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Been told I'm not a good kisser so how do I do better?

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Question - (16 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

heyya! i just wanna knw how do i give a good kiss. ive had girlfriends in the past who hav sed im nt a good kisser so i want to knw, how can i give a good kiss?

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A female reader, Sweety Pie United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2009):

Sweety Pie agony auntOk, well from my experience, bad kissers dont give a nice firm kiss! And I think the boy should be the one to lead the kiss, so use your lips, dont be overly strong, but be firm. Dont bother about tounge for a bit. Try and get in a rhythum with your partner first, unless youve been kissing them for ages you wont know what theyre like. Ok once youve got the rhythum going, you can add a LITTLE tounge. Not loads! So basically your moving your lips backwards and forwards (sorry cant describe it any better tbh) so when you push forward you can add a little tounge, but only a bit to see if she responds, if so you can add a little more, but dont overdo it first time.

Also, when your kissing, dont forget to run your hands down our back lightly or across our hips. Maybe across our hair but personally I dislike this because I hate people touching my hair! But I like feeling his haha.

Hold her tight, and if she likes you then she wont care how you kiss, but it always helps!

Practice makes perfect! And practice is always fun.

Dont worry I bet your not bad, everyone is different!

xx

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A female reader, Legioness United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2009):

Legioness agony auntTop tips that make a good kiss:

1. Be gentle, there's nothing worse than a rough kiss (unless you're both in that proper heat of passion) so take it easy..

2. Don't go shoving your tongue in straight away; less is more :) just keep it like, little grips on her lips with yours, almost like a gentle suck,(I know this sounds silly but try it on two of your fingers; practise makes perfect) then after a little while of that, part her lips with yours and then go all tonguey, just like little licks of hers though, washing machines aren't attractive. Then go back to the lip kissing :)

3. Fresh breath; you don't need to have a mint before every kiss, just make sure you keep good oral hygene :)

4. Use your hands to cup her face, stroke her hair etc.

5. Eye contact before the kiss; gaze into her eyes.. Then whilst leaning in for the kiss close them, and keep them closed during the kiss.

finally, if ever you unsure, let the girl take the lead and then learn from that :)

good luck and happy songging!

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A female reader, KEL.B HERE 4 U United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2009):

KEL.B HERE 4 U agony auntheck its just a kiss you dont wana go round kissing every girl do you? nope so what i suggest is getting into a good ralationship and letting girls exsept your kissing 4 what it is, else dont let them kiss you! your only 16-17 so dont worry about your kissing yet. worry about your studying or something more important

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