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writes:ok well this is very embarrasing. but here it goes.... I have been with my finace' going on two yrs now n I want a child. We have set a date and every thing to get married but that's not the problem. the problem is that I have genital herpes and he doesn't.....Yea I knw WOW. Now he has done a whole helluva lot 2me in the past even cheated n had a baby by another woman (she lied about gettin an abortion n ran to Ga to hav the baby then called him 3months after the baby was born) now he has down a lot to me n sum say I shud leave him but wat they dnt knw is is that even after I told him wat std I had he still stayed w/ me...after him cheated tho he has really changed 4the better, like I said we're gettin married now, but I want a child n I dnt knw how 2go about gettin 1considerin the fact the we NEVER hav sex w/o a condom n my fiance' is a very difficult man 2make come so there goes the turkey baster method lol jk. but He never comes with a condom on, da only way he wud come is if we didn't use 1which is not gona happen or if I gav him oral sex. I want a baby so bad n no I'm not trickin him n2 a baby either...i jus need 2knw how cud I go about gettin my baby w/o infecting him
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok well no I'm not trying to hav a baby with out his consent lol we both were thinking about it n as far as medication...i was on valtrex....idk we were both still a lil nervous about having sex w/o a condom....i jus dnt knw wat 2do
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 May 2009):
 While there is no cure for genital herpes, there are medications that suppress the outbreaks and sometimes make them almost nonexistent. You need to be asking a physician this question and see if you can take the medication. Once you have the STD under control, then you and your fiance can discuss parenthood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Talk to a professional. See your doctor. There are ways, but they are costly.
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