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writes:alright so here it isthis girl that goes my school has been flirting. She's alright. Anyway we were talking and somehow we got onto having sex, now we're talking about having sex with each other and I think we're going to do it.I dunno if it's fair on her, cos deep down I know I'm just using her to get over this other girl, and try and make her jealous, but I think she wants to do it.Always about a year ago she went out with a friend.what should i do?
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (21 May 2009):
Some girls would be ok with being used, most guys would including myself. As long as she knows and agrees then wheres the harm. Although, my instinct is telling me this isnt a good idea
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Don't ruin her life just to get off.
Think about the consequences. Pregnancy, STD, Hurt Feelings, emotional dilemnas, you could be call a man whore.
Don't screw ur life up just for sex.
Good Luck
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Stay Safe
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reader, sbarr10  +, writes (20 May 2009):
How would you like it if you really liked a girl but she just merely used you to get over some other flame?
What if the sex blows up with some unintended consequences? Are you prepared to deal with that?
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (20 May 2009):
 Plenty of people have rebound flings. It sounds like you are complicating things by going for somebody you know. If she's young and the same age, is she sure of herself enough to know it's not serious, to know it's not long since you were with somebody.
If a girl is after just some fun herself and you both know that it might not go anywhere. That's one thing because the feeling's mutual. But if she has no idea, then she risks getting used and hurt by you. There is a chance, being young she could be not experienced sexually and I wouldn't want this to be her first sex. There is also a chance that she'll make more of things and get hurt because you have to be very sure of yourself to accept casual sex. You have to be sure of yourself, knowing that it's only casual and won't lead anywhere. Perhaps not many 16-17 year-olds are that sure of themselves (not girls). Perhaps it takes another couple of years.
Why are you playing so close to home, where everybody has been out with somebody eachother knows.
It's one thing having a rebound fling, because you cannot live without sex. But why be that bitter enough to get back at your ex and play so close to home that everybody knows.
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