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30-35,
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writes:I'm fed up of my boyfriends friends... Me and his friends don't get on... I've tried everything to sort it out but because of me and my ex (he's at the same school as my boyfriend) had a huge argument when we broke up all his friends obviously are going to back him up. Basically, last night i was on the phone to my boyfriend and his so called 'friends' walked past and they asked him who he was on the phone to and he lied to them and said he was on the phone to a 'random girl called Olivia' ... his 'friends' don't know that we are going out and when he tried to tell them they went crazy and didn't talk to him for weeks. this has been happening for a long time and him sick of it... should i just give up on him or should i fight back (not physically) ??? Need some help... thanks x
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reader, gemmaxx09  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 i thort i would have trouble with my ex boyfriends friends but its his family, if your with him for a very long time do u think hes still gunna be friends with those same ppl in 10years time, probably not, hes trying to be the big man and show off infront of his mates, when i first met my ex boyfriends friends he showed off soo much, i was in an ouse party with them and he spent over an hr upstairs drinking with his best mate and left me dwnstairs, i went mad
if his mates are single theyre not gunna want him to have a gf, theyre gunna want him to go out and pick up girls with them so yeh they r gunna say y u with her, but u shud tell him to tell his mates tht ur important to him and if they dnt lk it bugger off, if he doesnt do tht then fight bk
id tell him to grow up and u shud mean more to him than some stupid friends he has and tht u will be there for a long time not them
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