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writes:well let me cut the story shorti feel in love with one of my closest guy mates. Well everyone else already thought we were going out anyway. I Thought he realy liked me. Everyone said he did because apparently whenever we were together we would ignore everyone else around us. We used to hug each other for ages, we used to sit alone for hours just talking about random stuff and never get bored. We used to laugh at the most stupid stuff. Everyone urged me to tell him i liked him. They all said it was obvious he liked me back too. I told him and he just ignored me and walked off. They next day i urged him to speak and he wouldnt. I asked his sister what was wrong and she said that he finds the whole liking thing akward =[ i didnt get what she meant because how can a guy find something like that weird. Im Worried and i dont know what to do next. i realy need help =[ Reply to this Question
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 I've learned from experience that falling for your best friend - never comes easy. You put your whole friendship at risk admiting that, and although it was a brave motive. Was it the right one?
I think you really need to sit back and think about this one, dear. Are you willing to put your friendship at risk, to act on your feelings?
If yes, then just talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel about him, and I hope he feels the same way.
Pull him away, take him somewhere in private. Don't call him or talk to him on the computer, where he can hang up or sign out and avoid the situation.
He's gotta talk sooner or later, - and he will. He's probably just shocked.
Good luck
xx
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