have heard about it, non of us wanted it to go public). We now live in a flat for 800 rent which the court pays. I LOVE my life, the court pays for near enough ... (107 words)

My boyffriend's dad is breaking us up! Are we still together or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I just had a question exactly a month ago about another guy. Well, his friend had the same problem as me with breaking up at the same time I did. I asked him for advice, since he seemed to know what he was doing to get over his ex-girlfriend. We started talking, I'd call ... (721 words)

What did his answer on Facebook mean?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Ok I am so happy well before I said things that I regret to the boy I like allot and I apologised yesterday and he replied today and said.....haha we all make mistakes..... What should I say back? Does he like me back now? Signs: Staring Eye contact allot Corne... (150 words)

Why are girls aged 15-17 still classed as children?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering, because people seem to be under the impression that anyone under the age of 18 is naive, easily-influenced within relationships and does not know their own mind? I would like to argue that in many cases, this is not true. If you take a novel like Gone with the ... (358 words)

I have a great desire for sex but feel nothing when he touches me

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have greate desire for sex, but when my boyfriend touches me i do not feel anything not even during intercourse,i do not get warm even, i enjoy while i rub my clit or when he licks me there, what is it? how can i cure this problem? friend please help!... (51 words)

Is she interested? I can't tell for sure.

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i recently joined college, i'm only 16 and the girl i'm interested in is 17 she is in all of my classes i help her with her work ect ect but she keeps looking at me when i sit apart from her and smiling at me i wasn't sure if she was interested in me also, i guess she ... (117 words)

How do I not scare him off and make sure I don't get hurt again?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a man for almost 2 years. We had chemistry and attraction and a connection and our moments together were very tender and special but during that time he also dated other women since he never committed himself to me. this hurt me very much but i never said anything ... (320 words)

What can I do about my clingy friend?

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17 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I'm not sure what to do. I have a clingy friend and I've been able to tolerate it for a couple months, but now it's to the point where I'm tired of it. If I don't pick up when she calls me, she repeatedly calls me back until I answer plus she texts me all day. I know that sh... (238 words)

She lives so far away what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i meat a girl over the internet. We got talking and the next thing u know were in love. But she lives sooo far away i dont know what to do were only teenagers andi cant stop thinking about her. What should i do.????... (49 words)

Am I being selfish or is there something missing in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a year and a half. We just moved in together in July. We have good times and bad times, like any couple. We are incredibly attracted to each other, and have an awesome sex life. A few months ago, I met a bartender that I... (465 words)

What can I do to patch things up?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfreind brok up with me a few months ago now and I dont know what to do. I still Really love her and need to find a way to get back with her. The issue is i made stupid mistakes when she dumped me, I talked about how she was a hypocrite because she made me spend more time ... (110 words)

What can I do to help this girl who has illegal sex?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I accidentally overheard about a twenty year old man who slept with a sixteen year old high school student. It sounded like she was getting help from friends, but what should I do? I don't really know her, but I know that it is illegal. Still, if I don't know the circumstances ... (65 words)

We broke up and I slept with his best friend

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17 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - one year ago my boyfriend broke up with me for no reason.I went off the deep end and did something i will regret for the rest of my life.I slept with one of his best friends. Awhile later me and my ex hung out and were talking, awhile later we both found out that we have ... (274 words)

He was affectionate with his ex but with me he's not

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid my boyfriend of three years is hardly ever afecionate with me. he told me he doesn't like public displays of affection and that he has never been very romantic etc...however i found out about four months ago that he used to be romantic, affectionate etc with ... (324 words)

How many times can most women climax in a row?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a three year relationship with a girl that was not really right for me (there was love, but a great deal of immaturity), but she was really fun to serve in bed. (I mostly gave to her, not the reverse, and we only went to third base.) When I gave her oral th... (246 words)

How can I find out things about him without getting hurt?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. You may have guessed by now that I don't have the best luck in men. Five have been gay and the rest are just to horrible to speak about. Right... I've met this really nice guy at university. We're both in our early 20s and as far as I know we're both single. He's not... (182 words)

Should I stay for the sake of our child and lose my sanity or go?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm married to an older man who I don't love, and probably never have. He kept throwing perks in my face and I took the bait. Now eight years later and a three year old I find myself depressed and wanting out. I sometimes feel like I'de rather be dead than go another day with ... (157 words)

Two guys on my mind..which one to chose?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) okay so there are two guys on my mind right now, and I am having a very hard time choosing which one to go for. Guy one is very funny, he's very musical and really nice. However we only really talk online and we don't talk much at school, but I really like his pe... (342 words)

I'm the smotherer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months now and I think that whole honey moon phase is coming to a crashing halt. And well, I don't like it but I'm going to get used to it because I want to be with this guy and that's just how relationships kinda go. But, I don't ... (393 words)

Should I make an advance or back off?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, this summer i met a girl. I wasn't immediatley attracted to her, but we've become quite good friends. As i say, i didn't immediatley feel anything romantic, but i'm a firm believer in personality, and that it can make or break someone. Well as i've got to know her it's... (163 words)

B/f & I broke up because of interference from his ex g/f

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just need some advice. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and were both young. hes a senior and im in college. his ex girlfriend has been spreading nonsense about him around his school making it hard for him to make any friends. so i stepped in (i regret) ... (570 words)

He knows I don't like him talking to his ex but he does it anyways!

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17 September 2009 (F)

I need advice before I decide how to progress with this friendship...

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've known this guy for a few years and we lost touch with each other when we both switched jobs, but now he's been working for the same company as me for the past 2 years. We've always got on really well and have loads in common. When we are at work we email each other... (434 words)

Can a man change his mind about being in a relationship over time?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is is possible when a guy says that he doesn't want a relationship to change his mind through time?? I have met a guy recently who has said that he is not ready for a relationship but last time we met - we talked lots and he did say that I spoke alot of sense with some of the c... (210 words)

I worship her like God but she's married!

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a married woman. She is one of our teaching staff in our college. I don't know when it started but now I can feel that. At First I was thinking that its just an infatuation,and will go out of mind after some time. But it didn't. I am in great trouble.I see her ... (307 words)

My mom gave my boyfriend my underwear!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been struggling with this for a few weeks now, since I started college. To start... let me just say that I have an overbearing, overprotective helicopter mother. One of my guy friends call her "mama Sikorsky". Two weeks before I left for college I found a text mes... (277 words)

How often does a guy contact you when getting to know you?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I guess a general question on when you start seeing someone.... How often do folk think that a guy should be contacting a girl when they are not really dating yet -just seeing each other when they can whilst they get to know each other a bit more. Have met someone recently... (128 words)

Could antibiotics taken a month ago cause change in period?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, for the last 2 days ive been getting my period, but its not heavy at all, and seems quite pale. There is hardly any blood, which I think is unusual as im normally quite heavy on the first 2 days. Ive been pretty regular for the last 2 years. The only time this happened... (121 words)

My parents friends are telling them things about my b/f and I

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a serious problem and i need some good advice.so i met a guy one month ago and he is very sweet,kind and caring.we have been together for almost 3 weeks and we get along really well.but he is more older than me,he is 18.my parents didn't accept him at first because they ... (204 words)

Should I say "I like you but I won't sleep with you"?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If I had sex with this guy would he think I was easy? I have known this guy for about three years, we have never dated but french kissed on a couple of occasions, we know each other through mutual friends. We have texted each other but he never calls to ask me out, he alway... (167 words)

Would you stay in a marriage where you aren't loved?

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17 September 2009 (F) age - What are the signs that your husband loves you? I feel my husband does not love me, and i wonder, if you could describe, how you would feel loved. I just want to make sure I'm not mistaken ,when I think he does not love me. Because would you stay in a marriage where you don't ... (60 words)

Meeting my ex for the first time since break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I broke up with my boyfriend of 8months about 10 days ago over the phone. Was sort of mutual - his lack of communication for the 3 weeks previously had annoyed me intensely, and also given me a vague idea that he wasn't feeling the whole relationship thi... (189 words)

Ex needs me to help him get back on his feet but is that using me?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone... thank you for reading my issues and thank you even more for those who respond to them... So I have been out of my long term relationship for about 20 days and my ex continues to call me about 3 times everyday. I cant deny it I really miss him, somedays more ... (170 words)

He thinks we should take a break to purse our lives and not stifle one another

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. We both love each other very much, we live together and have made plans to share the rest of our lives together. We have had the usual fights and differences in relationships, up until about 2 months ago. It just ... (481 words)

I feel second best to her ex!

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship; in November, we will have been together for two years. She started grad school recently, and she says that she wants a change of scenery because she's been sitting around the house lately (understandable). So, she g... (936 words)

How do you get over your affair partner?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and had an affair a few years ago. Its not something I am proud of, my head just got turned when I was in a low place. I have not met him for four years but have been in touch via email. The thing is whilst I know I can never be with him, I miss him so much... (164 words)

He asked for a break, slept with someone else and now is on a year sabbatical..where does that leave us?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP HELP HELP I have been with my fiance for 7.5years and have had fantastic times with him. We have beenn all over thw world and had amazing times. The only problem is I can only ever spend the night on a saturday night. He is not married, we see each other every day and nigh... (658 words)

I cant seem to let go! What's wrong with me?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am going to be totally honest here because I think I am missing something, I am a 24 year old female, who has never had a proper boyfriend before, I never seem to click with anyone, however I have met a cute guy who seems interested, we have kissed about four times... (219 words)

What did he mean when he said we would have passionate sex?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was chatting to a friend of mine a few weeks ago online who i have know for years but lives in a different country and we were talking about when i go over and visit him soon and we got onto the subject of sex and he said to me that he would not fuck me but we would have made ... (70 words)

Is it a good idea to stop taking his calls so he can decide if he wants this relationship? Or will ignoring him just drive him away?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up after a 3 years relationship. I was devastated. We didnt speak for about a month and then he starts calling and sending me text messages to say lets meet up and talk. I relented after a week and met up with him. He said he's wanted to talk about our ... (265 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to want to please me?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend doesnt seem to care about how to please me, when he fingures me he does it cause he wants to. he wont do it if its just me that wants it.... cause i admit im to young to have sex and im sexually active its how i keep myself in controll with it... but yeah he sh... (75 words)

Do you think she regrets "settling" while she was so young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I fear this may be a long post as I have a lot on my mind at the moment. My situation is as follows: I have been happily married to my wonderful wife for the past 7 years but our relationship dynamics have changed drastically over this time and I guess I'm just wondering i... (943 words)

My boyfriend's ex-wife wants to meet me. Should I allow this?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend's ex-wife has asked to meet me. My boy friend and I are living together, we are 34 and 39 years old, working professionals and there are wedding plans for the future. I have a 6 year old child and he has three children. They have been divorced for a year, me for ... (279 words)

A question for the ladies about contraceptives...

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - As a matter of interest,how many of you girls use spermicidal contraceptive inserts on their own? Is it because condoms prevent the closest intimate contact? I Know that they are no good for preventing STDs.... (41 words)

I suspect my wife of cheating. What should I do?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, this is my situation. I met my wife 10 years ago, we have 2 boys. However during all those years i seen a very unusual friendship with her sister's husband. She makes comments like "I LOVE MY IN-LAW AS THOUGH HE WAS MY BROTHER" or in reunions when they meet is not just a ... (371 words)

Sex is extremely painful for me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sex is painful for me. I've been to the doctor, and she can't find anything wrong with me, although it was very painful when she put anything inside me. She said it's probably all in my head. I don't think anybody gets how frustrating hearing that is. There has to be a ... (137 words)

I know they messed around, but my wife won't admit it. How can I deal with how angry this makes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im currently deployed to Iraq, I got married to my wife before I left and we found out she was pregnant. She is completely faithful and the best woman I've ever met in my life, I love her beyond words, and she will be my wife until the day I die. But the problem with loving her ... (601 words)

I keep losing my erection during sex. What can I do?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having some sexual problems. I've been sexually active for about four years now, and I have never had any problems with my erections. However, this summer I experienced some signs of E.D, which was very stressful. I went to a doctor and they examined me, and found nothin... (204 words)

What can I do to ignore their taunts and stop them from aggravating me?

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17 September 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I have been working at my job sincee 1999. A lot of guys that worked there had tried to talk to me, but I was never interested. Many of them seem to be up to no good. I have always tried to carry myself in a respectable manner and treat people like I want to be treated. I pret... (468 words)

Is she leading me on?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - In the start of a new high school year, a girl in my Foreign Language class instantly attracts my attention. I'm a pretty zany kind of guy, so when we had classwork to do (our teacher allows us to work with anyone we wish), I went around the class trying to copy answers, an... (210 words)

I kissed his friend and now he's not talking to me... but we were never going out. Help!

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so i have liked this guy for ages and he knows and he has told me that he likes me as well but we are not together and are both single. When we are together we act like we are a couple and he is really sweet. He still has a lot of contact with his ex girlfriend but he says ... (120 words)

How can I get him back in my life?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up last week, it my choice. He did some things that I didnt like. We didn't speak for a week. Now I'm kinda regretting it. I want him back. Despite what went off. If not as a lover, then at least a friend. I text to see if he's alright, and he replied, he w... (114 words)

Am I shallow for not wanting to date her again?

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17 September 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Hey all, well Im a little bit ashamed of myself writing this. I think I may be a shallow guy and i never thought it before. My sister set me up on a blind date. I was dubious anyway but went along. When the Lady showed up I knew straight away that I wasn't attracted to her... (198 words)

Her past haunts me but I'm so in love with her...

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 year old and deeply in love with a girl of 16 years old, the problem is that she lied to me by telling me that she was a virgin but unfortunately after spending times with her i came to learned that she is not. I now know with whom she slept with and how many people were ... (90 words)

Should I ask her out again after all these years?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, here goes. This is a long post, but Its complicated or at least I think it is. Back in the spring 05 I got married, had a child and then my wife left a year later while my daughter was very young. I retained custody through the divorce and been single for over three y... (775 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years(we are both 26). We bought a house 3 years ago and until 12 months ago were happy as ever. 6 months ago I began mentioning that I thought it was time we got engaged. He always changed the subject and said he wasnt ready ... (199 words)

Can he ask for custody to our baby?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been dating a turkish guy for a year and got pregnant. My boyfriend didnt want to marry me but we still keep the baby, ill born my baby in turkey. I still have a contact with my bf. My question is: can he ask custody to our baby and what is my babys citizenship?... (55 words)

Am I a hoe because I agreed to have sex with my boyfriend?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 19 and I am 16. We live in Australia so it is legal. We were making out the other day and he started feeling my breasts under my shirt and vagina on top of my pants. He quietly asked me if I'd have sex with him and I was so turned on, I immedietly said yes. ... (71 words)

I faked an orgasm and pulled out after only a minute. Is there a chance she will be pregnant?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and me had sex last night. We were both a little drunk, but we made the use of the tow condoms we had. About 20 minutes after sex, she gets a little excited, and asks me to put it inside her. Even though I was in the state I was, I knew that she wasn't on the pill ... (104 words)

Should I tell her husband she was cheating on him?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, so I was seeing a girl who lied to me...I later found out she was married. Apparently the husband was away overseas; she has gotten back together with him and has cut off all communication with me. My question is should I email/ tell the husband? Would that be illegal? to ... (69 words)

B/f had alot of partners I was a virgin before him

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is kinda personal but here we go I was a virgin before I met my current boyfriend, and he has had his fair share of partners, we havnt been having sex for long, and I feel like I'm awful at it, Im very self critical, and feel like he could always be comparing me to ... (145 words)

Should I hope he will change? Or just give up?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i recently went on a "break." this happened after we had a big fight because i had a feeling he was lying to me about something so i violated his privacy on facebook by loggin on as him thus proving he was lying to me. He had promised me he would stop talking ... (368 words)

Step cousins in love

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I am 15 as well is my step cousin who I have a huge crush on. I've known her for about a year and a half and I like to flirt with her and she flirts with me a lot. My step dad said at the beginning of his and my mom's relationship that me and her would be perfect for ... (105 words)

How do you make a back rub sexy?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend says that back massages are a turn-on for him, but they have never seemed particularly sexy to me. Since I can't see the sexual aspect of it, it's been hard for me to incorporate them into our foreplay because I can't figure out how to make them sexy! How can I... (64 words)

Unsure what to think of my wife's talk and actions

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - some advise plzzzzz. from my previous posts you may remember my wife and i had separated awhile ago and she had played around. now back together and all seems good, but my trust in her is little if any. what i would like some advise with are the following; we h... (388 words)

Confrontation or denial?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm very conflicted over the porn issue. I don't mind watching it together, but I don't like it when he looks at it on his own (how screwed up is that?). I very rarely look at it on my own (except when i'm looking to see what he's been looking at). I know a guy would say its ... (374 words)

Husband/daughter clash and how do I work this out?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age - myhusband is angry with one of our adult children for what he feels is lack or repect , when in fact it is mostly just his strong personality and our daughter being of same personality,and would rather not spend any more time with her unless its major holiday when all family is ... (60 words)

I got talked into having sex and now he says he's not ready for a relationship

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I having bee seeing this guy. He went to ontario for a month then came back on sunday in which i picked him up from the airport and paid for his plane ticket. My truck died on saturday so i had to pay for a rental car to drive him 3 hours back to where he lives. We were getting ... (973 words)

Guys only: Wonering about the G spot

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - "GUYS ONLY!!" I would like to read stories of your guys stimulation of the G-spot and how you pleasure it. Where is it located? How do you reach it? Tell me yah stories!!... (33 words)

Does true love really exisit?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a problem/issue.. but i would like an opinion from all... heres my question does true love really exist? or is it just a game? does it really exist or is it just merely strong feelings that come and go? it would b nice to have this answered... (68 words)

I need plans and strategies to get my ex back! I want him!

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote a question before, but could not find it anywhere. So here I go again. I'm turning 22 and I'm in love with my ex. We were best friends for 4 years, then date for 3 years. There were mnay ups and downs but in the end we still come back to each other, still has passio... (228 words)

Cysts on the ovary what does it mean?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok... i went to the Dr's they made me get a blood test and an ultrasound... the ultrasound shows that i have a cyst on my ovarys... small ones.. uhh and i dont know what im ment to do? can anyone help me with this? i have alot of sickness's at the moment and its just a con... (75 words)

Torn between 2 girls, part of me wants them both but know I can't do that!

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I'm really in need of some impartial advice. I am 24 and I have been going out with a girl for over 3 and a half years now. Due to our locations and the hours we work we have only been able to see eachother once a week for the whole time we have been together with ... (1034 words)

What's wrong with me? Why do guys always put me in the "friend zone"?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I feel ridiculous for saying this out loud because Men do not validate you and your life but I feel like something must be wrong with me. I don't think I'm that cute or pretty (I mean I might have an ok face but I don't really like my body) I have big boobs (that ... (167 words)

How can I get to know her?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication..the good thing is my friend said that the girl is only living only few streets from our house..now we are at ... (145 words)

Lost in an apparent man's world

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So right now I am so upset and sick to my stomach. I feel hopeless.I think I should just be alone for the rest of my life. I know people think i must be crazy , but my boyfriend and I of 4 years were already fighting and I asked him why he deleted the history on the computer. ... (223 words)

Advice for someone stuck between 2 guys

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im stuck between two guys. One was my first true love and i fell for him so hard its unbelivable but he lives an hour away and i rarelly get to see him. Everything between us was absolutely perfect but we started drifting apart and one of my friends began to like me more ... (95 words)

Fake it? Or not?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay the everpopular question..is it better to fake an orgasm to give your guy more confidence..or is it better to just let him know he hasn't..help! ... (26 words)

I'm aroused before sex, but not during it! How does this make sense?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 5 months every time he touch me or said something to me I get horny but when I'm having sex with him I don't get horny at all what does that mean? do that mean I don't love him because I feel like I love him please someone help me ... (63 words)

I need advice for meeting her parents for the first time!

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I need some advice from you people out there willing to help me. So my GF finally decided to tell her parents about us, and surprisingly her dad didnt take it the way we thought he was going to. On the other hand, her mom was somewhat upset with her. Things have gotte... (116 words)

Dating a man, and developing deep feelings for him, but the no sex thing has me confused!

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for 6 weeks. He is very nice and I'm beginning to have deep feelings for him. The problem is, I don't know if he feels the same. He told me that in the past, he has had a tendency to get very involved very quickly. The last relationship before ... (253 words)

Do men like to chase? Or do they actually like slightly aggressive women?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been wondering this as I've read some books as well as some articles online about women basically using manipulation or playing games to keep a man interested. Simply put: men like to chase. However, I'm starting to believe it's BS, and was wondering what others ... (228 words)

What will make him come back?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been growing apart. he no longer does cute stuff anymore and hardly hangs out with me... when I asked him what was up he said he wanted to be in the relationship but sometimes her doesnt... he also admitted to me that he's bipolar that doesn't bother m... (79 words)

I used to be frightened of her, she thinks I'm a twerp, but I like her!

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i like a girl in my school, alot. she has alot in comon with my interests , but the only problem is that she has a 5 year hate on me. to her ive been an annoying little twerp. ive acctualy disliked her for a long time, ignoring her, fearing her (with acctual genuine fear) but ... (77 words)

She's not attracted to me but doesn't want a divorce!

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of six years says shes not attracted to me anymore but love me and doesn't want a divorce. We are going to counciling to figure out whats wrong in our relationship. Nor does she have a libdo. I don't know what to do.... (45 words)

His ex is a destructive monster!

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17 September 2009 (F)

age - Well here it go's. I'm married to a man I love very much. For the past four years we have dealt with his insane ex wife that is a parasite for his money. They have a son I adore but she has braine washed him to be distant from me. My husband has beem physically and mentally ... (422 words)

Why would my ex boyfriend kiss his new partner in front of me?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why would my ex bf get off and make big scene with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other last night? But couldn't stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happend to be a ... (109 words)

To guys who have kept their virginity into their 20s

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - As a guy who has kept his virginity into his 20s, how would you feel if your potential first girlfriend had over 6 years of sexual experience? Could this relationship still work? Would you be wishing that she had waited too?... (41 words)

I'm confused by this crush I have!

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on this guy. He is now friends with me and my husbsnd. I have been married for 7 years now I totaly have a great marrige but I dont know what happen. I am a bartender he comes in when I work that is how we met. Now my husband and i hang out with him all the time ... (126 words)

I've got problems talking to my friend. Any advice?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey erm well wondered if you could help me, this may sound stupid but i have problems talking to my friend lol. I've known him for 2 years now and things couldnt be weirder. Well its strange because im not sure what to make of it. One minute hes like all chatty to me and joking ... (335 words)

I get aroused thinking about her telling me about getting laid by other guys. How do I convince her to tell me?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been on and off (mostly off) with a girl for about 10 years and we are still good friends. We hang out still and occasionally are intimate. I am still very turned on by her and when I masturbate, I normally I look at her pictures. When I was not with her she was mostly ... (352 words)

Sex with pregnant wife?

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17 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I can Have sex, when my wife is 10week of Pregnant. kindly advice me?... (14 words)

If he wants me back so much why would he have let me just like that?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He was my best friend and we sometimes kissed knowing we were only friends. I got feelings for him and eventually asked him to be more serious with me. He declined saying he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I took it well and decided he just liked having his cake and eating ... (298 words)

Why does she seem determined to make me feel bad about everything I say and do?

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17 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - We've been friends for 10 years. The entire time, this gal always tries to debate everything with me. It seems like she tries to put me down on purpose. For example, she'll make comments about my hair and how I have a "big forehead." When I was in school and complaining abou... (221 words)

Can I move to Turkey alone?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 16 year old girl from the UK and im in love with a Turkish man, we have been together for only a few months now but im so in love with him. I want to move to Turkey and live with him and get married to him but am I legally aloud to move abroad without my parents permisio... (90 words)

Everything reminds me of him, what should I do?

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have wrote a lot here about me and my boyfriend ( ex now)..i still love him to death and basically cry for him everyday...he was moving to Armenia for a while and i broke up with him cuz we were having problems and i knew long distance wasnt going to help..we have been broken ... (197 words)

I don't think I love him, but I miss his kisses like crazy!

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well basicly i didnt think i missed my ex up until the past few weeks. i went out with him for 7 months, so not the longest relationship ever but i fell for him baaad. he was the most amazing kisser in this world, i can remember our first kiss like it was 10 minutes ago, but ... (147 words)

I can't cope with seeing him! I'm still sick about this break up!

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17 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me a few months bk now over a txt and I have been trying to get over it. I refused to go back to him when he begged me to take him back. He was abusive, used to kick bins punch walls have jealous rages when i mentioned other boys i know. I know that it ... (311 words)