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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Two years ago I met a man who absolutely blew me away. He was perfect for me in every way and whenever I saw him, I felt elated, happy beyond words. If there is such a thing as soulmates, he would be mine. Complications arose and I acted irrationally, causing all contact between us to be non existant. He refused to talk to me in any form. For two whole years. I moved on despite the fact that I still love him. It was hard and painful but I had to respect his wishes. I am now with a man who has cheated on me three times. Since we patched things up he has been so good to me in so many ways. The cheating has stopped completely and im happy with him. Till a week ago. Out of nowhere the man I met those years ago has begun to talk to me again. He has a girlfriend now but he says it doesnt feel as right and comfortable with her as it was with me. Out of the blue he has successfuly waltzed back into my life. Now I dont know what to do. Give up my boyfriend of a year and a half for my soulmate and risk unbearable pain again? Or should i stick with my unwavering selfless and loving boyfriend? Please, someone give me an outsiders respective. Sigh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): In my experience its best to go with which feels right. If you know you would be happier with this "soulmate" and it would work out between you then go with him, but if you are genuinely happy with your boyfriend and you can't imagine your life without him, then stick with him.
What gives this man the right to waltze back in after so long? You've moved on with your life, its not fair for him to suddenly come back and try ruining things! If he disappeared off once whose to say he wont do it again??
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