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writes:I met a man 10 months ago on the internet and fell in love with him. He had everything in common with me and we instantly hit it off. We spoke for something crazy like 12 hours the first time we ever spoke to each other and it carried on that way until we met after a month. When we met nothing happened but there was sparks there and we got close at times. We had a really great time and he seemed to feel exactly the same way about me. We had random people commenting on our "chemistry" It was all set to go and turn into the "perfect" relationship. Only, after we met up he stopped talking to me, cut me out of his life as if i never happened and started going out with another girl...I'd never felt that way about anyone before and havent felt that since, he was perfect for me in every way, shape and form. I can't move on from him and find myself comparing every man i'm with now to him. I know it sounds really pathetic but i'm still so in love with him and i know he really doesn't care about me and obviously never did. Its hard to explain, but we were the perfect match. We got along perfectly and had an instant chemistry. He seemed really into me and i was definitely into him. I know this may sound silly as well but i had to go home for college when we met and he'd asked me to go to his friends party with him, but because i couldnt go, he got this new girlfriend and she went with him instead. So i think maybe he had a choice between two and went with the one he could see anytime who had no strings holding her away from him? I just never got any answers why he just cut me out and thats probably why i cant move on...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): You seem to have built up a lot from just one meeting and it could be that you so much want to be loved that you have gone a bit overboard. It sounds also as if he might be one of those guys who can make everyone feel special. You are probably right that he took the easiest option. Don't waste your time wondering why, just remember that if he could go off with someone else so easily he wasn't worth having.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Internet relationships rarely work. He obviously found that you were not really the person he wanted to be with, hence the meeting up with another girl.
Sounds like he is playing the field, I suspect that you are not the only woman he has had an internet relationship with!
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