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Lesbian and proud FINALLY!

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Question - (20 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, some-one help,

Last night we had abit of a party anyway we drank a lot and i fell asleep, i woke up during the night still a bit hazey and to be honest really very turned on, i quickly realised that i was being stroked and touched by another female i shot up, and she stopped in shock she tried to explain, but i didn't let her, i was caught in the moment and kissed her, she laid me back down and started licking me, leaving out the details i cummed quickly and lots all over her, it was when i sat back up that and started kissing her that i noticed my boyfriend had walked in at same stage and stood in shock, what should i do,

The worst thing is, i didnt care as much as i should and i more wanted to continue in my lesbain oral sex,

i've thought i was lesbian for awhile, now that i've done this and know it, how should i tell him, and should i try and get with this girl?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

Maybe youre bisexual? If being with a woman makes you more turned on than being with a man then maybe you should explore that side of your sexuality more and be fair on your boyfriend and end the relationship.

Who knows though, if your happy with your boyfriend, maybe he liked the idea of you and another woman, alot of guys do. Threesome? lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

Honey you should do what is best for you and nobody else what do you feel is the right thing to do? x

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A female reader, summerslady21 United States +, writes (20 May 2009):

My first piece of advice is to try talking to the boyfriend! You know he saw you in the act you can't avoid that conversation just listen to him and don't get mad if he is a bit upset! That is a hard situation... As far as the female you should give yourself time to think on it you may have just been lost in the moment! But I'm not saying you are or are not a lesbian! That is really something you must be comfortable with yourself! Maybe you can talk to the other girl and see where she thinks you should go with this but you must let her know that no matter where it leads or does not lead you are still friends! Just let things happen the way the two of you allow them to go. One step at a time! That's the safest way to do things. Good luck and keep in touch!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

so if you are a lesbain why are you now still with your bf. let him go to a hetrosexual girls and you move on to a lesbian. don't mess with his head, he doesn't deserve it.

you have made your sexual preference know and please do not torment him further.

there is nothing wrong with being straight or gay/lesbian. it becomes wrong when you mess up peoples lives in the process. and use them, then abuse them, then leave them, then find your true self. just too much drama.

you are comfortable with your sexuality . good luck

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