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writes:So here is the basic. I am seventeen with a nineteen year old guy. I am pregnant with his baby. We have been living together for just over a month. I love him with all my heart but lately it feels like I am just not good enough for him anymore. He doesn't want to talk to me like he use to and all he does is sit on his computer. I had an issue before about him watching porn and now I am fearful he is doing it again. I can't help it. I am always checking his email, the computer history, etc. I find myself wishing I was with someone else and having dreams about other people. There are some times where we have fun and spend time together. Not alot now but there are times. But then right after he is back on the computer.I just wanted to know what to do. Is it wrong that I am longing for another relationship because of this? Is it normal for him to be acting like this? Am I doing something wrong? I just dont know what to do anymore.
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reader, Katrananda  +, writes (20 May 2009):
You are both very young, and faced with a big responsibility of having a baby together. A lot of change has happened in recent times - moving in together, expecting a baby.
You could start by giving the guy a break. He's not out of his teens, and has had enormous responsibility placed on him. Perhaps he has retreated to process all this.
Also, give him some trust. What are you doing, invading his privacy by going through his computer history, and his emails?
Take into consideration that you are young, vulnerable and have raging pregnancy hormones, along with raging teen hormones.
Have you thought of asking him why you don't spend so much time together, or channelling his computer time into the pair of you getting involved in an on-line game so that it's time spent together?
Your fantasies of being with someone else are simply a way for your mind to let off steam.
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