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writes:There was a guy I was kind of seeing he is a good friend of my ex and as you can imagine things were awkward so I backed away from the situation so I wouldn't get hurt even though I am hurt. Anyway this guy still likes me at least I think he does because he's always getting in touch with me seeing how I am etc and he got in touch the other day to ask if things we're still 'ok' between us. I said they were and made it brief then changed the subject. Anyway I'm aware that this guy has many female friends who are like I said just friends and he tells them he loves them like I tell my friends I love them all the time the thing is I know it's nothing more with him so why do I always get jealous when he's with another female. I'm aware I just need to get a grip because it is ridiculous but I still get that feeling nevertheless.
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reader, xxmissxx +, writes (16 September 2009):
 yeh i think its strange when a guy hangs out with only girls, it either makes him feel like some sort of female attracted god, or just really in touch with his feminine side.
either way, its not good grounds to build a relationship on, A.) because all those girl /friends will be prying for his attention, face it, girls get jelouse and turn bitchy, imagine him having some other girl to steal away the attention from them, can u imagine the bitchiness and whispering in his ear, (ooh shes no good ((thinking-because i want you to myself)) ) iv seen it, and tried to fight it, it never works!
B.) if hes too much intouch with his feminine side, (sometimes a good thing, but when involved with too many girl/friends), hes probably in the closet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Love is not jealousy. Having said that, I can say I am a jealous person. You should look for someone else who is not so much into hanging out with gals. There are guys too who like to hang out with the guys a lot. I doubt if you will ever overcome the feeling because you are suspicious of what he might be doing with them.
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