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female
age
41-50,
*ostAndLonly
writes: I am 34 separated from my husband because in the relationship Was mentally and verbally abused and also betrayed by my ex andNow I am in a relationship were I know the guy loves me but I keepHurting him by calling other men and having them all me and we broke up for 4 months and I slept with a really good friend of mine and told my boyfriend the truth about it and he forgave me but then I called this guy and he called me back so what I wanna know is y do I keep hurting this man that I love more than anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): because you have no respect for anyone let alone yourself.
you are so used to f*cking around and being f*cked by numerous men that it doesn't matter who the men are.
this so call love that you talk about is bullshit. you are incapable of loving anyone, until you start loving yourself.
this poor bf, just release him so that he can find a decent woman who will be selective in her choice of man. you have been humiitating him for too long and he deserves better. and believe me there is better out there for him.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (20 May 2009):
Two things:
Because you don't care at all about the new boyfriend,
OR
because you don't want to get hurt again, so you hurt the guy first. As in "Nah, you didn't hurt me; I did it".
Either way, it makes no sense.
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