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writes:my question is should i stay with this women who is separted from her husband and has been for 4 years.this same women has been with another man several times dating back to one year ago and now i ve caught her fancy..ive known of her for last 12 months.she has several kids..one grown and 2 small.i want to be with her but 30 days ago she ended up going out with coworkers and this guy from a year ago showed up and my girl ended getting a ride from him home and my girl ended watching a movie with him at his place,she said i fell a asleep and woke up next to him.all i did with him was give him a kiss ..thats it.she said..my problem was that she was laying on his bed as they watched amovie..disney movie..after a few hours she said she went to sleep ,she said she was exhusted and fell asleep from all the hard work she had to do at work and the drink of wine at dinner made her sleepy. should i be with her ,is it a good idea or not...i see a pattern here..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): what is your gut feeling here. then trust your gut.
i must add that they both were in a very very deep sleep. so is he also someone that cannot handle 1 glass of wine, just like this woman.
i don't know about you but my woman's intuition is kicking in here .......and the feeling is not good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionone more thing...she had a drink of wine a glass..she cant drink,never could.one glass of wine is to much for her..
she did state that when she woke up that her clothes hadnt been messed with ..she did come from work and was tired and had the glass of wine ..she states'i dont know why i went to his room..iam sorry i did..i dont remember anything til i awoke from a deep sleep and woke him up and told him to bring me home..which he replied i will after i get ready.
and then he took me home..i felt bad about it all day long"
she told me i felt bad about just being there ..but she told me later ,,i should have been there "iam sorry please forgive me"iam having a hard time for giving her..real hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): does she still fancy this guy ?and why go back tohis place. could they not have watched the movie in the lounge instead of the bedroom.so they both fell asleep at the same time on his bed? and she slept soundly until the next morning?
once in a sexual relationship it is highly unlikely that when you hook up again no sex will be taking place. in fact there is almost a certainty.
maybe i am wrong but if a person is not divorced yet, only seperated then have a relationship, is this considered an extra marital affair? if your woman has been in a relationship with this man previously then they have been having a sexual relationship, seems like it has continued. maybe theyhave an understanding to hook up every time they see each other? how can you be sure that it is over?
only you know whether a pattern is emerging here. why did she go back to HIS PLACE? just to watch a disney movie. come on! she "confessed" perhaps because she didn't want others to tell you about her one time indescretion? but he falling asleep thing is too convient. the question is - did she fall asleep before or after sex with him?
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